# "Venting" my Adventures

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**Category:** Women's Journals\
**Created:** [January 8, 2009, 8:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664 "2009-01-08T20:53:37Z")\
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**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2009, 2:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/venting-my-adventures/24664/363 "2009-04-20T14:54:02Z")

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> [@Lor](#):
>
> men attracted to TAL
> 
> 1. dont want to take care of her
> 2. want a chick bossing them around in the bedroom
> 3. want a chick who “knows” their stuff, _if you know what i mean_
> 4. dig the ass-kicking leading lady
> 5. find power sexxay
> 
> men attracted to TAH
> 
> 1. like being the caretaker
> 2. dig feeling needed
> 3. are usually in authority (but not always)
> 4. like being in control in the _lovenasium_
> 5. enjoy being the aggressor

Exactly, and - for social situations, not work or other business-y functions - I love the reactions I get with TAH, because everyone is enjoying themselves more. I’ve never had a negative reaction to TAH in a social/romantic situation. I should add that I get moderate (not over-the-top) TAL-type reactions without wearing pheros.

My own experience doesn’t really validate the theory about people’s reactions to TAH having anything to do with their _discomfort_ with certain aspects of femininity; I think it just has to do with what kind of expressions of male/female duality make their lights come on. 😉

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