# Unlucky with women in Sweden **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 1, 2008, 9:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unlucky-with-women-in-sweden/20650 "2008-10-01T09:32:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 28
**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2008, 2:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unlucky-with-women-in-sweden/20650/28 "2008-10-03T14:35:46Z")
With Openess, people have been known to just blurt things out that they normally wouldn’t otherwise. I get a lot of happy “chatter” from those around me whenever I wear it and I don’t think they even KNOW they are being “over-chatty”. I hear a lot of gossip from those who aren’t usually prone to that. My hubby has always believed that women, when together and away from the men, ALWAYS and ONLY talk about men and sex.🙂 I have denied this, of course! HOWEVER, one day, I was wearing about 5 sprays of Openess around my female employees (I have only women working in my department) and the other managers (males) were out…and YES, I must confess, their conversation was strictly men and sex! I just sat back and listened! It was hilarious! I’ve never seen them like that before. I think I may have even learned a thing or two from that conversation :o ! When they finally did get back to work, one of them commented “Wow! What started that whole conversation?!”😃 What I’ve seen [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) do with using 4 sprays is people will come into my office, sit down, shut the door, and just spill. One day, I had 4 different employees come in to talk with me about 4 unrelated issues. What would I get from them had I NOT been wearing Honesty? I’d see a head poke around the corner of my door, a quick one or two sentences, and then they’d leave. It’s almost like Honesty invites them in, pulls up the chair for them, and says “go ahead…let it alllllllllll out and you’ll feel soooooo much better”! Now I actually only use 1 or 2 sprays and I always put it in the back of my hair and on the back of my neck. I find that {{ I }} am too honest and talk too much when I wear it. Plus, if I’m in a bad mood and wear a high dose of Honesty, I get vocal about it (real meaning: “I get bitchy”). If I’m in a good mood, I get too chatty which isn’t great for work. I like wearing at least a little, however, as it has seemingly helped with communication in the office. As for personal time with hubby, I only wear Honesty, one or two sprays to back of head and neck. We’ve had more “real” conversations since I’ve started wearing this. We’ve graduated from weather-talk to real-issues-talk which has been great for our relationship. My hubby’s just not much of a talker and tends to bottle things up inside but has been more willing to open up since I’ve been wearing Honesty. Of course, our relationship has changed and grown immensely in this past year, but I know the pheros have helped. Well, that’s the difference for me with regards to Openess and Honesty. I hope that helps. --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unlucky-with-women-in-sweden/20650)._