# what are mens ioi

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**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [December 29, 2010, 2:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-are-mens-ioi/44247 "2010-12-29T02:34:09Z")\
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**Author:** ![azazel249](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/azazel249/32/1585_2.png) [@azazel249](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/azazel249)\
**Post date:** [December 29, 2010, 2:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-are-mens-ioi/44247/1 "2010-12-29T02:34:09Z")

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This has probably been discussed before, but what do we do when we are interested in the woman?? Not the obvious like staring or begging for your number. Is there a man version of the hair twirling or something I never gave it much thought. Thank you 😃

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**Author:** ![John\_Sebastian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/john_sebastian/32/1060_2.png) [@John\_Sebastian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/John_Sebastian)\
**Post date:** [December 29, 2010, 6:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-are-mens-ioi/44247/2 "2010-12-29T06:34:35Z")

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> [@azazel249](#):
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> This has probably been discussed before, but what do we do when we are interested in the woman?? Not the obvious like staring or begging for your number. Is there a man version of the hair twirling or something I never gave it much thought. Thank you 😃

This information is already in the stickies in this section. If you figure we’ve discussed it, its good to take a look around before starting a new topic.

[How do I know if I am getting hits !!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-know-if-i-am-getting-hits/14192)

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [December 29, 2010, 7:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-are-mens-ioi/44247/3 "2010-12-29T07:20:06Z")

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It is discussed here and there but if you need more detail…

Men peacock 😃

PUA’s use this term for a form of dress or a object worn to grab attention but before they applied it to that peacocking was a term of used to describe how men respond to women they are interested in.

Basically just like the peacock spreads its feathers and struts around in a mating ritual to get the females attention human males do the same thing.

They begin to show dominance in there body language by taking up more space. Standing with legs spread, erect with chest out, hands on hips to make himself appear bigger or hooked in pockets or belt loops.

He will flex his muscles more, not in a blatant body building “look at me” fashion but just while standing there. Depending on how he is dressed this one can be hard for women to pick up on but it occurs even when fully covered.

He will lean in when he speaks to you. Make bold aggressive gestures

Men will preen just like women, fix hair, straighten cloths. Do things to bring attention to themselves more.

They tend to hold eye contact a little longer then usual. Grin alot, find excuses to touch or bump into you. Stand in your space more.

Glance from the womens face down toward chest and groin and back up sort of checking her out. Some people think this is a horndog gesture but its not, most times its subconscious and you see it more in the alpha males. Just like women check out a man’s build and structure to see if he would produce strong offspring men subconsciously do the same thing to women to see if we are fit to carry their offspring.

Glance at the females lips more. There body and there feet are facing you when they interact. They tease verbally more. When your having a conversation they tend to lift there eyebrows more.

The more shy nervous beta males fidget more by playing with an object like there keys in there pocket or something they are holding, an object on the table or bar or there cell phone. They tend to stare but look away when the female looks at them. Unlike the female who will stare, look away, then glance back, shy men tend to not glance back but look at you with there peripheral vision. They preen more visibly touching there tie, straightening cloths, touching there face and hair.

Tisha

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**Author:** ![azazel249](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/azazel249/32/1585_2.png) [@azazel249](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/azazel249)\
**Post date:** [December 29, 2010, 10:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-are-mens-ioi/44247/4 "2010-12-29T10:46:44Z")

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> [@John\_Sebastian](#):
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> This information is already in the stickies in this section. If you figure we’ve discussed it, its good to take a look around before starting a new topic.
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> [How do I know if I am getting hits !!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-know-if-i-am-getting-hits/14192)

Thanks bud I wonder if the same would be said if I started a new topic on how great AD is just saying 😉

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**Author:** ![John\_Sebastian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/john_sebastian/32/1060_2.png) [@John\_Sebastian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/John_Sebastian)\
**Post date:** [December 30, 2010, 2:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-are-mens-ioi/44247/5 "2010-12-30T14:40:35Z")

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> [@azazel249](#):
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> Thanks bud I wonder if the same would be said if I started a new topic on how great AD is just saying 😉

Considering we don’t have any stickies right at the top of the pages that are visible as you read the forum about how awesome we are like we do other things that are asked multiple times - no. 😉

But thanks for staying on topic. 😛

The thing about IOI’s too is remember that they are NOT standard across the board, but its hilarious if you ever get a chance to see yourself interacting with people when you have no idea you’re being recorded. Body language is weird.
