# Whaddup from SoCal :-) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 27, 2011, 6:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whaddup-from-socal/50967 "2011-06-27T18:31:35Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![ballerkid4](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/53a042/32.png) [@ballerkid4](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ballerkid4)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2011, 6:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whaddup-from-socal/50967/1 "2011-06-27T18:31:35Z")
Tommy Blevins here from SoCal! Im an 18 year old male and not really conservative with my group of friends. When hanging with the cool kids, I tend to shy up and go in my own little bubble with a wingman or two… A little background about me.. Im 100% Asian, don’t let my last name fool you. I was adopted when I was six years old, my dad is black and my mom is European. Friends always give me trash since my family is so multicultural, but its whatever; I dont let it faze me. So at this age, my hormones have never been more stimulated, and this one girl has held on to my heart for the last four years. I dont know if she likes me that way back or not, but I want to try before we all move out for college. The best scenario would result in a long-term relationship; I just need the umph to get there.. Btw, she’s as conservative as conservative goes, and her parents are really old fashioned. Ill probably have only one night out with her, so Im interested in testing out [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) on other targets and then subjecting the “ultimate combo” on her. My neighbor and lifelong friend introduced me to this site, and he’s already talked to me a LOT (hour upon endless hour) about pheromones. I have actually tried AMMO already multiple times, to no prevail. (1 shot, 3 shots, 6 shots all resulted in absolutely no difference) I also want a bigger voice when I talk, like an “alpha” male, if thats the correct vernacular, and people to look up to me. What pheromones do you all suggest? 😃 ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2011, 6:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whaddup-from-socal/50967/2 "2011-06-27T18:40:30Z")
Hey ballerkid, at your age using ammo may be too overpower full for your own body chemistry and for the preference of the girls you been talking to! What your going to want to look into is some of the [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) to help comfort and build a bond with whomever your talking to and maybe something for respect for the alpha male status your looking for. I recommend you get some instant openness to help you with your social anxiety, some instant shine to put yourself and female friends in a positive mood. Finally, try out some instant gentleman to have a smooth alpha male respect vibe. Be sure to let us know how your date goes! ---
**Author:** ![extraballislit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/extraballislit/32/712_2.png) [@extraballislit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/extraballislit)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2011, 6:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whaddup-from-socal/50967/3 "2011-06-27T18:51:15Z")
Hi, Baller. Welcome on board. First of all, i would sugegst you read some threads that will help you learn about different products AD sells, and how to use them. [The Snook's big book o' pheros for rookies](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-snooks-big-book-o-pheros-for-rookies/5879) [Updated AndroticsDirect Pheromones for newbies](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/updated-androticsdirect-pheromones-for-newbies/39802) [An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) Also, this one will help you clarify what to expect: [What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558) Maybe you know that you can get a gift certificate, as explained here: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) From my experience, i can tell you that [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) and Instant Shine gave me my first noticeable hits. I think IG might be the product you want to get first. Curently it´s out of stock, but it will be re-stocked soon. Hope this helps Talk to you soon. ---
**Author:** ![Pagodeiro](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pagodeiro/32/1226_2.png) [@Pagodeiro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pagodeiro)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2011, 7:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whaddup-from-socal/50967/4 "2011-06-27T19:16:52Z")
Hi there Ballerkid , be welcome here on the board ! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 28, 2011, 9:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whaddup-from-socal/50967/5 "2011-06-28T21:13:42Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Ballerkid! IG is out of stock at the moment but your socials will work just as well for your situation. IO —\> To ease you into conversation and make her more chatty.the more she talks the more you can get to know her Ih ----\> really does well to make persons feel close and she will feel she can trust you to open up to a deeper level. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) ----\> since its been 4 yrs this will let her know b4 u that you are interested and give you a confidence boast. Good luck romeo! **Your gc was issued! 😉**