# Using Instant Shine, Turn Up the Heat, A314 and Instant Honesty? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 12, 2007, 10:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/using-instant-shine-turn-up-the-heat-a314-and-instant-honesty/3083 "2007-04-12T10:03:45Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 2\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![hock](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hock/32/2113_2.png) [@hock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hock)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2007, 10:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/using-instant-shine-turn-up-the-heat-a314-and-instant-honesty/3083/1 "2007-04-12T10:03:45Z")
Hi all, I am a new comer here, so pls pardon me as I would like to seek some kind advises from you all. I had placed an order for the following products last Saturday and eagerly waiting for my shipment by Fedex now 🙂 1)“Instant Shine” Feel Good Pheromone For Men 2)“Turn Up The Heat” Sexual Pheromone for Men 3)“Alpha A314” Trust & Respect Pheromone for Men 4)“[Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/)” Communication Pheromone for Men My situation is such that I have been infactuated with a 35 year old lady who is older than me by 9 years. We were friends for a year before I had confessed to her that I love her before and requested her to get into a relationship with me. She had rejected my request, initially, and I decided to stop pursing her heart. However, three weeks later, when she confessed that she did have feelings for me, I proposed again and she agreed on my second request. It lasted very briefly for less than two weeks before she decided to stop it. Throughout I was feeling very insecure most of the time. She would be nice to me sometimes, ignore or be very cold to me the next. 😕 That had caused me to become emotional in front of her. We did have a sexual encounter once, but I did not want to have full intercourse, because I didn’t want to do that with her when I suspected she wasn’t sure if she could totally commit to me. It took every ounce of self control at that moment. Thas 8 months ago. After we ended that relationship, I was frightened to see her. I find that nowadays, I am different from the past. I am very nervous when I talk to her. I can’t be humurous like before when we were friends and she doesn’t laugh that often.I had contacted her once a while only and we meet up once in a two months average. I think she is fearful of getting too close to me nowadays.I do not dare frankly to try any more advances because I fear that I would lose the friendship for good if I did. Although I seldom contact her, I still love her deeply and I really want to win her heart. Even if its going to take a long time, I do not mind. I hope that you guys can advise me on how to use the products that I had ordered to get the best possible effect on winning her heart. We will be meeting maybe once a month on average from now on. Thanks very much!!🙂 Sincerely, Hock ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2007, 2:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/using-instant-shine-turn-up-the-heat-a314-and-instant-honesty/3083/2 "2007-04-12T14:40:32Z")
Hock, You seem very honorable and sincere. I suggest a drop or two of a314 - perhaps under your nose. As much for you as for her. Then 4 or 5 sprays IH, to chest and hair. It might give the 2 of you a chance to talk things over a little. Hopefully it will be at a time you have the opportunity to talk honestly in private. The best of luck to both of you in figuring out where you are in respect to each other.