# What is happening to kids today? **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [June 16, 2008, 11:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002 "2008-06-16T23:46:43Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [July 29, 2008, 2:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/42 "2008-07-29T02:50:29Z")
> [@Hazard](#): > > just tell your kids PIITB… > > P.I.I.T.B - Put It In The Butt - no pregnancy issues 🙂 > > Joking aside… I learned everything i know from my friends. My parents found out i had sex before they even thought they should be giving me the talk. I never felt comfortable talking with them about that stuff… They are great parents… would do anything for me and i love them to death for that… but there wasn’t a chance in hell that i was going to come home and ask my dad how to push her button the right way… > > If your kids are open with you - thats awesome. Maybe they feel less need to lie about things… Ofcoarse - i never lied… Lying got me “the belt” haha > > ~Haz~ I know a couple of Parents who would disagree with your PIITB sexual practice. Remember there is always a chance spillage.😮 My parents were pretty simple, don’t go making kids until you can afford and care for them. of my relationships that progressed to sexual terms, there have only been two sweaty times, when we had to sweat a couple of weeks. Tattered condoms are never fun!:o ---
**Author:** ![Hazard](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hazard/32/1153_2.png) [@Hazard](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Hazard)\ **Post date:** [July 29, 2008, 4:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/43 "2008-07-29T04:09:17Z")
LMAO yeah no parent wants to hear about their kid and anal… i had 2 close calls also… unfortunately one of them was my 1st time when i was 14… that whole week wasn’t pleasant with my parents heh ~Haz~ ---
**Author:** ![phernoob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phernoob/32/180_2.png) [@phernoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/phernoob)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2008, 3:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/44 "2008-07-30T15:15:40Z")
Anal. NOOO! It’s an EXIT not an ENTRANCE. When someone does that- doesnt poo come out too? Isnt poop the GROSSEST thing in the entire world? Why go in there? It’s a passage designed to evacuate solid material that is harmful to the body. The body does not want it. There are so many diseases one can get being in close proximity with poop. What happened to good old fashioned hand-jobs? I’m NOT talking about kids doing that though (yea, I know some do). Woofie- correct as usual. Dont do it until you can afford it. Sex outside marriage is a privilege - not a right. Gotta earn it with maturity and good decision-making skills… Plus babies are expensive. Especially girls. \… With regard to drugs. Zero tolerance. Dont do it ever. Never done it myself. Never will. Drinking. I told my kid. 21. Non-negotiable. 21 and no driving. Nothing wrong with taking turns being DD with friends. She’s almost 13 and very curious. Ima put a lock on my wet bar I think. ---
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2008, 3:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/45 "2008-07-30T15:41:14Z")
A woman went to her doctor for advice. She told him that her husband had developed a penchant for anal sex and she was not sure that it was such a good idea. ‘Do you enjoy it?’ The doctor asked. ’ Well actually, yes, I do.‘, she exclaimed… ‘Does it hurt you?’ he asked. ‘No. I rather like it.’ ‘Well, then,’ the doctor continued, ‘there’s no reason that you shouldn’t practice anal sex, if that’s what you like, so long as you take care not to get pregnant.’ The woman was mystified…‘What? You can get pregnant from anal sex?’’ ‘Of course,’ the doctor replied. ‘Where do you think politicians come from?’ ---
**Author:** ![z414a4d](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/z414a4d/32/1299_2.png) [@z414a4d](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/z414a4d)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2008, 3:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/46 "2008-07-30T15:48:04Z")
I was in 3rd grade when I remember learning and stuff about all that fun stuff. It was a private school, and from what i noticed from my friends at public schools, thats alot younger than it is taught elsewhere. If she said Erection…then imo, knowing the technical term, has been taught or told so by an adult…cause noone refers to boners as erections …specially that young…just me? meh ---
**Author:** ![Hazard](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hazard/32/1153_2.png) [@Hazard](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Hazard)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2008, 8:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/47 "2008-07-30T20:19:35Z")
> [@phernoob](#): > > Anal. NOOO! It’s an EXIT not an ENTRANCE. When someone does that- doesnt poo come out too? Isnt poop the GROSSEST thing in the entire world? Why go in there? It’s a passage designed to evacuate solid material that is harmful to the body. The body does not want it. There are so many diseases one can get being in close proximity with poop. > > What happened to good old fashioned hand-jobs? I’m NOT talking about kids doing that though (yea, I know some do). > > Woofie- correct as usual. Dont do it until you can afford it. Sex outside marriage is a privilege - not a right. Gotta earn it with maturity and good decision-making skills… Plus babies are expensive. Especially girls. \… > > With regard to drugs. Zero tolerance. Dont do it ever. Never done it myself. Never will. > Drinking. I told my kid. 21. Non-negotiable. 21 and no driving. Nothing wrong with taking turns being DD with friends. She’s almost 13 and very curious. Ima put a lock on my wet bar I think. I thinks it’s appealing because most women dont wanna doit… it’s taboo… and yes… what EVER HAPPENED to those good ole hand jobs? Aparantly once you get married… shes allowed to forget about those… LMAO ~Haz~ ---
**Author:** ![damu33](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/damu33/32/1545_2.png) [@damu33](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/damu33)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2008, 9:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/48 "2008-07-30T21:38:44Z")
Kids are exposed to more things today. I would say the television is the number one reason for the behavior ---
**Author:** ![phernoob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phernoob/32/180_2.png) [@phernoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/phernoob)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 2:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/49 "2008-07-31T02:06:17Z")
Woofie - LOL!!! Thanks that DOES explain politicians! Hazard - I dont think they are forgotten once married, i think they are reserved for the wife saying to herself - oh no not tonight, i didnt shave my legs, he pissed me off earlier, i just want to finish this chapter, my fave show is on lets get this over with, my mother is sleeping in the next room,HOLD ON WE ARE AT THE CAR WASH -sorry that one is a secret fantasy… ---
**Author:** ![phernoob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phernoob/32/180_2.png) [@phernoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/phernoob)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 2:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/50 "2008-07-31T02:07:38Z")
> [@z414a4d](#): > > I was in 3rd grade when I remember learning and stuff about all that fun stuff. It was a private school, and from what i noticed from my friends at public schools, thats alot younger than it is taught elsewhere. If she said Erection…then imo, knowing the technical term, has been taught or told so by an adult…cause noone refers to boners as erections …specially that young…just me? meh OMG OMG Welcome back cutie - where have you been? ---
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2009, 5:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/51 "2009-06-21T05:07:07Z")
I decided that this thread needed dusting off… With the topic more and more in the news Teens today are having more kids. Why? Are there fewer abortions? Are there more kids not paying attention to sex-ed classes, Are sexual education classes lacking proper information on birth control? Or is it that young ladies think it is cooler, because they can have something that loves them completely no matter what? (_Gag, get a pony or a puppy_) A friend and I discussed this at length, we suspected that because of the Abstinence only teaching of current sexual education programs, kids must be turning to the internet and Pornography more for sexual education. Because in P0rn movies, actors seldom wear condoms, (even though they always go for an hour and pull out in plenty of time) ---
**Author:** ![M\_P](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/m_p/32/1633_2.png) [@M\_P](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_P)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2009, 5:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/52 "2009-06-21T05:14:14Z")
I think that the media is a lot more lax about sexual content now…the term sex sells is more true now than ever. Even if you look out and about…you see girls younger and younger dressing more provocatively. Peer pressure probably has alot to do with it too…so and so is a virgin etc. I think there’s no turning back on the issue…the damage has been done. EDIT: Pretty grim I know 😛..but it’s true. ---
**Author:** ![pupy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/bc8723/32.png) [@pupy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pupy)\ **Post date:** [June 24, 2009, 9:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/54 "2009-06-24T21:21:45Z")
> [@djandarial](#): > > Personally I remember the awkwardness of erections as young as 12 or 13. I remember “the big change” of guys changing from briefs to boxers as they moved from elementary school to high school. For some reason it was seen as being more masculine to wear boxers, and every mother seemed to be worried that their son would be seen wearing briefs when changing clothes for PE. I remember telling my mom that I didn’t really want to, 'cause then when I got an erection it would be noticeable. I remember getting them as early as first grade. It was just a bother back then… made walking awkward, sitting awkward, etc. But by about 3rd grade I had put two-and-two together, and didn’t want to be caught dead by a girl with a woody. Second year of middle school I gained some more control on it, and switched over to boxers. > [@djandarial](#): > > Don’t blame the media, you as parents have the ability to stop what your children are exposed to. My parents did a crack job at this, and I thank them for that. Mine were the same. I figured out what Playboy was, and was constantly on the website. Unfortunately I didn’t know what an internet history was, and my mom noticed and alerted my dad. The two of them went to every page I had visited to make sure I hadn’t “seen anything bad” (aka sex), and were relieved when they found out I hadn’t. With all of the family knowing what I had done, I was too guilty to ever go back. > [@djandarial](#): > > My speech paterns are altered as a result. …that said, you _did_ miss a “t” in “patterns”. 😃 Just pulling your leg. I remember once writing an email to the principle of one of my schools complaining about a teacher. They went and had a talk with that teacher, who after reading the email, pointed out that it actually was sent by a student, not a teacher. She called me in to say thanks for the email, she had a talk with the teacher, and that she was amazed at my writing. I think I was only 12-14 at the time. 😮 > [@djandarial](#): > > But what does all this mean? You can do little to nothing to stop it. This is true. But like you said, if you can manage to change them from _I’ve-got-a-woody-where’s-the-nearest-girl_ to _I’ve-been-seeing-you-for-a-while-now-and-I-think-we-should-try-this_ then you’ve been successful. People make dumb-decisions but there are a lot that will mess up your life for good when you’re really young. The young gentleman may appear boring and bland to most, but take it from a straight guy with female roommates… there are tremendous payoffs from noble pursuits beyond the sexual kind. ---
**Author:** ![M\_P](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/m_p/32/1633_2.png) [@M\_P](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_P)\ **Post date:** [June 25, 2009, 5:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/55 "2009-06-25T05:14:25Z")
I’ve been watching porn since I was 12 and dial-up internet 😛. My parents never found out til I was in my mid teens and even then, they didn’t say anything about it. Anyways, I think it’s important to make a dumb decision or two and be able to learn and mature from it. ---
**Author:** ![Reaper\_vai](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reaper_vai/32/855_2.png) [@Reaper\_vai](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Reaper_vai)\ **Post date:** [June 26, 2009, 11:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/56 "2009-06-26T11:11:28Z")
It’s going to be an even bigger problem in the future for Americans. Slowly but surely the Moral fabric of your society is being deteriorated. It’s to de-sensitise you for whats ahead. The media controls it and the media is controlled by a select group of people. In the past thousand years this group of people has been evicted from every country in Europe. Some more than once. ---
**Author:** ![Txfox76](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/txfox76/32/2307_2.png) [@Txfox76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Txfox76)\ **Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 5:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/57 "2011-06-19T17:46:19Z")
Hate to be the one to tell anyone, but your reality check bounced. I’m not a parent, but I have been a teacher. I’m 35. Your children’s experiences will not be a direct reflection of your own experiences at that age. Just because something was not in your sphere of awareness when you were younger does not mean that it never happened. Your child’s experiences might be more in line with someone else from your same generation. I never did anything crazy as a kid, but I was aware of EVERYTHING going on around me. The first time I heard about a classmate having a pregnancy scare was in the 6th grade. One of my very good male friends had his first 3some in the 9th grade. My childhood best friend was a “blowjob queen” in her teens, I remember a specific party where there was a line outside her door. I’m not saying these things to horrify you. Pretending these things don’t happen hurts everyone. Open dialogue and full disclosure are the only solutions. And if your kids know about this stuff and you’ve discussed it with them, don’t think of them as “tainted”, think of them as properly informed. ---
**Author:** ![babeexphat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bbe5ce/32.png) [@babeexphat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/babeexphat)\ **Post date:** [July 9, 2011, 2:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002/59 "2011-07-09T02:12:15Z")
hahahahaaha awh this is a big problem but sort of funny. I thought i only didn’t know anything about sex until high school because i was super sheltered. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-happening-to-kids-today/14002.md?page=2)