# "Venting" my Adventures **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Journals\ **Created:** [January 8, 2009, 8:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664 "2009-01-08T20:53:37Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 29
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2009, 6:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/561 "2009-05-16T06:08:07Z")
> [@marty](#): > > I’d politely tell the boss man that you’re not gonna serve her, and let him deal with the whole entire mess himself. There are plenty of other customers who need taking care of. > > I mean jeez, what’s a guy gotta do to get a drink in this place? that i did, brother ! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2009, 12:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/562 "2009-05-16T12:00:54Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > that i did, brother ! Good for you. Hope that resolves the situation at least from your perspective. It’s his business, his situation, let him deal with it. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2009, 5:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/563 "2009-05-16T17:26:09Z")
i think my newest turn-on right now is pairing up different scents to evoke the atmosphere more specifically to what im trying to create. i think its clear that to smell something light and citrus paints a different picture from something dark and resinous . there is alot of talk on this forum about being congruent, and alot of ladies play with incongruency _purposefully_ in order to get a handle on what these mixes can do _without_ the aid of combed hair and a short skirt. been there,did that. sweats and dishevelry, covered in [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) and EoW. works,_got it._ allowing that to be the comfort level of where we take this is stagnant. using aromatherapy and color therapy works synergistically these mixes. they employ color and interior design in the medical field, and i have to imagine we all do subconciously if not with intent in our homes. when we are in the flow and not really paying attention but feeling really good we do this to ourselves before we go out ( i feel like purple today…) and i think its what makes the difference between a sucessful day and a mediochre day. im rambling of course but what if we took every day and simply put aside 10 minutes before we got dressed and sprayed something on to examine what we hope to get out of our day, and what steps we can take to paint that picture. if your feeling frisky or maybe all-out passionate, accenting in red and wearing a spicy chai or cinnamon scent, maybe mentally picturing the perfect day going in the perfect flow and owning that vibration before we leave the house, i wonder what difference that kind of experimentation makes in posting on the very same mixes in the very same dosages… ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 3:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/564 "2009-05-20T03:58:00Z")
didnt wear anything to the bar tonight. experimented with Spaceland towards end of night,tho. wow. just wow. im _definately_ using it tomorow… ---
**Author:** ![Tigerlilly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tigerlilly/32/2257_2.png) [@Tigerlilly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tigerlilly)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 4:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/565 "2009-05-20T04:22:05Z")
Really??? i remember we talked about how fun(ny) that would be! Do share! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2009, 4:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/566 "2009-05-21T04:43:39Z")
alphanol and cops are my newest obsession. if ever i got the reactions i got last night with the Primal for Her, i never would have blown-off this combo. it was _magnetic_. men were kind. women were kind. barstools and tables were kind. i just want to bathe in this mixture. just so upbeat and girly. there is another side to cops (just like ALL pheromones) that isnt at all what its reputation portends. it does something to girlify and _not_ in a sexual way; it exaggerates your gender. it says i am a girl even if i put on a man’s 3 piece suit. its just so magenta. again, pheromones/cops arent all about the sex act. _sigh_ ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 23, 2009, 2:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/567 "2009-05-23T14:09:52Z")
huge bike fest in front (literally) of my bar today and tomorow. doing 2 weeks without a day off due to working these days. the peeps at work are familiar with Lor’s “neroli” clue-in to her pheromone bomb, so it is my intention this weekend to hit them with my best unscented shot. _scary._ seriously, without the right cover, your in trouble, and i have become dependant on my neroli hero to cover for me. that, and the guys in particular truely _dig_ the neroli. unfortunately, they associate neroli with "uht oh, here comes the IH " 😃 so i have to be exceptionally sneaky. i want soooo badly to wear MX134. that is my default no-one-will-screw-with-me mix. i will bring it for back-up.:o i have decided to _cover_ myself in unscented 50mu betanol 50mu TAL 40mu P86 40mu P74 (not my fave but nice wildcard) 100mu EST these are the pheromones i have unscented, so these i will use. i dont have anything else unscented except for alphanol, and that will prolly be a late night addition when we are all ready to hurt someone 😃 oh, i will also be covered in a yummy cop-vanilla bomb. im not playin around 😉 so, to cover all this pheromoney-goodness, im thinking a vanilla/foody scent. hopefully no one holds me suspect :o ---
**Author:** ![Tigerlilly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tigerlilly/32/2257_2.png) [@Tigerlilly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tigerlilly)\ **Post date:** [May 23, 2009, 5:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/568 "2009-05-23T17:50:25Z")
I predict _excellence!_ Cannot wait to hear about it. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2009, 12:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/569 "2009-05-24T12:53:48Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > 50mu betanol > 50mu TAL > 40mu P86 > 40mu P74 (not my fave but nice wildcard) > 100mu EST > > i will also be covered in a yummy cop-vanilla bomb. > im not playin around 😉 Tha sounds like a killer combo! I soo wish I could use P86 but it’s like Instant Zombie for me…I get so dopey and tired it’s not even funny 🙄 40ug would probably floor me… ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 25, 2009, 2:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/570 "2009-05-25T14:47:16Z")
> [@Xiphoid](#): > > Tha sounds like a killer combo! I soo wish I could use P86 but it’s like Instant Zombie for me…I get so dopey and tired it’s not even funny 🙄 40ug would probably floor me… i SWEAR more than just 12.5 would floor me too. heres why i use it now: i have officially aclimated to P86. while it does bring me down a bit energy-wise, i dont even yawn anymore. i have to wear larger amounts in my atmosphere, but NOT on regular days. im not trying to make others tired. at work, no one is my presence for more than a few minutes, so they dont have time to get worn down with it. i get you though, and you WOULD effect others that way in close proximity i found. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 25, 2009, 3:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/571 "2009-05-25T15:00:16Z")
> [@Tigerlilly](#): > > I predict _excellence!_ > > Cannot wait to hear about it. 😃 what a funny day. i actually wore: 40mu TAL 50mu BETANOL 125mu EST 40mu P86 i covered myself in strong spicy-pumpkin smell and i imagined all day i was fine. i took my time covering the smell and that made a difference. it wasnt a money day ( never is at any biker event. only 50% of bikers tip. _at all_. period. ) we had fun to some degree, and could laugh about the nonsense when we were done. bossman was thrilled with his day. we were NOT. like working for free. spirits were up,however,and i know from experience this was a pheromone-induced air-cutter attitude-adjuster. now SUNDAY… well, i was late to work. frankly, im exausted. bossman didnt say anything to me (thank you,EST because i know he was mad.) put on 50mu betanol 40mu TAL 125mu EST could not duplicate yesterdays mix because i was doing all this from the cab of the truck 1 minute before walking in !!! holy freaking smell! i reeked of cat pee. bad. didnt know which phero smelled like pee, assumed it was betanol but who knows. all i know is that i had zero time to cover. i walk into work, and imediately make a comment about how i need to “cover”. one person at work knows, and that feels like back-up 🙂 i added some spiciness and hoped that would get me through the day. _dude,_ cat pee wins over time. oddly enough, no one cared. super hyper chatty atmosphere. busy day, made more money 🙂 nothing like MX134 though. i have no idea what im going to do when my bottle is done. MX300 doesnt have the oomph MX134 did, but if i add more of it, that might do the trick. ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [May 25, 2009, 3:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/572 "2009-05-25T15:48:39Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > i SWEAR more than just 12.5 would floor me too. > > heres why i use it now: > > i have officially aclimated to P86. > while it does bring me down a bit energy-wise, > i dont even yawn anymore. You’ve acclimatized to P86? Hmmm… Now that sounds interesting 🙂 Kinda how the vivid dreams effect from Meo-EST goes away…Maybe I should revisit P86, everyone IS raving about how fabulous it is 😃 ---
**Author:** ![MarkL](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/markl/32/825_2.png) [@MarkL](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MarkL)\ **Post date:** [May 25, 2009, 5:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/573 "2009-05-25T17:24:03Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > _**Perfumer’s Alcohol > INCI: SDA 40B 200 proof, isopropyl myristate, isopropyl alcohol**_ > > is this the one i want? > > and is the only reason we dont use vodka because its against the law? > seriously? > > i ask because there are herbal tinctures out there and im wondering how they get around that as well. I came to this thread just to send my love … but found a question I could answer, heh! I’d no idea you’d become a star blogger here … I’d have visited more often. So – much love and best wishes! Vodka – 80 proof – is only 40% alcohol, the rest is water and “flavor” molecules. It is ~not!~ against the law to mix your perfume or pheros with vodka or other drinkable alcohol … it is just illegal to _sell_ the mix without all of the licenses that apply to selling drinkable liquor (wholesale and/or retail.) Of course, there’s that small issue of smelling like you spilled your vodka on the rocks on yourself. (The damn “flavor” molecules!) Water does behave differently in evap and sillage; one of the key differences between perfumes, colognes, and toilet waters is the ratio of alcohol to water (as well as the concentration of scented material.) Still, I use perfumer’s alcohol (or formulator’s alcohol if I will eventually add something water-based) when I dilute pheros. Perfumer’s alcohol has a tiny amount of ‘Bitrex’ in it that will make you vomit violently if you drink it. If you _can_ even swallow it; it’s more likely you will reactively spit it out before you can even think to swallow. The gummint allows companies to sell “spoiled” ethanol (denatured) with Bitrex (or with some poisonous methanol) and not pay the hefty taxes it puts on liquor for consumption. Isopropyl alcohol – rubbing alcohol – has a faster evaporation curve than ethanol and a stronger scent. Unless the manufacturer goes through some special hoops to fractionally distill isopropyl alcohol to the anhydrous stage, it will be about 12% water. Isopropyl myristate is a kind of fat, an “ester” of isopropyl alcohol combined with myristic acid. It’s a very mild irritant to the skin, but it’s used in a lot of cosmetic formulas to enhance skin absorbtion. You might be able to find an “artisan’s alcohol” which is nothing but SD40 ethanol 200 proof with the addition of some _ **hexylene glycol.** _ The hexylene glycol is about as nearly odorless as you can get, but it’s a fixative that tilts the evaporation curve of the ethanol to slow down release. It is also a very mild skin irritant. I’m a long way from using up my gallon of perfumer’s alcohol; I’d opt for the artisan’s alcohol next time, should I live so long. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2009, 12:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/574 "2009-05-28T12:57:09Z")
i havent forgotten you,Tigerlilly. im waiting on my perfumers alcohol to arrive, and im realizing it may NOT. im having this issue with a friend of mine who has sent me a package, and for some weird reason i am not getting my mail. i think i have waited like 2-3 weeks, and i really want to try this P96. should i buy more? should i use vodka? LOL ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2009, 1:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/575 "2009-05-28T13:17:05Z")
truth serum tonight. prolly not my best idea, because there are things on my mind i prolly ought not to say. if i can keep my act together, i think this is the way i will go. blowing through my EST like i cant live without my crutch. i cant decribe how important EST has become when i am always percieved as someone who will just “handle” things and take things as they come… often i am put on the back-burner because i am low maintenance, i will “always be there”. EST at work atleast, sends the message that i am working _with_ you, not for you. i dont mean to imply i am talking about the bossman; i am actually talking about EVERYONE who likes to walk into any establishment and tell the help what to do while making sure we are grateful for the opportunity to do it 😃 _screw that_,dude. i see a firing in my future after this betanol-fest 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2009, 1:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/576 "2009-05-28T13:28:40Z")
_trying to remember how to fill out a job app_ ---
**Author:** ![Tigerlilly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tigerlilly/32/2257_2.png) [@Tigerlilly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tigerlilly)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2009, 4:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/577 "2009-05-28T16:11:14Z")
Wow, things are certainly exciting in your life at the moment as well. Best of luck with it all!! May I recommend Southern California? 🙂 In terms of booming economies, this one has it made, far far better than other places. Also, lots of people here drink, and drink copiously. Furthermore, the sun and the sand will remain the same, but the humidity will be gone! 😉 Best of luck with it all. I find it interesting that you find EST to be helpful at work. I am currently testing a variety of different things to try to find a good “work combo,” and its difficult because I have a very different need than many other females at work. I come off as way TOO overbearing, intimidating and authoritative. I need to soften my vibe, yet still be respected… and I have a _female_ supervisor. I need something that will work most effectively on her. Too bad EST seems like it wont… ☹ Thanks for the heads up, by the way. Have you thought about ordering the perfumers alcohol through Androtics? They have it under mixing supplies. I can order some and send it your way…?? ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2009, 4:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/578 "2009-05-28T16:20:48Z")
> [@Tigerlilly](#): > > I am currently testing a variety of different things to try to find a good “work combo,” and its difficult because I have a very different need than many other females at work. I come off as way TOO overbearing, intimidating and authoritative. I need to soften my vibe, yet still be respected… and I have a _female_ supervisor. I need something that will work most effectively on her. Too bad EST seems like it wont… ☹ One of my favourite combo’s for work might be worth a try; - 2 sprays Mx300 for the intellectual alpha woman vibe - 3-4 sprays Mx274 for softening the Mx300 bitchiness I easily get, & for harmonizing “let’s all get along” effects - 3 sprays P91 @12.5mcg for added respect w/out being bossy ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2009, 4:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/579 "2009-05-28T16:36:18Z")
Tigerlily: im a goober. i didnt even realize Androtics sold it, and i just recieved an order from them! dammit. yes, i will go through Androtics,LOL. oh and california sounding good right now 😃 Xiphoid: i DO use the MX300, and i have the MX274. i have used them separately, because i havent seen evidence of bitchiness from MX300 yet and 274 is so fun on its own. i might try pairing them up 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Tigerlilly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tigerlilly/32/2257_2.png) [@Tigerlilly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tigerlilly)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2009, 4:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/580 "2009-05-28T16:40:48Z")
Tried Mx300 - Abso-fucking-loutely HATED it. 😠 “alpha vibe” enhancers dont work on me - I have WAY too strong of that anyway. Like I said, “traditional” women work enhancers dont do it for me. I end up coming across as WAY too authoritative, and go toe to toe with the bosses. It’s like a 'none OD. I think I must naturally overproduce TAL - think of me as Bottled TAL. Adding MORE alpha to that, when I already need to soften my image… not so good. 🙄 I just finished a two eek test of MX274 at work - It worked a little, but not substantially. I need to try something else. The only thing that has really effected my supervisors mood and made things better here has been TAA. She gets high off of it. But, nothing in the way of understanding/cooperation for _me._ I am just the diffuser. MX135 also switched her mood like a lightswitch one day. P91 for me is _silly._ I didn’t get any respect from it. I want to try [P93](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p93/) from my research (inspired by Diane). I also want to try IG +cops/P86/TAH (one of them, not all). And P75 and P80, muted with female/nuetral pheros too. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664.md?page=28) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664.md?page=30)