# Upcoming party help? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 2, 2006, 3:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/upcoming-party-help/177 "2006-03-02T03:40:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Cloud9](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cloud9/32/1736_2.png) [@Cloud9](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cloud9)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2006, 3:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/upcoming-party-help/177/1 "2006-03-02T03:40:25Z")
My friend has a birthday party this coming Saturday and he told me there will only be a few guys a quite a few girls. Should I throw in 1 or 2 sprays TUTH with my mix or what? I don’t know any of these women, but since there will be drinking they may be more responsive to anone? girls and alcohol are the basis of the b-day party to my knowledge, but its still a small party with only close friends. my proposed mix for this weekend so far 3 drops A314, 1 spray TUTH, 2 sprays IO, 3 sprays IS let me know if I should tweak or add/subract something. I thought about adding IFM, but i wanted to be in a top good mood for the night and reserve IFM for dates and the like…maybe I should use it? ---
**Author:** ![MHarris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mharris/32/2107_2.png) [@MHarris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MHarris)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2006, 4:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/upcoming-party-help/177/2 "2006-03-02T04:25:08Z")
> [@Cloud9](#): > > My friend has a birthday party this coming Saturday and he told me there will only be a few guys a quite a few girls. Should I throw in 1 or 2 sprays TUTH with my mix or what? I don’t know any of these women, but since there will be drinking they may be more responsive to anone? girls and alcohol are the basis of the b-day party to my knowledge, but its still a small party with only close friends. > > my proposed mix for this weekend so far > > 3 drops A314, 1 spray TUTH, 2 sprays IO, 3 sprays IS > > let me know if I should tweak or add/subtract something. > > I thought about adding IFM, but i wanted to be in a top good mood for the night and reserve IFM for dates and the like…maybe I should use it? I’d use 2-4 IO:3 IS:1 TUTH, and perhaps perhaps no A314, or a single drop. I want to be rockin’ for a party, not responsible, unless it’s a networking affair or I’m the one giving the party (or otherwise in charge). A314 would be great for a _classy_ party, but I doubt one with college kids really qualifies for that. 🙂 Now, as the night wears on, I’d also gently reapply IO and IS at some point. I would not personally use excessive -none, at least until after I’ve become acquainted with everyone. In fact, you may wish to leave the TUTH for later, period. Use a friendly mix first, then an hour or so later, apply the TUTH and perhaps a drop of A314 to buffer it. If you have Spaceland, you might want to use that in place of the [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). Spaceland is a bit sillier and “fun”, whereas Instant Openness goes more in the direction of communication. Still a light feeling, just not as light and carefree as Spaceland. ---
**Author:** ![Cloud9](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cloud9/32/1736_2.png) [@Cloud9](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cloud9)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2006, 4:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/upcoming-party-help/177/3 "2006-03-02T04:26:48Z")
how come the low dose of A314? Don’t authority figures like night club owners pull lots of booty? P.S. the party should be within a 6hour time frame..so hopefully I want need to reapply? starting around 9pm-2am maybe ---
**Author:** ![MHarris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mharris/32/2107_2.png) [@MHarris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MHarris)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2006, 5:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/upcoming-party-help/177/4 "2006-03-02T05:22:58Z")
> [@Cloud9](#): > > how come the low dose of A314? Don’t authority figures like night club owners pull lots of booty? > > P.S. the party should be within a 6hour time frame..so hopefully I want need to reapply? starting around 9pm-2am maybe It’s fine, but A314 gives more of an ideal, “I only wish I could marry a man like that” LTR vibe than “a let’s screw around and never see each other again” ONS vibe. Depends on what your goals are that night, how you want to work it, and what you’re comfortable doing. ---
**Author:** ![Cloud9](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cloud9/32/1736_2.png) [@Cloud9](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cloud9)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2006, 5:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/upcoming-party-help/177/5 "2006-03-02T05:30:12Z")
I’m never the opportunistic sex guy..even though i’d like to be the type that can just have sex on a regular basis…I just end up feeling bad about it(the women i have had little feelings for) and like i shouldn’t have done that unless it’s with someone i’m in-love with…call me christian, call me old fashioned..i simply can’t change that fact. on the otherhand I am certainly up for other things 😃 anything but intercourse. I’m very agressive sexually…I’ve often found myself seducing the hardcore christian types on the first date. having there clothes off..go figure…probably one of those things to see if I can seduce the difficult to seduce type kind of thing. just to see if i can. so maybe I shouldn’t wear the A314. thanks for the always most helpful input. ---
**Author:** ![josef](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/josef/32/2007_2.png) [@josef](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/josef)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2006, 12:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/upcoming-party-help/177/6 "2006-03-02T12:08:38Z")
i would use IFM/IS or just Spaceland or big dose of -nol. i haven’t had any negative side effects using A1, and if i did the IS would probably counteract that plus i don’t see the other males response to A1 as a negative. or just use Spaceland because girls will remember who they “felt” the best around, whether it is from laughing and giggling or just having a good time, Spaceland would probably pay some dividends a few days down the road. ---
**Author:** ![Cloud9](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cloud9/32/1736_2.png) [@Cloud9](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cloud9)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2006, 5:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/upcoming-party-help/177/7 "2006-03-02T17:42:58Z")
I was thinking of throwing in the IFM..I just didn’t want to get mellowed out. I don’t have spaceland, but I can just spray more [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) on instead.