# What is the good combination of Instant Openness and Instant Honesty?

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-the-good-combination-of-instant-openness-and-instant-honesty/22061>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [October 27, 2008, 4:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-the-good-combination-of-instant-openness-and-instant-honesty/22061 "2008-10-27T16:30:07Z")\
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**Author:** ![bonvoyage](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/a9adbd/32.png) [@bonvoyage](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bonvoyage)\
**Post date:** [October 27, 2008, 4:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-the-good-combination-of-instant-openness-and-instant-honesty/22061/1 "2008-10-27T16:30:07Z")

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I mean… I don’t want people to get chatty over nothing, but I also want the closeness and easy to approach sense IO giving out…

So what combination of IO and IH that works for you?

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**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\
**Post date:** [October 27, 2008, 8:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-the-good-combination-of-instant-openness-and-instant-honesty/22061/2 "2008-10-27T20:42:26Z")

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It really depends on the user.

I usually use one or the other, depending on what situation I’m in. If I want a chatty good time or some deep convos like at a party or with hubby, I’ll spray on 4 to 5 sprays of IO or IH, accordingly. If I just want some “general” socializing like at work or at a school event, I’ll use 2 to 3 sprays (IO at public events, IH at work). This may be too much for some, not enough for others, just depends on the person.

You may also want to consider Come Talk To Me which is more or less a 50/50 combo of [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) and Instant Openess. Personally, though, I like having the 2 separate products for a more customized application although CTTM seems to add just the right amount of “fun” and approachability with the male attraction-type of pheros.

Using Instant Shine will also help with that “easy to approach” vibe too, no matter what situation you are in.

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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [October 28, 2008, 12:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-is-the-good-combination-of-instant-openness-and-instant-honesty/22061/3 "2008-10-28T00:46:44Z")

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River gave a pretty good breakdown of the situation.

All I can say beyond that is that I go IH heavy over IO becasue the blabbering IO creates can drive me crazy. I do not care if you talk, just say something.