# "Venting" my Adventures

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664>\
**Category:** Women's Journals\
**Created:** [January 8, 2009, 8:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664 "2009-01-08T20:53:37Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
**Page:** 32

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**Author:** ![djandarial](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djandarial/32/1667_2.png) [@djandarial](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djandarial)\
**Post date:** [June 4, 2009, 7:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/621 "2009-06-04T19:01:10Z")

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Tigerlilly… You would be horrible at cards… you show your hand.

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**Author:** ![Tigerlilly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tigerlilly/32/2257_2.png) [@Tigerlilly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tigerlilly)\
**Post date:** [June 4, 2009, 8:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/622 "2009-06-04T20:33:39Z")

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So, what the fuck just happened?

anything different? anything change? 😕

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**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [June 4, 2009, 8:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/623 "2009-06-04T20:36:02Z")

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> [@Tigerlilly](#):
>
> So, what the fuck just happened?
> 
> anything different? anything change? 😕

im not sure, i only just now signed on again but i dont see anything different.

maybe there are glitches being fixed,  
or stuff added/subtracted …

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**Author:** ![Tigerlilly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tigerlilly/32/2257_2.png) [@Tigerlilly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tigerlilly)\
**Post date:** [June 4, 2009, 8:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/624 "2009-06-04T20:37:04Z")

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…thats what I am worried about/suspecting…

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**Author:** ![diane999](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diane999/32/1110_2.png) [@diane999](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diane999)\
**Post date:** [June 4, 2009, 11:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/625 "2009-06-04T23:22:26Z")

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> [@Tigerlilly](#):
>
> There hasn’t been an answer, and probably wont be until they can solve their own problems. For the moment, it is GOOD, in an environment where censorship has reigned,d to get this out in the open.
> 
> We are in disagreement over this issue.
> 
> I personally feel that a companies representative lying to the customers and trying to cover it up, and losing a good woman over it, is “shameful” and deserves the fullness of our anger. The real zinger though is the “openness” policy they supposedly espouse.
> 
> I adore their product as well - I hope to stay and rectify this situation. It behooves no one to walk away in anger. Its better to talk, vent and work through it all.
> 
> Not walk away.  
> Not give up either. 😉

PM incoming.

Diane

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**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [June 5, 2009, 3:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/626 "2009-06-05T03:39:17Z")

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well i know there is something in the stars now.

between the day i am having dealing with a very irrate ex employer,  
and the percieved division on the forum,  
me thinks this has something to do with planetary line up or  
something.

so much chaos  
for so many people  
on so many levels  
about absolutley NOTHING _life and death._

if you put everything into perspective  
is all of this emotional blah blah  
(including my own … i actually cried over NOTHING on the boss’s answering machine out of pure frustration)  
worth the calories we burned ?  
the bad feelings?  
im not sure there is much in this world WORTH having bad feelings about.

the statement we have over heard-  
" its all good "  
is one that too many people have imediate issue with.  
it almost at this point causes anger 🙄

id like to be more specific and real to myself and others  
and just say

LIGHTEN - UP.

when these issues begin to mess with whether or not im going to hell anytime soon,  
then i will spend more time on it.

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**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\
**Post date:** [June 5, 2009, 6:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/627 "2009-06-05T06:40:09Z")

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I like how you write like if you’re writing a poem. Cute. 🙂

> [@Lor](#):
>
> well i know there is something in the stars now.
> 
> between the day i am having dealing with a very irrate ex employer,  
> and the percieved division on the forum,  
> me thinks this has something to do with planetary line up or  
> something.
> 
> so much chaos  
> for so many people  
> on so many levels  
> about absolutley NOTHING _life and death._
> 
> if you put everything into perspective  
> is all of this emotional blah blah  
> (including my own … i actually cried over NOTHING on the boss’s answering machine out of pure frustration)  
> worth the calories we burned ?  
> the bad feelings?  
> im not sure there is much in this world WORTH having bad feelings about.
> 
> the statement we have over heard-  
> " its all good "  
> is one that too many people have imediate issue with.  
> it almost at this point causes anger 🙄
> 
> id like to be more specific and real to myself and others  
> and just say
> 
> LIGHTEN - UP.
> 
> when these issues begin to mess with whether or not im going to hell anytime soon,  
> then i will spend more time on it.

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**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\
**Post date:** [June 5, 2009, 4:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/628 "2009-06-05T16:50:02Z")

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Holy crap… I go to Chicago without internet access for 4 days and now I’m really… really confused

and quite interested in this PS thing

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**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [June 6, 2009, 5:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/629 "2009-06-06T05:33:50Z")

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wore almost 150mu of EST alone and got the hell screamed out of me by my SO over a misunderstood statement about video games

😠

EST is NOT a cure-all anger management be nice to me helper-outer .

😠

i smell like a musk-bomb

😠😠

im getting a glass of merlot and planning tomorows strategy  
at getting the 51 hours my ex boss owes me.  
hopefully i will get my pay.

😠😠😠

or else.

😃

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**Author:** ![diane999](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diane999/32/1110_2.png) [@diane999](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diane999)\
**Post date:** [June 6, 2009, 5:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/630 "2009-06-06T05:54:32Z")

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> [@Lor](#):
>
> wore almost 150mu of EST alone and got the hell screamed out of me by my SO over a misunderstood statement about video games
> 
> 😠
> 
> EST is NOT a cure-all anger management be nice to me helper-outer .
> 
> 😠
> 
> i smell like a musk-bomb
> 
> 😠😠
> 
> im getting a glass of merlot and planning tomorows strategy  
> at getting the 51 hours my ex boss owes me.  
> hopefully i will get my pay.
> 
> 😠😠😠
> 
> or else.
> 
> 😃

Good luck!

Diane

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**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [June 6, 2009, 6:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/631 "2009-06-06T06:33:09Z")

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> [@diane999](#):
>
> Good luck!
> 
> Diane

im going to need it,lol.  
thanks,Diane !

😃

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**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [June 6, 2009, 9:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/632 "2009-06-06T21:00:30Z")

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okay…  
i thought i could wear EST and this would be no problem,  
but  
after last night,  
EST does NOT have me confident.

i may go the route of MX134  
although that is not the route i wanted originally.

i want this to be nice and peaceful.

sure i will post about it later 🙄

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**Author:** ![diane999](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diane999/32/1110_2.png) [@diane999](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diane999)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 1:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/633 "2009-06-07T01:33:45Z")

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> [@Lor](#):
>
> okay…  
> i thought i could wear EST and this would be no problem,  
> but  
> after last night,  
> EST does NOT have me confident.
> 
> i may go the route of MX134  
> although that is not the route i wanted originally.
> 
> i want this to be nice and peaceful.
> 
> sure i will post about it later 🙄

try both?

Diane

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**Author:** ![Jedi\_Nights](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jedi_nights/32/346_2.png) [@Jedi\_Nights](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jedi_Nights)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 2:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/634 "2009-06-07T02:46:19Z")

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Full moon Sunday 7 June 2009

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**Author:** ![Curiouschic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@Curiouschic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Curiouschic)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 5:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/635 "2009-06-07T05:06:11Z")

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I love you Lor and am sorry that you are having rough patches. Take care of yourself dear one.

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**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 5:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/636 "2009-06-07T05:28:36Z")

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wore MX134, 1 juicy full spray between wrists.

walked into bar expecting to be confronted by exbossman.

he’s not there.

i call and leave message-  
“you told me to be here! what do you want me to do?”

no answer.

called 2 more times.

left 3 messages.

found out he went CAMPING and is ignoring my calls.  
this is what drug addicts do.  
they burn bridges.

so it appears he has zero intention of paying me my money.  
_for 2 weeks._

i am now planning a new strategy.

or maybe i should let 2 weeks of work go to avoid conflict?  
i will sleep on it.  
☹

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**Author:** ![diane999](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diane999/32/1110_2.png) [@diane999](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diane999)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 5:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/637 "2009-06-07T05:54:44Z")

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> [@Lor](#):
>
> wore MX134, 1 juicy full spray between wrists.
> 
> walked into bar expecting to be confronted by exbossman.
> 
> he’s not there.
> 
> i call and leave message-  
> “you told me to be here! what do you want me to do?”
> 
> no answer.
> 
> called 2 more times.
> 
> left 3 messages.
> 
> found out he went CAMPING and is ignoring my calls.  
> this is what drug addicts do.  
> they burn bridges.
> 
> so it appears he has zero intention of paying me my money.  
> _for 2 weeks._
> 
> i am now planning a new strategy.
> 
> or maybe i should let 2 weeks of work go to avoid conflict?  
> i will sleep on it.  
> ☹

Do you have time cards or anything to show you have worked those hours? If you do, take him to court. He has to prove he paid you or he has to pay you…

Diane

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**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 5:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/638 "2009-06-07T05:56:08Z")

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> [@diane999](#):
>
> Do you have time cards or anything to show you have worked those hours? If you do, take him to court. He has to prove he paid you or he has to pay you…
> 
> Diane

nah, nothing.  
i have zero proof i have worked at all.  
he has me there, but im not opposed to shooting myslef in the foot to spite my leg hahaha

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**Author:** ![Tommy\_Fever](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/b19c9b/32.png) [@Tommy\_Fever](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tommy_Fever)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 2:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/639 "2009-06-07T14:17:27Z")

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You handled the situation very well last night Lor. i’m proud of you.

If there is anything i can do, PLease let me know.

sincerly yours,  
Starbucksman:D

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**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 2:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/640 "2009-06-07T14:26:01Z")

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well thank you, starbucksman.

i thought i controlled my temper better than i have in the past.  
i have improved.

in the meantime, are we getting breakfast?  
i say we meet at his restraunt,no?

incase anyone there wants to “talk” ?

in the famous words of spongebob-

im ready  
im ready  
im ready  
im ready

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