# Update: we're officially together, now meeting her protective sister, which mix? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 23, 2009, 3:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/update-were-officially-together-now-meeting-her-protective-sister-which-mix/26410 "2009-02-23T15:26:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ac8455/32.png) [@dss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dss)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 3:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/update-were-officially-together-now-meeting-her-protective-sister-which-mix/26410/1 "2009-02-23T15:26:12Z")
Okay as you all I been talking to this girl and since Saturday night we are officially together 🙂 so now I am having to go and meet her sister soon like tonight soon and I am nervous as hell because from what I been hearing shes really protective of her little sister any advice/ mixes ? I was thinking about IS - IG and IH or cttm 2 mix ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 3:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/update-were-officially-together-now-meeting-her-protective-sister-which-mix/26410/2 "2009-02-23T15:31:28Z")
Your thinkng is great. I would keep it simple. Ishine and IG. If you want some 'nols to help conversation I would lean more towards IO or CTTM2. IH might be too revealing. ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 3:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/update-were-officially-together-now-meeting-her-protective-sister-which-mix/26410/3 "2009-02-23T15:35:18Z")
Have you got any IFM, if so, a couple of sprays won’t hurt. Other than that, I reckon IG and IShine and don’t forget to smile 😉 ---
**Author:** ![dss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ac8455/32.png) [@dss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dss)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 3:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/update-were-officially-together-now-meeting-her-protective-sister-which-mix/26410/4 "2009-02-23T15:37:51Z")
ya I have IFM just a little 🙂 so IFM - IG - IS and maybe CTTM 2 or IH or IO idk yet but ya ---
**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 3:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/update-were-officially-together-now-meeting-her-protective-sister-which-mix/26410/5 "2009-02-23T15:38:56Z")
Yeh I think you are bang on with IS, IG and IH… depending on your personality you might be able to get away with A314 instead of the IG (if you have a very friendly and welcoming personality - VIP vibe of A314 might make you seem “good enough” in the sister’s eyes). I would stick with IG unless you are a super open person though… you don’t want to come off as unfriendly ---
**Author:** ![dss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ac8455/32.png) [@dss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dss)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 3:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/update-were-officially-together-now-meeting-her-protective-sister-which-mix/26410/6 "2009-02-23T15:41:18Z")
ya when I put A314 on even my dad gets nervous around me lol so ill stick with IG …the sister is 31 and comes cross as a rude/stuck up /bitchy type you know like I am better than you type lol ---
**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 5:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/update-were-officially-together-now-meeting-her-protective-sister-which-mix/26410/7 "2009-02-23T17:24:09Z")
Heh… yeh it’s a tough call - A314 is a go big or go home kinda of solution. It will either work spectacularly well or terribly… IG is safe until you have a better grasp on how the sister reacts to high value men ---
**Author:** ![dss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ac8455/32.png) [@dss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dss)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 5:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/update-were-officially-together-now-meeting-her-protective-sister-which-mix/26410/8 "2009-02-23T17:27:46Z")
true… I got the A314 but I only used it maybe twice. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 5:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/update-were-officially-together-now-meeting-her-protective-sister-which-mix/26410/9 "2009-02-23T17:45:49Z")
I would follow Renny’s advice and go with a base of [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). Much lighter than A314. IShine would be a great addition. IFM could be good. Instant Honesty could work if you can handle the self-effects and candid conversation from her like “I do not like you. I think my sister should dump you” or “If you hurt my sister I will rip your b\*\*\* off and feed them to you.” Might not help things on a first meeting … ---
**Author:** ![dss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ac8455/32.png) [@dss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dss)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 5:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/update-were-officially-together-now-meeting-her-protective-sister-which-mix/26410/10 "2009-02-23T17:49:58Z")
okay so I got it 4 spray of IS - 3 spray of IG and about 3 to 4 spray of IFM ---
**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 7:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/update-were-officially-together-now-meeting-her-protective-sister-which-mix/26410/11 "2009-02-23T19:40:00Z")
> [@dss](#): > > true… I got the A314 but I only used it maybe twice. It’s a righteous good mix ---
**Author:** ![revivia](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/revivia/32/2124_2.png) [@revivia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/revivia)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2009, 7:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/update-were-officially-together-now-meeting-her-protective-sister-which-mix/26410/12 "2009-02-27T07:49:37Z")
how did the meeting with the big sis go? 😉 ---
**Author:** ![dss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ac8455/32.png) [@dss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dss)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2009, 2:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/update-were-officially-together-now-meeting-her-protective-sister-which-mix/26410/13 "2009-02-27T14:54:29Z")
havent had the balls to do it yet but probably today or this weekend. ---
**Author:** ![revivia](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/revivia/32/2124_2.png) [@revivia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/revivia)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2009, 6:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/update-were-officially-together-now-meeting-her-protective-sister-which-mix/26410/14 "2009-02-27T18:17:48Z")
sweet…wish you the best of luck 🙂. You’ll do fine. Just be confident.