# what are good things to start a conversation with a girl ? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 13, 2011, 12:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-are-good-things-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-girl/49313 "2011-03-13T12:23:38Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![teejes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a9adbd/32.png) [@teejes](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/teejes)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2011, 12:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-are-good-things-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-girl/49313/1 "2011-03-13T12:23:38Z")
Basically theres this girl i like she 18 im 16 we don’t know eachover at all and i would really like that to change but i have no idea what i could say to her to start the conversation off. i would be wearing 1 spray of ammo on my chest one spray of IJ on my neck and 2 sprays of IO 1 in my hair and the other sprayed on to my left arm and rubbing it into my right arm. so any ideas of what to say to her bearing in mind i have never spoken to her and the worry of her thinking im to young or something but hopefully the IJ will make me confident and so i wont be worrying about her thinking im to young. i was thinking complementing her or something like saying i know we don’t know eachover but may i say i think your stunning. i really dunno haha i know thats a bit corny so please help me cos im terrible with girls. ---
**Author:** ![jnoel](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jnoel/32/650_2.png) [@jnoel](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jnoel)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2011, 12:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-are-good-things-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-girl/49313/2 "2011-03-13T12:48:04Z")
is she from school? you can go with a simple look her dead in the eyec, “hi, i dont believe we have met, im teejes.” say it with a smile and confidence1 everything after that can be calibrated to the situation. its such a beautiful day out, what doyou usually like to do in this weather? proceed from there never use the old “so do u come here often” line in conversation, dont agree with everything she says. be a man, show you have things in common, but show you have a mind of your own. its okay to show interest, but make her qualify. use lines like, “youre kinda cute, but what else do you have going for you?” that can be used a few minutes into the convo. ive used it too early and gotten wtf looks from girls go get em tiger ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2011, 12:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-are-good-things-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-girl/49313/3 "2011-03-13T12:49:25Z")
Its all about timing and observing. Observe her a little, is she carrying a book you know something about ? Drinking a coffee from starbucks, sitting on a car you like, talking about a rock group she likes… anything that you can pull into a conversation and it can be countless things. Observing her and paying attention to what she is doing and the things she interacts with can give you tons of material to work with. Then time approaching her when she is not totally distracted with her girlfriends. They will influence her before you get a chance to make a impression. Girls can be catty bitches when in groups. Now use those things as props to begin a convo. For instance there was this girl in the mall my son was eyeballing when we were sitting in the food court. He is 17. Of course being who I am I noticed his body language right away and told him go over and talk to her. He looked at me appalled LOL “I cant do that I dont know what to say” So I checked her out some to see what props he could use. She was wearing a Halo tshirt. I am sure you know what that is. My son played that game day and night. Her friends took there food to there a table and she was still waiting on hers. So I pointed it out and told him to get his Hiney up there in the pizza line and talk about Halo. You dont have to marry the girl just speak. People do it all the time. He hemmed and hawed cause he hates when I coach him LOL he did it though and he ended up sitting at her table with his pizza and her girlfriends and I made myself scarce as to not give him the “shopping with mom” image. Now he talks to her on xbox all the time. Now I dont know what this girl your wanting to approach is like so I cant tell you exactly what to say but I am sure you can come up with something. It may take a little time to find that perfect prop to help you open depending on where you are when you see her. Just calmly observe and it will come to you. Edit to add \>\>\> Do not go up and say something like your stunning. Dont neg her right out of the gate either. Negging is teasing. First establish a connection then move from there. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![teejes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a9adbd/32.png) [@teejes](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/teejes)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2011, 2:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-are-good-things-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-girl/49313/4 "2011-03-13T14:01:37Z")
> [@jnoel](#): > > is she from school? you can go with a simple look her dead in the eyec, “hi, i dont believe we have met, im teejes.” say it with a smile and confidence1 > > everything after that can be calibrated to the situation. its such a beautiful day out, what doyou usually like to do in this weather? proceed from there > > never use the old “so do u come here often” line > > in conversation, dont agree with everything she says. be a man, show you have things in common, but show you have a mind of your own. its okay to show interest, but make her qualify. > > use lines like, “youre kinda cute, but what else do you have going for you?” that can be used a few minutes into the convo. ive used it too early and gotten wtf looks from girls > > go get em tiger thanks man again more helpful stuff from you thanks i really appreciate it ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2011, 4:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-are-good-things-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-girl/49313/5 "2011-03-13T16:09:43Z")
Tish is right. See when you compliment a woman you don’t know or hardly know, on her looks your doing a couple of things wrong. First you’re complimenting her on something she has nothing to do with. Her looks are pure luck in the genetic lottery. Second you have already told her that sexual attraction is the reason for your interest. How valuable can your attention and interest in her be if its given away so easily? Start with basic indirect openers.“hey did you hear about blah blah blah?”. Just something to get a conversation going. From there you go into what I call screening questions. Ask relevant questions about things that are important to you or stuff you think is cool. If she gives a satisfactory answer compliment het on being cool or having good taste. If she likes something you hate, or hates something you like, PLAYFULLY tease about it. This let’s her know you have clear likes and dislikes, that your status is such that she has to impress you rather than you jumping through hoops to impress her. Do NOT point out commonalities like your looking for an excuse to convince her that you’re “soul mates”. It looks cheesy and desperate, besides if you two have a lot in common she’ll notice it without you having to point it out. Just act impressed when she displays a common interest or like through screening questions. As for mones, in our 20’s and beyond a 2 year age diff ain’t much, but in high-school age=status. [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) should help level the playing field between the two of you. IO will help make her more receptive to keeping a conversation going. ---
**Author:** ![teejes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a9adbd/32.png) [@teejes](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/teejes)\ **Post date:** [March 14, 2011, 9:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-are-good-things-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-girl/49313/6 "2011-03-14T21:00:55Z")
ok i understand everything said now i just need help with a [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) question basically my plan is to where my mix of IG , ammo , and IO and basically walk near here and stuff so she gets sense of me being older and she will be more attracted to me ,i will do that for a week then i will change IG for IJ so i can be more confident to go up to her and start talking and she will already think of me as more older. do you think this will work ?? ---
**Author:** ![BadBoysDriveAudi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/badboysdriveaudi/32/2292_2.png) [@BadBoysDriveAudi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BadBoysDriveAudi)\ **Post date:** [March 14, 2011, 10:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-are-good-things-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-girl/49313/7 "2011-03-14T22:20:32Z")
> [@teejes](#): > > Basically theres this girl i like she 18 im 16 we don’t know eachover at all and i would really like that to change but i have no idea what i could say to her to start the conversation off. > > i would be wearing 1 spray of ammo on my chest > one spray of IJ on my neck > and 2 sprays of IO 1 in my hair and the other sprayed on to my left arm and rubbing it into my right arm. > > so any ideas of what to say to her bearing in mind i have never spoken to her and the worry of her thinking im to young or something but hopefully the IJ will make me confident and so i wont be worrying about her thinking im to young. > > i was thinking complementing her or something like saying i know we don’t know eachover but may i say i think your stunning. i really dunno haha i know thats a bit corny so please help me cos im terrible with girls. Observe, observe, observe…and then comment. Make sure thy comments are truthful though because women can smell a false come-on line. Comment on the hair, comment on the outfit (always works for me), comment on the shoes (I’ve yet to meet a girl that didn’t like shoes…or a guy that could appreciate them), comment on her smell, but make sure you are authentic. So, what is being authentic? If you complimented her on her shoes (let’s say she’s sporting Louboutins…a mother/daughter present from her style crazed mom) because you liked the style, could you correctly drop the name? Highly unlikely she’s wearing CL at 18 but you get the point. Same deal with the outfit. If she rolls her eyes and asks what you like about it, you’d better be prepared to comment. If you like the smell, ask her what fragrance it is and tell her you like it. Just small stuff like that. It’s good if you can drop the name of the store where she bought that top or skirt because it gives you more to expand on. Forget about the weather, stay far far away from “you’re a stunner”. Just pick something that gives her a compliment, say it with confidence, and then pose a question that gets her talking about herself or saying more than just a “yes” or “no”. Most people love to talk about themselves when given the opportunity and you want to give her that. It (a) puts less pressure on you to keep the conversation going if she’s willingly talking, (b) opens doors for you to learn more about her, (c) gives you more topics on which to ask questions should she stop talking, and (d) prevents you from saying something stupid and shutting the whole thing down right there. ---
**Author:** ![John\_Sebastian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/john_sebastian/32/1060_2.png) [@John\_Sebastian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/John_Sebastian)\ **Post date:** [March 14, 2011, 11:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-are-good-things-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-girl/49313/8 "2011-03-14T23:34:16Z")
This may sound bold, bit I always start with “Hello” I know that was a smart ass answer but the truth is you’re probably over thinking it. ---
**Author:** ![Fly\_So\_Hi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/49beb7/32.png) [@Fly\_So\_Hi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fly_So_Hi)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2011, 7:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-are-good-things-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-girl/49313/9 "2011-03-15T19:56:24Z")
“-Girls respond on how you respond to them.” _Erik Von Markovik (Mystery)_ Not really based on what you say, but how you say it, got it? How you say it non-verbally, with confidence (demonstrated in posture [walk up straight and looking forward], voice tone [say it loud, as if she was 1 feet further], eye contact, negging her [playfully], kino [touching her confidently]. Don’t grab her ass straight away, though, lol! 😃) Those are the main things to cause attraction in a girl and they are simple and easy to remember. It works for me, anyway. P.S.: Kino is important, otherwise you keep yourself distant, but don’t over-do it. Fly