# Unwanted hits... blah. **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 8, 2008, 12:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310 "2008-05-08T00:03:56Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![beny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/9dc877/32.png) [@beny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/beny)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2008, 12:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/1 "2008-05-08T00:03:56Z")
I’m a few months shy of 22, university student. I don’t think pheromones have helped me out at all in terms of attracting girls. I try different mixes and don’t really notice much difference. Only thing that happened quite out of the ordinary is as follows… not sure whether it was due to pheromones or just pure coincidence. Day 1: I was wearing 1 spray Ammo, 1 spray [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), 1 spray Instant Shine. Got some food from our student center. The food service person is a mid-30s not-very-good-looking woman. She was excessively friendly towards me while I was ordering - lots of smiles and some friendly banter. I responded politely, but didn’t really do/say anything out of the ordinary. About a week later: I was wearing 1 spray Turn up the heat, 1 spray IOpenness, 1 spray IShine. Got some food from the same place. Somehow the food service person must’ve remembered me or something. As I was ordering (with a different person) she came up and started asking me how I was doing and made some small chat. I responded politely, but kept it brief and walked away to wait for my food. I had to wait ~5 mins near the counter while they prepared the food, so I tried to stare into space and avoid eye contact with the woman. She was staring at me a bit. When the food is ready, they usually call the number on your receipt… she didn’t call the number on my receipt. Instead, she stood there holding my food and staring at me, all the while I was staring into space, avoiding eye contact, pretending not to see her, and waiting for her to call my number. After maybe a min or two, I realized that she wasn’t going to call my number, so I look at her. She smiles and gives me a wink and motions me over. She hands me my food and I’m about to walk away, and she says “wait, let me give you an apple.” I take the apple, I’m about to walk away, then she says, “Wait, do you want me to put some grated cheese or something on your pasta, hun?” I politely decline, meanwhile, she keeps acting weird (i.e. when I gave her my ticket to exchange for the food, she just wouldn’t take it and left me standing there holding it out for like 2 mins). When I left, she yelled, “Bye!”, which I thought was a bit weird. ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 1:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/2 "2008-05-20T01:02:56Z")
I guess this post has been slipped by everyone. But I am sure that all members appreciate your contribution here, so come back if you have time for more report soon 🙂 Some reps If that women have saw you before, and you never noticed anything similar, then it is due to [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/). Of course there will be lot of unwanted hits, but it is all part of the game. Don’t be discouraged or anything. You will get what you want if you try hard enough 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 1:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/3 "2008-05-20T01:20:15Z")
I may be experiencing something similar occasionally, but not with sexual hits necessarily. I notice sometimes people are engaging in conversations too long, and it seems abnormal. Pointless, mindless banter, when usually people engage in deeper, philosophical discussions with more “edge”. ---
**Author:** ![NormaJeanMarilyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/normajeanmarilyn/32/586_2.png) [@NormaJeanMarilyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NormaJeanMarilyn)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 7:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/4 "2008-05-20T07:12:36Z")
Being hot or wearing pheros doesn’t give you license to be mean(I’m being nice). If you are going to choose to wear pheros, you may be able to choose what kind of women hit on you race wise, but not lookswise. Be glad that you’re as good looking as you are and that by the grace of God you haven’t had your face and body mangled in a car crash or were born with no nose or ears, like some people. Yes, I am not being nice because in your post you’re coming off as a completely stuck up ass (to me). flame me, call me names, but I am being honest. ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 7:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/5 "2008-05-20T07:52:21Z")
I agreed with what you said there NormaJeanMarilyn 🙂 It’s true on what you said there. Reps for this 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![NormaJeanMarilyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/normajeanmarilyn/32/586_2.png) [@NormaJeanMarilyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NormaJeanMarilyn)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 8:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/6 "2008-05-20T08:22:59Z")
Well, someone on here didn’t and I received a tongue lashing via PM from a MOD. Freaking real adult there, people. ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 8:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/7 "2008-05-20T08:30:47Z")
Sorry to hear that, well i still agree on what you said there. Maybe some might not agree with me or you there well everyone got their own opinion & they are free to express it out. ---
**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 8:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/8 "2008-05-20T08:38:00Z")
Normajean is right. When you wear pheros, you send out messages to everybody, and you have to take responsibility for those messages. When you walk up to somebody wearing phero and they are aroused or attracted to you, you are sending the message to them. Don’t be mean, just take it as a compliment, the same thing as if somebody commented on your clothing or your cologne. If it bugs you, don’t wear pheros around that person or reduce the dosage so you get a comfortable response. I’ve read that androstenone affects older women much more than younger women. Based on my experiences, that may be true. So you may be targetting older women with a higher dosage. If you don’t want to target older women, don’t wear androstenone, especially if you are young. ---
**Author:** ![NormaJeanMarilyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/normajeanmarilyn/32/586_2.png) [@NormaJeanMarilyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NormaJeanMarilyn)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 9:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/9 "2008-05-20T09:20:28Z")
Everyone has the right to have their opinion, but this isn’t grade school. I wasn’t mean, call him names or purport to be speaking for the rest of the board. I gave what is commonly known as an opinion. I’ve read MUCH worse on this board and I doubt anyone got a PM from a Mod because of it. ---
**Author:** ![bubblebob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bubblebob/32/2120_2.png) [@bubblebob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bubblebob)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 9:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/10 "2008-05-20T09:51:28Z")
You know, when you are wearing [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) you have to realize that these molecules won’t only effect the super duper hot perfect 10 which you may want, but it in fact has an effect on everyone around you! This brings some kind of extra responsiblity with it - so if you happen to come across someone that may not be your type treat this person with _respect_ and _friendliness_. Pheromones should come with some kind of treaty that makes sure you do so… 😉 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 9:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/11 "2008-05-20T09:59:02Z")
Ah Ha I found the post your referring to. 🙂 Just for the record Tish is not the Mod who sent the PM. I agree with your point though, you cant control who is attracted to you when you wear mones anymore then any other attractive person can control people hitting on them for being good looking. It just happens. I do understand why you received the PM though. You did call him a name and although we are uncensored here we do keep a eye out for that. I have sent PM’s to people instead of posting in there thread to express how I feel or to give them a friendly reminder of the request that Michael made in the stickie section. > [@Women, please read before posting](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/women-please-read-before-posting/44): > > Everyone should be able to feel comfortable talking openly in the men and women’s forums. Women can feel free to help men here, but please don’t terrorize men here for openly being the pigs you just “know” that they are. slight_smile We’re all human, and want similar things, even if we approach them differently. Men tend to be a little extreme and more “tough talking” (especially among their male buddies), that’s all. They still mean well. Let’s keep this environment upbeat and supportive. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![petervz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/919ad9/32.png) [@petervz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/petervz)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 10:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/12 "2008-05-20T10:51:12Z")
Yeah I thought your first encounter seemed pretty promising. Like bubblebob said the pheromones effect everyone not just the hotties! ---
**Author:** ![bugmenot](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bugmenot/32/1412_2.png) [@bugmenot](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bugmenot)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 10:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/13 "2008-05-20T10:51:42Z")
> [@bubblebob](#): > > You know, when you are wearing pheromones you have to realize that these molecules won’t only effect the super duper hot perfect 10 which you may want, but it in fact has an effect on everyone around you! This brings some kind of extra responsiblity with it - so if you happen to come across someone that may not be your type treat this person with _respect_ and _friendliness_. Pheromones should come with some kind of treaty that makes sure you do so… 😉 Yea i recon u is on de ball wid dis one bubbles as we dont a wana ware some of da shit that is gonna like atract de dogs from all over town lol. What da ya sugest can squirt under de arms so as atract thems high classy sorta gash. ah somat dat smells real nice wven as i also am bit smelly like where im stayin this week. ---
**Author:** ![bubblebob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bubblebob/32/2120_2.png) [@bubblebob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bubblebob)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 10:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/14 "2008-05-20T10:56:00Z")
> [@bugmenot](#): > > Yea i recon u is on de ball wid dis one bubbles as we dont a wana ware some of da shit that is gonna like atract de dogs from all over town lol. > > What da ya sugest can squirt under de arms so as atract thems high classy sorta gash. ah somat dat smells real nice wven as i also am bit smelly like where im stayin this week. I don’t understand a single word there… 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 11:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/15 "2008-05-20T11:58:26Z")
> [@bugmenot](#): > > What da ya sugest can squirt under de arms so as atract thems high classy sorta gash. ah somat dat smells real nice wven as i also am bit smelly like where im stayin this week. Proper English is attractive to “high classy”, or so I am told… ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 6:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/16 "2008-05-20T18:11:47Z")
> [@bubblebob](#): > > I don’t understand a single word there… 😃 I got about 4 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![v0m1t](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/v0m1t/32/520_2.png) [@v0m1t](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/v0m1t)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 8:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/17 "2008-05-20T20:26:29Z")
I got the vibe from beny’s post that he is just a little disappointed for the fact that an older woman had sent an IOI. Other then that, he almost seemed neutral.. even just tolerably polite in his interaction with the woman. The only instance that seemed rude was ignoring the woman for couple of mins when she was holding the food near counter… but really, when a person stares into empty space.. even a few seconds seem like few mins 🙂 Now this often happens that we somehow convey a story very differently then how it actually happened. Sometimes the words we choose give off a very different subtle message, when it may not be our true intentions. Anyhow, back on topic. Benny: I would recommend increasing instant shine and instant openness… maybe even decresing or cutting off ammo and turn up the heat. Little background about yourself and your environment would also help. Like the ethnicity and age of people around you. bugmenot: is that an online text impression of Borat??? 😃 ---
**Author:** ![vinceb](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vinceb/32/1139_2.png) [@vinceb](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/vinceb)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 10:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/18 "2008-05-20T22:51:13Z")
> [@bugmenot](#): > > Yea i recon u is on de ball wid dis one bubbles as we dont a wana ware some of da shit that is gonna like atract de dogs from all over town lol. > > What da ya sugest can squirt under de arms so as atract thems high classy sorta gash. ah somat dat smells real nice wven as i also am bit smelly like where im stayin this week. can you reapeat that in english please ? ---
**Author:** ![NormaJeanMarilyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/normajeanmarilyn/32/586_2.png) [@NormaJeanMarilyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NormaJeanMarilyn)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 11:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/19 "2008-05-20T23:54:29Z")
Yeah, I recokn you are on the ball with this one bubblebob as we don’r want to wear some of that shi!t that is going to attract the dogs from all over town…lol. What do you suggest we can squirt under the arms as to attract the high class sort of gals? Something that smells real nice as I smell like the place I am staying this week. That is the best I can do. ---
**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2008, 12:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310/20 "2008-05-21T00:00:50Z")
I don’t think 'none does much of anything good if you are young and out and about, except get some stares and nervous reactions. Ditch the Turn up the heat. [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/unwanted-hits-blah/12310.md?page=2)