Thursday Night
Last night I dropped my old roommates’ house and hung out for a few hours. They were having a gaming night so there were several guys in the dining room playing a board game. I hate board games, so I hung out on the couch with my female friend who was the only female in the house!
To preface: My ‘target’ has a boyfriend (dating for 3ish years,) but she has admitted to me that she has been interested in extra-relationship activities for a while, but would like to keep her current relationship intact.
A long time ago, I made it clear that I was attracted to her and we’ve have had several good discussions over the last few years. The conversations are always fine until she breaks out the herbs and then zones out. Needless to say, the conversation always dies at that point. (I never partake of any herbs as my brain chemistry will take me on a wild tour of our galaxy in a full ‘panic mode.’ My choice is always whiskey or vodka.)
Anyway, at this point in our friendship I’ve tried every thing I know to get her to ‘loosen up.’ From introducing her to the idea of being Polyamorous, to alcohol, to NLP, to massage, to outright asking for it! Nothing has really worked.
Last night about 30 minutes before I dropped by her place, I added:
IShine (1 spray) - back of hair
P83 (1 spray) - spread between inner wrists
TAC (1 spray) - spread between outer wrists
…this was in addition to the morning mix in my previous post.
We were alone for about 15 minutes since her boyfriend went for some party supplies, so we sat on the couch and started talking. I didn’t notice any IOIs at first until she started playing with her hair just a bit. She was very attentive to every word that I said. I thought I noticed her looking at my mouth more than usual, but what I -really noticed- was her glancing at my right hand a lot! I had my arm on the back of the couch, with my right hand about 2 feet away from her face. 
Even after a few of hours had gone by there didn’t seem to be any lull in our conversation even though she was partaking of herbs throughout. It didn’t seem to kill our conversation like it usually does. (nice!)
About halfway through the evening, I made my way to the bathroom and added one more spray of P83 and TAC to my wrists. After returning to my place on the couch, it only took a few minutes for me to see the effects on her!
Afew minutes after I came back, there was tons of smiling, a constant combing of her fingers through her hair, and she kept pushed her chest out a lot (mouth watering) and was adjusting her tshirt (no bra) and her unbuttoned sweater for the rest of the night.
Everything is going really well and I’m lovin’ the situation with everyone else just in the other room and I’m having my own little party on the couch!
The thing I didn’t expect, was how loooose yet smooooth my tongue would be! I know what IH does to me, but I didn’t know that P83 + TAC would sneak up on me like it did.
I basically told her everything that I would have normally held back on in our other conversations. I said, “You know, for a long time now, I’ve tried everything (NLP, alcohol, etc..) I know how to do to get with you.. What have I been doing wrong?” She really opened up after I asked that. She normally gives me some shit-testing line and clams up. Not this time. We ended up having a very deep, ‘mushy’ conversation until I left the party around midnight.
Next time, I need to make sure that I don’t turn into a mone-beta teddy-bear around her. It’s not that I expected to take her into the bedroom and lock the door on her boyfriend, but I would like to keep some level of self respect!