# Twelve stages of seduction **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [March 16, 2007, 1:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/twelve-stages-of-seduction/2528 "2007-03-16T13:59:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![PheroQuirk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9e8a1a/32.png) [@PheroQuirk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroQuirk)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2007, 1:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/twelve-stages-of-seduction/2528/1 "2007-03-16T13:59:11Z")
[The Twelve Stages Of Seduction - Men’s Health](http://tinyurl.com/3bv5pd) ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2007, 3:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/twelve-stages-of-seduction/2528/2 "2007-03-16T15:00:07Z")
> [@PheroQuirk](#): > > [The Twelve Stages Of Seduction - Men’s Health](http://tinyurl.com/3bv5pd) Logically speaking it sounds great! I wonder what the results would be based on the attraction buttons (emotions) instead? ---
**Author:** ![PheroQuirk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9e8a1a/32.png) [@PheroQuirk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroQuirk)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2007, 4:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/twelve-stages-of-seduction/2528/3 "2007-03-16T16:25:39Z")
Hey, Mister ‘Follow That and Fail’ Negrepper - teach me, I want to learn ; Steveo - I agree that asking women for dating advice doesn’t always prove so helpful. Nonetheless at a meta level, I found the article interesting and fun and much less bad than the usual mainstream advice. Flipping attraction switches? No thanks - I’d end up with twelve girlfriends and no time to read the forums or play with mones 😉 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2007, 4:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/twelve-stages-of-seduction/2528/4 "2007-03-16T16:46:37Z")
> [@PheroQuirk](#): > > Hey, Mister ‘Follow That and Fail’ Negrepper - teach me, I want to learn ; I’d give you four because it was an intersting read that prior to MM stuff I would have followed. It reminded me of my unsucessful days. > > Steveo - I agree that asking women for dating advice doesn’t always prove so helpful. Nonetheless at a meta level, I found the article interesting and fun and much less bad than the usual mainstream advice. Yeah I thought it was very interesting indeed. Some of it might actually work in certain situations, but like everything else it’s all about application. > > Flipping attraction switches? No thanks - I’d end up with twelve girlfriends and no time to read the forums or play with pheromones 😉 12? You’re the man! I am finding it difficult with 5… Like I said I’d give you four, but I need to spread the love around. I feel like such a slut when it says that. ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2007, 7:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/twelve-stages-of-seduction/2528/5 "2007-03-16T19:47:57Z")
haha! i totally agree with #12. the courtesy call is important. it doesn’t have to be that afternoon tho, within 24 hours is acceptable. i dunno about booking for the next time either. but the call shows good manners. ---
**Author:** ![chads](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/2acd7d/32.png) [@chads](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chads)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2007, 11:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/twelve-stages-of-seduction/2528/6 "2007-03-16T23:28:07Z")
Sometimes the results are lower than 50% of the women surveyed. I wonder why those received checkmarks.hmmm. ---
**Author:** ![bmthint](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bmthint/32/1283_2.png) [@bmthint](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bmthint)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2007, 4:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/twelve-stages-of-seduction/2528/7 "2007-03-17T04:10:46Z")
lol its kinda hit n miss tho huh i mean its liek “53%” of the women surveyed.. 47% is a pretty big number 2! ---
**Author:** ![PheroQuirk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9e8a1a/32.png) [@PheroQuirk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroQuirk)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2007, 3:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/twelve-stages-of-seduction/2528/8 "2007-03-17T15:07:31Z")
> [@steveo](#): > > Flipping attraction switches? No thanks - I’d end up with twelve girlfriends and no time to read the forums or play with pheromones 12? You’re the man! I am finding it difficult with 5… Just kidding 😉 Like, heaven forbid - try something that works? No thanks 😉 Have you experimented much with a more direct approach a la pickup101 movie moment? [Sean Newman/PickUp101 Make Girls Smile](http://seannewman.blogspot.com/search/label/Movie%20Moment) “I was on my way out, and I saw you. I couldn’t leave without meeting you. May I sit?” ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2007, 3:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/twelve-stages-of-seduction/2528/9 "2007-03-17T15:27:32Z")
> [@PheroQuirk](#): > > Just kidding 😉 Like, heaven forbid - try something that works? No thanks 😉 > > Have you experimented much with a more direct approach a la pickup101 movie moment? [Sean Newman/PickUp101 Make Girls Smile](http://seannewman.blogspot.com/search/label/Movie%20Moment) > > “I was on my way out, and I saw you. > I couldn’t leave without meeting you. May I sit?” I have used similar openings like that and yes if you are a genuine person they can work. I can’t say I have much experience with that link or that line of thought. Trick of flipping those attraction switches is stay interesting. Showering an interest with affection can turn you into an AFC easily. There has to be a balance of I find you attractive, but believe me I’m worth every second of your time. IMHO, I think this is where guys get it wrong. They are too busy saying nice things, like compliments and doing everything to garner reciprocal attention that they completely miss the boat. Treat the lady with respect, but don’t put ANYBODY on a pedestal. In my opinion everybody is equal and I add just as much value to a relationship. People should value their time with me just as much I value my time with them. Does that make sense, it’s early and I only had 1 cup of coffee?😕 ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [November 19, 2008, 4:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/twelve-stages-of-seduction/2528/10 "2008-11-19T16:33:19Z")
And another thread worthy of revival. ---
**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 4:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/twelve-stages-of-seduction/2528/11 "2008-11-20T16:44:02Z")
Back when I was more socially active (before my current LTR) I found affirmations à la “Magnetic Mindset” Cory guy really effective - I think he has some podcasts on Approach Anxiety… Back when I was picking ladies up it was just me trying things out and noticing what worked and what didn’t, but the things I remembered doing (like telling myself I was hot shit as I approached = affirmation) seemed to mesh really well with what that guy was saying. Now I really didn’t get all that long to tell how well it was working because I jumped into another serious relationship right just as I was really starting to congeal my strategies…