# What about lesbians ? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [August 16, 2007, 9:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-about-lesbians/5120 "2007-08-16T09:32:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![magicj76](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magicj76/32/1858_2.png) [@magicj76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magicj76)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 9:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-about-lesbians/5120/1 "2007-08-16T09:32:05Z")
Hi ! I’ve just received my 1st order (Turn Up The Heat, [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) and Instant Honesty) and I’m wondering whether the effect shall be negative or neutral on a lesbian, cos I have a lesbian friend and as I’m gonna wear pheros, I wouldn’t like her to feel uncomfortable if I wear Turn Up The Heat (I’m not aiming at her, of course! lol) Thanks, and by the way, I didn’t expect my order so early ! Not even two weeks ! magicj ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2007, 1:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-about-lesbians/5120/2 "2007-08-17T01:02:22Z")
No it shouldnt bother her but if she knows you well and senses a change in your phero signature she may act a little different but she will get used to it. There also has to be some sort of attraction to you with Turn Up The Heat so since she is not attracted to men this shouldn’t present a problem either. Nols and Shine will probably effect her but not in a negative way. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2007, 1:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-about-lesbians/5120/3 "2007-08-17T01:35:02Z")
Mones won’t create attraction that isn’t already there. They can only enhance or amp up preexisting chemistry. So if she isn’t into you now, she won’t suddenly be all hot 'n bothered when you’re soaked in Androtics joy juice. Only works that way for insects and lower mammals. Of course there’s much more to mones than mere sexual attraction so she’ll likely respond to mood and social enhancing mones. ---
**Author:** ![PheroQuirk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9e8a1a/32.png) [@PheroQuirk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroQuirk)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2007, 1:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-about-lesbians/5120/4 "2007-08-17T13:42:33Z")
Socially constructed categories and behaviours do not always line up with physiology/neuroendocrine structure in this domain. Social identity may also be less than fully congruent with the way people behave. You might find, for example, that a significant proportion of women who sleep with women but not men respond to male [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) in the same way as women who do sleep with men. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2007, 4:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-about-lesbians/5120/5 "2007-08-17T16:25:14Z")
she may feel uncomforatble if she is sensitive to androstenone. most people arent,i guess, if its a normal dose. i personally freak out and threaten lives, but thats me. if she does act uncomfortable, it might be that she too gets anxiety from the dosage. dont take it personal. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2007, 12:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-about-lesbians/5120/6 "2007-08-18T00:50:30Z")
> [@PheroQuirk](#): > > You might find, for example, that a significant proportion of women who sleep with women but not men respond to male pheromones in the same way as women who do sleep with men. My experience is limited, but I was at a party and met a lesbian friend that I had worked with for a number of years. She gave me a hug and said “You smell really good.” I don’t recollect exactly what I was wearing but it was one of my usual masculine mixes, with a a314 base. ---
**Author:** ![talkischeap](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/talkischeap/32/2274_2.png) [@talkischeap](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/talkischeap)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2007, 1:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-about-lesbians/5120/7 "2007-08-19T01:22:04Z")
I think you’re overthinking it a bit. From some recent experiences I’ve had around gay women, many of them do in fact respond positively to masculine pheros (there are plenty of lesbians who appreciate a little masculinity in a partner). I don’t put much stock in studies that show heteros/lesbians/gays respond best to this or that- people are attracted to the opposite or the same sex for many many different reasons, and not all of them are biological. Relations between any given pair of individuals are sooo varied that I don’t think you can honestly steer people of different sexual orientations to this phero or that phero. My goal right now is to use the pheros that I think present me in the best possible way that day, take note of responses from individuals without trying to group them (heteros, bisexuals, lesbians, etc), and let the hits come as they may. So no, I don’t think TUTH is going to make your lesbian friend uncomfortable, at least not more so than anyone else you’re around. If you’re trying to mentally prepare or anything, just be consious of the fact that she MIGHT respond the same way a hetero male would, and think about how you would adjust your interactions/contact with her accordingly if that were to happen.