# What do you recommend for an extremely sensitive girl **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 29, 2008, 10:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576 "2008-03-29T22:50:53Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![examine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/examine/32/1665_2.png) [@examine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/examine)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2008, 10:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/1 "2008-03-29T22:50:53Z")
I’m seeing this cuban girl. who has an unusual personality. She’s about 5’9-5’10. I would call her alpha, but she really isnt. heres the thing. She can have an attitude, but I notice, with me, its quite curbed. For example on our first date, I thought she didnt like me, she sounded a bit aggressive with an attitude, but as the night went on, she was more relax, soft spoken. then by the end of the night, she was ‘sensitive’. I had said something about my ex, and she got really jealous. something along the lines of “that comment made me jealous” but in a pouty sort of way. wtf. complete 180 from the first hour of meeting her. So 4 dates later we’re pretty much into each other. She is very sexual, but I always have to initiate. which again is weird, cause once shes on, shes on, but before the button is pushed, its as if sex means nothing. wtf. but while we’re going at it, shes a beast. lol so im guessing she puts up a wall (probably from being hurt in the past) but once i break it down, shes extremely sensitive. what sprays should I use around her. Im thinking -none because shes a freak, but at the same time, im afraid she might get a bit aggressive and start smack talking with her attitude. im also afraid to try [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), seems like she might start pouting and break out in tears or something. I dont really have to use A314 or the series mixes. I already command respect. (long story) Im a bit stuck on this one guys. Her mood shifts are making it hard to know which angle I should approach. However, Ive figured out her personality, its the masks she puts on that throws me off. How can I break these masks without agitating her real personality, which is fragile? hehehe this outta be a tough one. btw. she really doesnt have an attitude problem anymore. very rarely, usually when im acting cocky (so its warranted on her part) however, she can be a bit clingy and sensitive. almost like a little kitten. man im actually struggling to describe her. hope im not going off the wall with this one. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![examine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/examine/32/1665_2.png) [@examine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/examine)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2008, 11:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/2 "2008-03-29T23:03:54Z")
id also like to add, that this girl is def looking for a long term relationship with me. i think i might bite tbh. but, i have always had a problem with the seduction/relationship stage. im more of a dating, hook up kinda guy. so this is all new. what sprays are good for the transition from dating to long term? and while in a new long term, to keep things in the honeymoon stage long as possible? is there even a spray to keep a relationship in the honeymoon stage? just realized i have little experience with [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) in a relationship. hahah crazy. this whole time ive been using pheromones to ‘have fun’ ---
**Author:** ![Eldros](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/eldros/32/279_2.png) [@Eldros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Eldros)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2008, 11:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/3 "2008-03-29T23:09:45Z")
This doesn’t answer your question, but it does bring up a good point: Has anyone here gone from Dating-\>marriage with pheromones? ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2008, 11:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/4 "2008-03-29T23:30:53Z")
examine, why do you think [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) would make her pout or break out in tears? Typically, it would be imagined that the guy would be breaking out in tears (I kid. 😃). I think IMF might actually be a good fit. I think Instant Honesty in low doses (I read your thread warning us about IH.) would also be good. And depending on what you feel would make _her_ feel brighter and more alive. Instant Shine? I’ve never tried it, but maybe Instant Gentleman? I don’t know. But I would aim for creating an atmosphere where she feels confident that she can relax and be herself. Instant Honesty can provide one aspect of that comfort and closeness. Instant Female Magic might also provide a feeling of comfort/closeness but exactly how is an insight exclusively for the ladies. Instant Shine to me can have a magnetic effect, which imo is similar to feeling close or comfortable with someone, but more mysterious or exciting. ---
**Author:** ![z414a4d](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/z414a4d/32/1299_2.png) [@z414a4d](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/z414a4d)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2008, 11:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/5 "2008-03-29T23:34:51Z")
ima be the first on the forums to get married meeting the one with pheros. So thats spots reserved. ---
**Author:** ![The\_King](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/the_king/32/2016_2.png) [@The\_King](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/The_King)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2008, 11:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/6 "2008-03-29T23:39:32Z")
If I understand your question you want to know what mone(s) would best transform your “dating” status into a more long term relationship? If this is the case I would definitely go with A314. Doesn’t put you over the top. Just reinforces your positive qualities. I personally would say that 314 more than anything else I have tried would help in this respect. Give it try for a while and see what happens. I cannot imagine anything negative from a test with 314. A whole bunch of folks swear by [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and it might also be good for you, although it never worked for me personally. The IFM really has been a non-factor for me in all of my test so far. Good luck and let us know. ps - A314 testing may take more time so don’t quit right away if it seems like nothing is happening. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![examine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/examine/32/1665_2.png) [@examine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/examine)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2008, 11:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/7 "2008-03-29T23:42:29Z")
> [@Phya](#): > > examine, why do you think Instant Female Magic would make her pout or break out in tears? Typically, it would be imagined that the guy would be breaking out in tears (I kid. 😃). > > I think IMF might actually be a good fit. I think Instant Honesty in low doses (I read your thread warning us about Instant Honesty.) would also be good. And depending on what you feel would make _her_ feel brighter and more alive. Instant Shine? > > I’ve never tried it, but maybe Instant Gentleman? I don’t know. But I would aim for creating an atmosphere where she feels confident that she can relax and be herself. Instant Honesty can provide one aspect of that comfort and closeness. Instant Female Magic might also provide a feeling of comfort/closeness but exactly how is an insight exclusively for the ladies. Instant Shine to me can have a magnetic effect, which imo is similar to feeling close or comfortable with someone, but more mysterious or exciting. Hmm ok. Ive never tried [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). Never thought of it. Perhaps her attitude is a mirror of my own attitude. who knows. I do have a bit of a sharp tongue some times. Maybe that spray would work. I was thinking about IH, however, she seems to be very comfortable with me (I think). I mean she tells me everything I ask, and has even come out and said “I am really falling for you.” 😮 Seems like I already have that IH and IFM type effect on her. BUT she also says things like “I am afraid you are going to get sick of me, and leave me” or “I know your past, you’re probably going to leave the second you see a hotter girl” btw shes not wrong, back in the day, that was my mentality, but Im not 23 anymore. It’s when I start to get real comfortable and open, that she gets a bit sensitive. again, i have a sharp tongue and say things a little too blunt sometimes. could be all the -none ive been wearing recently (see -none and spaceland thread 😃 ) IShine is never a bad idea tho. I’ve been meaning to order some TAA oil as a matter of fact. maybe Instant Gentleman is not a bad idea. hmmmm ---
**Author:** ![bond007](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bond007/32/1076_2.png) [@bond007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bond007)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2008, 11:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/8 "2008-03-29T23:44:28Z")
> [@Phya](#): > > I read your thread warning us about Instant Honesty 😮 😮 😮 IH has a fault… i need a link for that bond ---
**Author:** ![examine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/examine/32/1665_2.png) [@examine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/examine)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2008, 11:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/9 "2008-03-29T23:44:49Z")
> [@The\_King](#): > > If I understand your question you want to know what pheromone(s) would best transform your “dating” status into a more long term relationship? If this is the case I would definitely go with A314. Doesn’t put you over the top. Just reinforces your positive qualities. I personally would say that 314 more than anything else I have tried would help in this respect. Give it try for a while and see what happens. I cannot imagine anything negative from a test with 314. > > A whole bunch of folks swear by Instant Shine and it might also be good for you, although it never worked for me personally. The Instant Female Magic really has been a non-factor for me in all of my test so far. Good luck and let us know. > > ps - A314 testing may take more time so don’t quit right away if it seems like nothing is happening. 😃 heheh ive tried every version of A314 there is. I dont think it would work for me, plus, i think i already command respect from her as it is. ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2008, 11:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/10 "2008-03-29T23:45:18Z")
> [@examine](#): > > man im actually struggling to describe her. hope im not going off the wall with this one. 😃 Instant Honesty and/or [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) … you may actually find out what’s really going on + you can always run and wash it off. 🙄 TAL may be what you’re after as well. All this experimenting … can be fun at times, and then … I want results now! As for LTR … don’t be in such a hurry. 🆒 She may not be what you REALLY want, and then again … she may very well be. Dr. Jekyl_letta and Ms. Hyde_lina? I reserve all rights to be wrong. 😮 ---
**Author:** ![examine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/examine/32/1665_2.png) [@examine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/examine)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2008, 11:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/11 "2008-03-29T23:46:07Z")
> [@bondkill007](#): > > 😮 😮 😮 Instant Honesty has a fault… i need a link for that > > bond It was a mistake on my part. I od’d without knowing. turned out I was spraying IHx2 the whole time. LOL. > [@update III: Beware of Instant Honesty](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/update-iii-beware-of-instant-honesty/261): > > As some may know i am doing tests on each product, as i am one of the lucky few that gets to work in a close enviroment with others of different ages, sizes and colors. well i conducted a test on IH Friday and Saturday. All i gotta say is this stuff is no joke. Beware of when and where you use it. There is a warning label on the description…take it serious. ok. so I spray it 4 times Saturday morning as I have 2 session classes, one in the morning and one in the afternoon. oh boy. what a mista… ---
**Author:** ![examine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/examine/32/1665_2.png) [@examine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/examine)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2008, 11:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/12 "2008-03-29T23:47:57Z")
> [@M\_M](#): > > Instant Honesty and/or Instant Female Magic … you may actually find out what’s really going on + you can always run and wash it off. 🙄 TAL may be what you’re after as well. All this experimenting … can be fun at times, and then … > > As for LTR … don’t be in such a hurry. 🆒 She may not be what you REALLY want, and then again … she may very well be. > > I reserve all rights to be wrong. 😮 hmmmm. thats true. [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) would tell me what she wants, but I think I already know. She wants a LR with me. She’s been pretty bold with telling me what she wants from me. (seems like a get a I miss you text, every 3 hours jeez) oh i should add that meeting her, was a reunion. I knew this girl back in highschool (we weren’t close tho). its been almost 10 years since we’ve seen each other. ---
**Author:** ![bond007](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bond007/32/1076_2.png) [@bond007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bond007)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2008, 11:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/13 "2008-03-29T23:55:16Z")
> [@examine](#): > > It was a mistake on my part. I od’d without knowing. turned out I was spraying IHx2 the whole time. LOL. > > [update III: Beware of Instant Honesty](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/update-iii-beware-of-instant-honesty/261) thanx examine, just read most of it… scared me for a sec 🙄 im ok now 😛 good to know u can OD on IH. i was bout to go crazy with it 😛 thx for the warning bond ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2008, 11:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/14 "2008-03-29T23:58:00Z")
> [@examine](#): > > hmmmm. thats true. Instant Honesty would tell me what she wants, but I think I already know. She wants a LR with me. She’s been pretty bold with telling me what she wants from me. (seems like a get a I miss you text, every 3 hours jeez). All I have left to say is … be careful. I, myself, love a woman that wants me around a lot. To me, that’s what love does. Now, there are those that can’t stand it. It freaked me out to find out there are lots of women that don’t want a man up under them all the time … kissing and cuddling and spooning. 😮 She misses you … that’s **v** onderful! 😛 Just hope she’s not a psycho … don’t get scared into staying if your heart’s not there. **Priority number one:** Be H A P P Y. Psycho or not. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![examine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/examine/32/1665_2.png) [@examine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/examine)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2008, 12:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/15 "2008-03-30T00:16:26Z")
> [@M\_M](#): > > All I have left to say is … be careful. I, myself, love a woman that wants me around a lot. To me, that’s what love does. Now, there are those that can’t stand it. It freaked me out to find out there are lots of women that don’t want a man up under them all the time … kissing and cuddling and spooning. 😮 She misses you … that’s **v** onderful! 😛 > > Just hope she’s not a psycho … don’t get scared into staying if your heart’s not there. > > **Priority number one:** Be H A P P Y. Psycho or not. 😃 I hear ya. To be honest, Im the one thats not really into cuddling and having my invisible personal bubble broken all the time. 2 people in the bubble = too stuffy heheh but seriously, im getting older. im going to try to learn to be in a meaningful relationship that is in depth. i also think thats whats attracting me to her. my 2 yr off and on relationship with my ex was just bullshit. it was more physical but we tried to pretend it was more than that, when it really wasnt. the consistant fighting and bullshit was lame. i want a real relationship for once. one that actually lasts more than 1 solid year with no off sessions. so. what sprays/mixes should i try. i was thinking p93 would be good. ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2008, 12:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/16 "2008-03-30T00:59:39Z")
Phya and M&M have both given some great advice. TAL could be great to try out on her. Renny has been testing with it and has some interesting anecdotes in his forum. I am thinking that [P83](https://a314.com/product/p83/) might be another good choice. ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2008, 2:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/17 "2008-03-30T02:04:19Z")
> [@examine](#): > > I hear ya. To be honest, **Im the one thats not really into cuddling and having my invisible personal bubble broken all the time. 2 people in the bubble = too stuffy heheh** > > but seriously, im getting older. im going to try to learn to be in a meaningful relationship that is in depth. i also think thats whats attracting me to her. my 2 yr off and on relationship with my ex was just bullshit. it was more physical but we tried to pretend it was more than that, when it really wasnt. the consistant fighting and bullshit was lame. > > i want a real relationship for once. one that actually lasts more than 1 solid year with no off sessions. > > so. what sprays/mixes should i try. > > i was thinking p93 would be good. From this post and if it does what most have stated … YOU, my friend … need **E S T**! 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![Tealeaves](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tealeaves/32/1293_2.png) [@Tealeaves](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tealeaves)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2008, 2:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/18 "2008-03-30T02:06:10Z")
> [@M\_M](#): > > Just hope she’s not a psycho … Don’t delude yourself… all women are psychos 🙄 No but seriously. Examine, your description of her sounds like she has poor self esteem. The whole thing about her being a tiger in bed but _only if you initiate_ seems to give it away. Of course, I could be wrong, but I figured I’d offer some insight into the enigma of the female brain 🙂 As far as pheromones, is there anything you can wear that will boost her confidence? Maybe you could gift her with a bottle of [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) disguised with a customized fragrance… lovely perfume, thanks! 🙄 It’s probably a bad idea, though. Also, the DHV pheros could be making her feel like she’s not good enough for you, so look out for that if you wear them around her. And besides that, treat her like she’s valuable! Good luck with your relationship. Hope she’s not _too_ psycho 😛 ---
**Author:** ![llbio](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/91b2a8/32.png) [@llbio](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/llbio)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2008, 2:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/19 "2008-03-30T02:20:49Z")
Sounds to me like you really don’t need anything. She likes you, you like her. She wants LTR, you want LTR. What both of you need to do is to stay open and communicative so that you don’t mess it up if there are any difficulties. That said, I’m assuming that the issue with you having to initiate is something to do with being Catholic (am I correct in that assumption?) not necessarily a practicing Catholic but having been brought up that way. There is a stigma about not getting caught wanting sex or something of the sort. I’ve seen the kind of behavior you mention quite a bit. The main thing is to be willing to initiate just enough to give her permission and if she doesn’t then just bide your time … breaking this inhibition (with someone you care about and who cares about you) pheromononally might cause guilt. I had a friend who was dating a Mexican girl and she literally couldn’t let herself do _anything_ until she was about to freak out with desire … then she became amazingly passionate. As she gets to know you better this girl will probably come around but you may not need her to if you jsut get the code down and trust that she has feelings for you. ---
**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2008, 6:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576/20 "2008-03-30T06:01:52Z")
> [@llbio](#): > > I had a friend who was dating a Mexican girl and she literally couldn’t let herself do _anything_ until she was about to freak out with desire … then she became amazingly passionate. As she gets to know you better this girl will probably come around but you may not need her to if you jsut get the code down and trust that she has feelings for you. All my dates are usually catholics except for one case.. well I did even date someone recently who told me, thanks to instant honesty x2, that she will only kiss a guy once she’s about to marry him.. I’m catholic but I’ll kiss a girl on the second date, thank you 😃😃 I think everyone has their own ideas and there isn’t one rule for everyone.. respecting each other is crucial I think. [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-do-you-recommend-for-an-extremely-sensitive-girl/10576.md?page=2)