# What is happening to kids today?

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**Created:** [June 16, 2008, 11:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002 "2008-06-16T23:46:43Z")\
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**Author:** ![Daddy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/cab0a1/32.png) [@Daddy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daddy)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2008, 7:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/21 "2008-06-19T07:57:16Z")

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> [@Richis](#):
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> I didn’t even know what the F word was when I was 11

haha, i know how you feel!

in 6th grade i said, kinda fast, which is why probably why my words were misunderstood:

“look at the kid with the funky hair”

and for the longest time, i thought “funky” was a bad word, 'cause i was punished severely for my statement

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**Author:** ![phernoob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phernoob/32/180_2.png) [@phernoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/phernoob)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2008, 12:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/22 "2008-06-19T12:34:21Z")

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> [@mark-in-dallas](#):
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> Quote:  
> Originally Posted by **tisha23** [view post](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/17)  
> _My workplace is like a brothel_
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> Hmmm, as a guest or working girl? 😛 🙄
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> Sorry phernoob, I couldn’t resist! 😉

Oh, as an observer (with cocktail in hand) for anthropological purposes of course…

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**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2008, 12:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/23 "2008-06-19T12:58:05Z")

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> [@phernoob](#):
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> Oh, as an observer (with cocktail in hand) for anthropological purposes of course…

Good reply. But you did mean cocktail in one hand and camcorder in the other, right? 😉

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**Author:** ![phernoob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phernoob/32/180_2.png) [@phernoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/phernoob)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2008, 1:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/24 "2008-06-24T01:15:12Z")

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Ahem. Once again in the interest of anthropology…Jane Godall and all that…

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**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 4:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/25 "2008-06-25T16:55:32Z")

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> [@phernoob](#):
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> Soooooo.  
> My kid - 12 female has her BFF over. They have been friends since 1st grade. He is male, tall & good looking. They are in the basement playing Sims. She just told him to keep his ERECTION away from her.
> 
> I did not know what an ERECTION was when I was in college. I thought it was a building… WTF??? Do 12 yr old boys have those? My twins are almost 11, will they get them soon? What the fuck? Help!!!

I can remember having erections before I was 10, but then I had no idea what to do with them, and had even less control over when and where.

A client of my company’s daughter was wanting me to give her some tips on using photo stretch or Photo goo so she could make her bust bigger, she was 14 at the time. 😠  
I photoshopped her hair onto a picture of her mother she had, something pretty easy and quick to do, she screamed and did not ask me to help her with pictures again… The truth hurts sometimes.

Kids are maturing faster now, I remember I had no idea what oral sex was until after highschool. But now thanks to Bill Clinton everyone over 10 knows, or has a good idea. I remember overhearing a kid asking his parents what “Oral sex” was, and the parents trying to explain it as if they were “Talking Dirty” the kid replied “Why would he get in that much trouble?” the parents said “remember when you said the bad word to your teacher” the kid “Ohhhhh.”

That was 10 years ago, now kids say the F-word daily to their teachers, and the teachers have no power to do anything about it.  
Back in my day they would swat your hind end for doing something like that and send you home.

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**Author:** ![K24](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k24/32/1513_2.png) [@K24](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K24)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2008, 12:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/26 "2008-06-26T00:31:32Z")

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imagine 30 years from now, pre-mature baby?!!😮  
or something worse…

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**Author:** ![phernoob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phernoob/32/180_2.png) [@phernoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/phernoob)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2008, 1:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/27 "2008-06-26T01:01:40Z")

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> [@woofie2](#):
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> I can remember having erections before I was 10, but then I had no idea what to do with them, and had even less control over when and where.
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> A client of my company’s daughter was wanting me to give her some tips on using photo stretch or Photo goo so she could make her bust bigger, she was 14 at the time. 😠  
> I photoshopped her hair onto a picture of her mother she had, something pretty easy and quick to do, she screamed and did not ask me to help her with pictures again… The truth hurts sometimes.
> 
> .

ROFLMAO LOL LOL LOL!!! I gotta do that! That’s better than grounding her!!!  
I’m not ready to be a mother to two boys with random erections. I’m still trying to steer clear of my H’s which seem to turn up at random occasions. “Hey, can you run into the store? I cant get out of the car right now..”  
I’m pretty sure it happened b/c there was an ad on the radio for a BIG SALE at Kohl’s. So he’s thinking… “Ooooh, everything is 50% off, ooh, ahhhh, and ooooh if you use your, ooh, Kohl’s charge, ahhhh, oh, its another 10% off! OMG oooooooooooh!” \<\<BOIIIING!!!\>\>

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**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2008, 1:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/28 "2008-06-26T01:56:49Z")

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> [@phernoob](#):
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> ROFLMAO LOL LOL LOL!!! I gotta do that! That’s better than grounding her!!!

I said, well it’s what they will look like in 20 years. 😮

> [@phernoob](#):
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> I’m pretty sure it happened b/c there was an ad on the radio for a BIG SALE at Kohl’s. So he’s thinking… “Ooooh, everything is 50% off, ooh, ahhhh, and ooooh if you use your, ooh, Kohl’s charge, ahhhh, oh, its another 10% off! OMG oooooooooooh!” \<\<BOIIIING!!!\>\>

Are you sure? GeeWiz, are you sure he isn’t gay? My bet would be that he mixed your [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) with your hair spray. oops! That or he just likes driving 😃  
Like this vw Commercial-  
[http://www.vw.co.za/assets/downloads/tv-commercials/Golf\_Potent.mpg](http://www.vw.co.za/assets/downloads/tv-commercials/Golf_Potent.mpg)  
or go to [Volkswagen South Africa – TV Commercials](http://www.vw.co.za/downloads/tv-commercials/) and download “Potent”

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**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2008, 4:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/29 "2008-06-26T16:16:14Z")

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> [@K24](#):
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> imagine 30 years from now, pre-mature baby?!!😮  
> or something worse…

Most baby boys are born with a stiffy.😮

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**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2008, 4:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/30 "2008-06-26T16:34:42Z")

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> [@Mtnjim](#):
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> Most baby boys are born with a stiffy.😮

men only have two states, Hungry and Horny, if you find one without an erection make him a sandwich.

A friend in college ask our group “why are guys so fixated on breasts?” my best answer was, “We are fed from them for a year, then you wonder why we are fixated on them. We are thinking of food.”  
I still can’t figure out why I got hit for that answer.

Now I can’t see why parents are letting their 10-14 year-old(or younger) kids dress up like 20 year-old hookers, Spandex dresses, half shirts, Itty bitty crop tops, Etc, it is just not right to do that!

I was talking to a friend’s neice who is 4 and a half, and she said she had a steady boyfriend, already.😮 They were going on a Date to a Movie later that day (Kungfu panda) 😮 😮  
I was at least 13 before I went on what I considered a “Date”

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**Author:** ![phernoob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phernoob/32/180_2.png) [@phernoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/phernoob)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2008, 10:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/31 "2008-06-26T22:46:13Z")

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> [@woofie2](#):
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> men only have two states, Hungry and Horny, if you find one without an erection make him a sandwich.
> 
> A friend in college ask our group “why are guys so fixated on breasts?” my best answer was, “We are fed from them for a year, then you wonder why we are fixated on them. We are thinking of food.”  
> I still can’t figure out why I got hit for that answer.
> 
> Now I can’t see why parents are letting their 10-14 year-old(or younger) kids dress up like 20 year-old hookers, Spandex dresses, half shirts, Itty bitty crop tops, Etc, it is just not right to do that!
> 
> I was talking to a friend’s neice who is 4 and a half, and she said she had a steady boyfriend, already.😮 They were going on a Date to a Movie later that day (Kungfu panda) 😮 😮
> 
> I was at least 13 before I went on what I considered a “Date”

Is he gay? Not sure. Jury has been out for 15 yrs. But he sure is King of the Metrosexuals! He takes longer to get ready than I do! Well he is prettier than I am.

I hear you about the kids. I see girls in my boys grade (going into 5th) and they look like they charge $20 an hour. This aint the elementary fair night - its the Chicken Ranch in Vegas!!! My one kid is already oogling the more precocious ones. Thank god my daughter is super modest (she is very busty for 12) she wears bermudas and a sweatshirt even when its over 85 degrees. Although, maybe thats to throw me off the scent and she is giving lap-dances at the middle school dance on the DL. Oh well, if it pays for college… jk

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**Author:** ![phernoob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phernoob/32/180_2.png) [@phernoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/phernoob)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2008, 10:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/32 "2008-06-26T22:54:44Z")

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No, times have not changed. I just had a flashback to 7th grade. True story and sad confession.

I went with my friend to her Vacation Bible School camp for a week away. For some reason i took this negligee baby-doll pj thing to sleep in. Think femme-bots in austin powers. anyway, i remember wearing this on my already 5’6" frame. it was higher than mid-thigh.  
God knows why i ran out in the rain one evening - sans undies. seriously. what a completely SLUTTY thing to do. i think i liked one of the 16 yr old male counselors. damn, if my daughter ever did that - i would lock her in the house. forever. (my parents were pretty much hippies in square clothing) they would have just laughed.

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**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2008, 11:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/33 "2008-06-26T23:29:34Z")

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> [@phernoob](#):
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> Is he gay? Not sure. Jury has been out for 15 yrs. But he sure is King of the Metrosexuals! He takes longer to get ready than I do! Well he is prettier than I am.

Sorry that was a female who ask the question… it was a group of 10-15 people, she was pissed no one was checking out her rack, or lack there of, I guess I am just too discrete.

> [@phernoob](#):
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> I hear you about the kids. I see girls in my boys grade (going into 5th) and they look like they charge $20 an hour. This aint the elementary fair night - its the Chicken Ranch in Vegas!!! My one kid is already oogling the more precocious ones. Thank god my daughter is super modest (she is very busty for 12) she wears bermudas and a sweatshirt even when its over 85 degrees. Although, maybe thats to throw me off the scent and she is giving lap-dances at the middle school dance on the DL. Oh well, if it pays for college… jk

wow, $20 an hour is cheap!  
I still can’t see letting kids under the age of puberty(17) being allowed to wear makeup! there was a 10ish-year-old wearing eye liner, lipstick, mascara, and blush. very trampish, and not just kiddy dress-up style, She was touching up in the check-out aisle in the store. 😮

> [@phernoob](#):
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> I went with my friend to her Vacation Bible School camp for a week away. For some reason i took this negligee baby-doll pj thing to sleep in. Think femme-bots in austin powers. anyway, i remember wearing this on my already 5’6" frame. it was higher than mid-thigh.  
> God knows why i ran out in the rain one evening - sans undies. seriously. what a completely SLUTTY thing to do. i think i liked one of the 16 yr old male counselors. damn, if my daughter ever did that - i would lock her in the house. forever. (my parents were pretty much hippies in square clothing) they would have just laughed.

Wow, 😮 . I know some college girls that did that on a daily basis. our dorm was less than 20’ from the campus lake. 😃  
there were several clothing optional nocturnal swimming parties.  
but I can’t see highschool kids doing that, but I guess we did similar things, Keg parties in the back-40 corn field.  
But never as bad as Gloucester High School (17 girls pregnant under 16) Must be Jamie Lynn Spears rubbing off.  
But then when I was in high school we have maybe 1 or two pregnancies and we had over 3000 students.  
We had no Shootings, but then almost every truck had a loaded rifle in it during Deer season; and those of us without a gun knew how to use one.

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**Author:** ![phernoob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phernoob/32/180_2.png) [@phernoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/phernoob)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2008, 11:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/34 "2008-06-26T23:51:20Z")

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Good lord to think i was 12 when i did that!

wow - your hs sounds like mine! this be huntin’ country too. all the dads went up north to go huntin. most kids drove old pickups. it was pretty rural back then…  
one girl said the science teacher knocked her up… dayum… guess it was a DNA science project.

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**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\
**Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 4:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/36 "2008-07-21T16:01:08Z")

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I vaguely remember being a horny son of a bitch by about 10 yrs old (Grade 5) - Luckily I was far to geeky at the time to get myself into trouble

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**Author:** ![LaurieNY](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/bbce88/32.png) [@LaurieNY](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LaurieNY)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2008, 4:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/37 "2008-07-28T04:38:48Z")

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> [@](#):
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> I’m not ready to be a mother to two boys with random erections.

You most likely already are. It happens in infancy. It’s just physiological much of the time during childhood, it doesn’t have to mean anything–considering adult men have such reactions for no reason as well, albeit less often.

ITA with everything bosshank said, but I’d reinforce the part about nipping misinformation in the bud, because even in this age where it feels like kindergarten kids know everything about sex, there is still a crapload of misinformation floating around high school hallways: “I swear, dude, she can’t get pregnant if she’s on top. It’s like, gravity or something.”

I would also add that not every kid learns the basics in 5th-6th grade–I did, because I live in New York, but even NYS still requires that HS health teachers push abstinence, and we’re a blue state. If you live below the Mason-Dixon line or in the Midwest, I wouldn’t count on any sex ed at all.

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**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2008, 5:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/38 "2008-07-28T05:00:20Z")

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> [@LaurieNY](#):
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> ITA with everything bosshank said, but I’d reinforce the part about nipping misinformation in the bud, because even in this age where it feels like kindergarten kids know everything about sex, there is still a crapload of misinformation floating around high school hallways: “I swear, dude, she can’t get pregnant if she’s on top. It’s like, gravity or something.”

I remember all of those, Jr high was full of them.

> [@LaurieNY](#):
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> I would also add that not every kid learns the basics in 5th-6th grade–I did, because I live in New York, but even NYS still requires that HS health teachers push abstinence, and we’re a blue state. If you live below the Mason-Dixon line or in the Midwest, I wouldn’t count on any sex ed at all.

I learned about sex around 3rd grade, but that was because I saw a cow and a bull making little cattle. The “Sex-Ed” class in 5th and 6th grade was really tame compared to that.

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**Author:** ![LaurieNY](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/bbce88/32.png) [@LaurieNY](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LaurieNY)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2008, 5:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/39 "2008-07-28T05:31:26Z")

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Oh…my goodness.

Glad I was drunk when I read that.

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**Author:** ![Hazard](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hazard/32/1153_2.png) [@Hazard](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Hazard)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2008, 5:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/40 "2008-07-28T05:41:18Z")

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just tell your kids PIITB…

P.I.I.T.B - Put It In The Butt - no pregnancy issues 🙂

Joking aside… I learned everything i know from my friends. My parents found out i had sex before they even thought they should be giving me the talk. I never felt comfortable talking with them about that stuff… They are great parents… would do anything for me and i love them to death for that… but there wasn’t a chance in hell that i was going to come home and ask my dad how to push her button the right way…

If your kids are open with you - thats awesome. Maybe they feel less need to lie about things… Ofcoarse - i never lied… Lying got me “the belt” haha

~Haz~

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**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\
**Post date:** [July 29, 2008, 2:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/41 "2008-07-29T02:21:32Z")

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> [@Hazard](#):
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> just tell your kids PIITB…
> 
> P.I.I.T.B - Put It In The Butt - no pregnancy issues 🙂

Funny, a mom I know would probably disagree. She basically had two rules for her daughter, no hard drugs, and no anal. She said it just wasn’t natural. 🙂

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