Hi Tiger, welcome to the forum.
Based on your description I recommend instant shine and instant sexiness (this will draw people to you, help with attraction thus help with communication - at least that is my theory)
I suggest you have a good read of: The Womens Guide
Also, have a good look at the Womens forum and read some of their test results.
Be sure to return and let us know what you run with and your results!
Tisha should give you a gift certificate soon. Cheers 