# What do I get for my good lady?

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-i-get-for-my-good-lady/22990>\
**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [November 17, 2008, 10:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-i-get-for-my-good-lady/22990 "2008-11-17T22:17:30Z")\
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**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2008, 10:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-i-get-for-my-good-lady/22990/1 "2008-11-17T22:17:30Z")

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Ladies, it is my wife’s birthday this weekend. While I would never mention it, she is slightly younger than me, caucasian, mother of two and works full time. think tisha with kids aged 8 and 4 and you wouldn’t be far wrong!! yes that is intended as a compliment to the pherogoddess.

She knows about my phero usage, has seen a couple of hits I have had recently and has been pinching my Shine!! She has also asked me if there is a female equivalent to A314 She works in an office with another woman who tends to be a bitch, together they run a team of 40 odd guys who work for the water board. She is not above wearing a pair of red stilletoes to work just to piss her female colleague off and is as stubborn as a mule.

She got her main birthday present last weekend but, as I’ve got to put another order of Shine in 😉, I thought I would grab a few items for her at the same time.

My question is this, if you were her, what would you like me to get, I will have to order by latest wednesday so cannot wait for out of stock items.

All suggestions gratefully received.

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**Author:** ![ntk23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/65b543/32.png) [@ntk23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ntk23)\
**Post date:** [November 18, 2008, 12:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-i-get-for-my-good-lady/22990/2 "2008-11-18T00:02:08Z")

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MX134 is reputed to be the female equivalent to A314 - dunno if it’s in stock or not. \*oops! no it ain’t!  
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And her very own bottle of Shine might be useful, to stop her pinching yours.

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**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\
**Post date:** [November 18, 2008, 2:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-i-get-for-my-good-lady/22990/3 "2008-11-18T02:11:21Z")

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hm.. [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A might be a good choice for your wife, by the way you describe her.

since mx134 is out, it might be a good idea for her to get her own bottle of instant shine also 🙂 (it would also help make the.. bitchy co-worker nicer 😉)

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**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\
**Post date:** [November 18, 2008, 2:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-i-get-for-my-good-lady/22990/4 "2008-11-18T02:42:16Z")

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I don’t have recommendations for women’s products, but you could also consider getting some new putatives that you haven’t had a chance to try yet and share them with her.

p74 is a great all-around [social pheromone](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) that is light, casual and fun. I think both of you would enjoy using it. I find 10-15 mcg/spray is a good starting point for p74.

p93 might also be a nice putative for the two of you. ‘Peaceful alpha’ vibes are reported, as well as ‘uplifting’ properties as reported by Nunya.

You can always benefit from TAH and TAL, and your wife could make any mixture of Monroe or Jolie with each of those test molecules.

Maybe her own personal bottle of IFM for when she’s stressed? Hell, you could make an emergency IS/IFM combo for an emergency mood relaxation/uplift.

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [November 18, 2008, 6:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-i-get-for-my-good-lady/22990/5 "2008-11-18T06:49:18Z")

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> [@diamond](#):
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> _ **Ladies, it is my wife’s birthday this weekend.** _

Happy Birthday to your lovely wife! 🙂

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> _ **She knows about my phero usage, has seen a couple of hits I have had recently and has been pinching my Shine!!** _

Uh huh…lol…that’s how it starts. I have one at home like that. 😉

> [@ntk23](#):
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> _ **MX134 is reputed to be the female equivalent to A314** _

> [@remmy](#):
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> _ **since mx134 is out** _
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> _ **hm.. instant sexiness A might be a good choice for your wife, by the way you describe her.** _

Yep, our friends ntk and remmy are right. MX134 is a TAL heavy mix considered to be the woman’s equivalent of A314. IS/A is also TAL heavy. Both are kicked up a notch with cops but, to me, IS/A has a more flirty sexy edge.

> [@diamond](#):
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> _ **She is not above wearing a pair of red stilletoes to work just to piss her female colleague off and is as stubborn as a mule** _.

Sounds like Mrs. diamond is an IS/A kinda gal. Also sounds like familiar territory. 😉

For a lot of gals TAL gives that extra notch up they need for a bit more confidence, for others with already alpha tendencies, it can throw them over the top. You also don’t want her to be _perceived_ as overly aggressive…in charge, yes…fine line. So just a word of caution for her when starting out…start with only one spray to the neck and see how she feels, then two, etc. For a gal like me who’s naturally TAL, I’ve gotta go easy and max out at two sprays of either MX134 or IS/A and I always buffer it with a social like Shine/Openness or my favorite, Honesty. That way it tones down the aggression for me and let’s people feel better about me bossing them around. 😃 As always it’s subjective. What works well for me may not work well for somebody else.

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> _ **You can always benefit from TAH and TAL, and your wife could make any mixture of Monroe or Jolie with each of those test molecules.** _

Yes, also a common practice of the ladies here to use IS/A (TAL heavy) and IS/B (TAH heavy), in tandem, to balance each other out. For instance, as a combination, I like to wear two sprays MX135 or IS/B with one or two sprays of IS/A. It still has that Angie vibe but with a little more softness around the edges. You could also just buy her straight TAL and/or TAH to work with. If you do go low dose at first. 5mcg/spray is good to start with, that way she’ll get a good feel for what works for her and can up the dose per spray, if needed, the next time you place an order.

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> _ **Maybe her own personal bottle of IFM for when she’s stressed? Hell, you could make an emergency IS/IFM combo for an emergency mood relaxation/uplift.** _

This works for both of you. [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) is also a good suggestion for days when she needs to tame the b\*tch within or her female co-workers. IS + IFM = Excellent. Also could work for you to _spray on yourself_ when she’s PMSing or out of sorts. It ain’t gonna put a little gal who’s already in a good mood in a better one. The best reactions to this product are evident when truly needed.

Many a man on this forum would rather be without a n\*t than IFM. 😛

The difference between IFM for men and IFM for women is…the mens version contains buffers to guard against potential depressive effects on men while wearing the product. There aren’t many reports of this but I thought you should be aware of the possibility. So to be on the safe side, if you’re going to order it, I’d get the mens version. That’s what I have, both Wolf and I use it and it works great for me when I need it.

> [@Phya](#):
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> _ **p74 is a great all-around social pheromone that is light, casual and fun. I think both of you would enjoy using it. I find 10-15 mcg/spray is a good starting point for p74.** _

And nice to wear P74 when you go out _together_…makes for a cool couple air. 🆒 Great for drawing in people.

Oh! You should definitely get her some MX135 for more social fun times when she doesn’t have to be so lady exec. God we LOVE that one, diamond. It’s a yummy make ya feel good everybody loves your sparkly shiny a\*\* mix. It’s DA BOMB! Wolf loves it and can’t keep his paws off me when I wear it. It’s chocolatini scent which \* cough \*, no secret, isn’t my fav. Most men, however, really seem to like it! Try a to-go, if they’re available, just in case she doesn’t like the scent or self effect. Truth is, as much as I’ve complained about it, I always buy it when it’s in stock because no matter what it smells like I love the self effect and the effect it has on others so much, I gotta have it. The lastest batch is like the boozy amaretto/chocolate batches that we’ve had before. Not so bad. Don’t go by me on the scent 'cause many of the girls love the chocolatini. While good alone, some like to use with perfume to play with/cover the scent a bit. Inkling likes to hit it up with chocolate perfume or other bakery scent. If your wife likes sweet scents (how about you?) Pink Sugar is a good gift /investment to go along with the pheromones. The girls are crazy about it, the guys drool over it and it’ll cover the stench of a rotting corpse. If Pink Sugar can’t cover it…throw it out. Anyways a good cover for a lot of the stinkier pheromones.

Careful, you could create a monster. 😛

Whatever you decide to get her, have a blast and then tell us aaaall about it!

Now that I’ve talked your ear off…thaaaaat’s what happens when ya drink two cups of espresso at 11:00pm 😮…lol…anyways, my nickle…

…hope it helps.

Bella

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**Author:** ![Nariba](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nariba/32/1917_2.png) [@Nariba](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nariba)\
**Post date:** [November 18, 2008, 9:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-i-get-for-my-good-lady/22990/6 "2008-11-18T09:17:48Z")

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Hi diamond

Happy Birthday to your wife. I would get her some [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). It gives you that “I am in control today!” feeling. MX135 seems to be a favourite of lots of ladies here. I am thinking of putting it on my wish list.

xx

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**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\
**Post date:** [November 18, 2008, 10:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-i-get-for-my-good-lady/22990/7 "2008-11-18T10:06:55Z")

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Ladies and Gents, the order has landed!!

Thanks for the advice.

On it’s way we have

IS/A  
MX135 togo  
IFM ( already proved it’s worth in this household!!!)  
[P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/) @15mcg  
Shinex2  
P93 @15mcg  
MEO-EST just because Tater had some fun with it!!

I’ll keep ya posted but from what I have achieved in this marriage already with pheros, together we will take over the world, won’t we pinky?

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**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\
**Post date:** [November 24, 2008, 9:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-i-get-for-my-good-lady/22990/8 "2008-11-24T09:52:47Z")

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Right, it’s 9:30am here in the UK. The good lady will probably be posting her intro in the next couple of days.

Her colleague ‘C’ is obviously jealous of my wife, she had the office (and 40 odd men) to herself and has made it her mission to _persuade_ every woman who has worked with her to leave. She spent all last week deliberately obstructing my wife in her job and trying to drop her in it at every opportunity. I should point out that she is around 5 foot, skinny and dresses inappropriately for the office at every opportunity. My wife on the other hand is 5’9, buxom and gorgeous (yes I know, I’m biased!), she of course delights in antagonising ‘C’ by any means possible.

It’s about 5 degrees C/ 41 F here, most of the UK is now covered in ice. ‘C’ is today wearing a mini skirt, bare legs and stilleto heeled boots! unfortunately my wife is displaying a bit cleavage, wearing one spray of 4xIH and 3 sprays IFM. Battle has commenced, the [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A, MX135 etc arrives today, watch this space.😃

Yes I know, but men can be bitches as well 😉

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**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2008, 1:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-i-get-for-my-good-lady/22990/9 "2008-11-25T01:53:21Z")

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Setting up a soap opera or what diamond? 🙂

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**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2008, 9:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-i-get-for-my-good-lady/22990/10 "2008-11-25T09:05:08Z")

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> [@Phya](#):
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> Setting up a soap opera or what diamond? 🙂

I know, I know:Dlol Just fiercely proud and protective of my family.

Talk about loading for bear, I gently suggested that she start with one spray of MX135 from her to go. First pump was dry, next 3 weren’t 😮 and she’s taken it in her handbag to refresh later in the day. I apologise but fear that I have ‘let slip the dogs of war’

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2008, 9:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-i-get-for-my-good-lady/22990/11 "2008-11-25T09:08:18Z")

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> [@diamond](#):
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> _ **Talk about loading for bear** _
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> _ **I apologise but fear that I have ‘let slip the dogs of war’** _

😮 Thanks for the warning! 😃
