# What oh what to do with passive men.Electra needs her groove back! **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 14, 2009, 12:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-oh-what-to-do-with-passive-men-electra-needs-her-groove-back/28040 "2009-04-14T12:54:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2009, 11:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-oh-what-to-do-with-passive-men-electra-needs-her-groove-back/28040/21 "2009-04-15T23:15:49Z")
> [@ElectraComplex](#): > > I’m aware of that. He’s actually allowed to but says hes not.We live together and none of the general off behavior is there. Glad to hear that. Didn’t want to bring it up, but thought it necessary. ---
**Author:** ![txironhead](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/txironhead/32/595_2.png) [@txironhead](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/txironhead)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2009, 12:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-oh-what-to-do-with-passive-men-electra-needs-her-groove-back/28040/22 "2009-04-16T00:18:37Z")
> [@ElectraComplex](#): > > I’m early onset menopausal perhaps I’m not emitting the right pheromones myself in which case maybe getting some cops or something would help. You may have hit the nail on the head there. He’s not getting the “triggers” that turn on his libido. Cops might help. Still, most men can get turned on by a porno, and last time I checked my TV didn’t emit pheromones… Worth a try, though. I’m going through the exact opposite myself, except in my case I’m pretty sure it’s a hormonal imbalance coupled with high stress. Maybe you should both start taking the “Tribble pills”.😃 ---
**Author:** ![ElectraComplex](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/electracomplex/32/1257_2.png) [@ElectraComplex](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ElectraComplex)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2009, 5:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-oh-what-to-do-with-passive-men-electra-needs-her-groove-back/28040/23 "2009-04-16T05:28:15Z")
> [@txironhead](#): > > You may have hit the nail on the head there. He’s not getting the “triggers” that turn on his libido. Cops might help. > > Still, most men can get turned on by a porno, and last time I checked my TV didn’t emit pheromones… > > Worth a try, though. I’m going through the exact opposite myself, except in my case I’m pretty sure it’s a hormonal imbalance coupled with high stress. Maybe you should both start taking the “Tribble pills”.😃 Rofl, hes not too keen on porno so the signal may be more biological with him.You’re too funny. 🙂 Outa smokes gona go shine on the 7-11 boys. lol ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2009, 7:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-oh-what-to-do-with-passive-men-electra-needs-her-groove-back/28040/24 "2009-04-16T07:52:10Z")
Hm, I suggest you take him to your family doctor and get some blood work done so he can get his hormones checked just in case. I’m sure that he can still be able to show an aggressive competition edge, but still have slightly low testosterone/hormone levels. Just do it to be on the safe side, plus it’s always good to get checked anyway. Does he smoke or drink a lot? If so, this could be another reason/problem. A lot of caffeine intake can cause something I call “stim dick.” This is what I mean by that: **"Caffeine** raises blood pressure, a condition associated with infertility in men and decreased **libido** in both sexes. **Caffeine** also places stress on the adrenal glands, which are important to the creation of most hormones. Medical studies show regular **caffeine** intake decreases testosterone production. It also increases muscle tension, making it hard to relax. This is detrimental since a state of relaxation is very important to a satisfactory sexual experience. Lastly, **caffeine** is a vasoconstrictor and can impede the penis’ ability to fill with blood, resulting in soft or no erections." So if he’s big into energy drink or sodas, he should try to cut down on some of it to see if it helps. However, alcohol as mentioned can also be a cause because it lowers testosterone also mentioned here: “Alcohol is a depressant and reduces testosterone levels in men. According to a Duke University Medical Center study, regular moderate **male** drinkers experienced reduced capacity for penile erection, semen production and sperm counts. Consuming even small amounts of alcohol interferes with a man’s ability to control premature ejaculation and can result in fewer or no orgasms and decreased orgasm quality.” However, if he doesn’t drink then you’re OK. ---
**Author:** ![txironhead](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/txironhead/32/595_2.png) [@txironhead](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/txironhead)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2009, 8:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-oh-what-to-do-with-passive-men-electra-needs-her-groove-back/28040/25 "2009-04-16T08:04:40Z")
That being said, the Tribulus pills would be able to help him safely, since it balances the hormones without any known medical risk. ---
**Author:** ![ElectraComplex](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/electracomplex/32/1257_2.png) [@ElectraComplex](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ElectraComplex)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2009, 9:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-oh-what-to-do-with-passive-men-electra-needs-her-groove-back/28040/26 "2009-04-17T21:04:37Z")
> [@txironhead](#): > > that being said, the tribulus pills would be able to help him safely, since it balances the hormones without any known medical risk. tribblesss!!! 😃 [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-oh-what-to-do-with-passive-men-electra-needs-her-groove-back/28040.md?page=1)