# What pheromones might stimulate male erection?? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 27, 2010, 10:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-might-stimulate-male-erection/36598 "2010-02-27T22:43:59Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![shantisonggirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e19b73/32.png) [@shantisonggirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shantisonggirl)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2010, 10:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-might-stimulate-male-erection/36598/1 "2010-02-27T22:43:59Z")
I’m 41 years old and the last 2 guys I’ve dated have been 12 years older than me. In both cases, the men are lovely and affectionate and great at pleasing me, but never seem to be able to get it together themselves for sex. I was wondering if my own [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) were low and not enough of a trigger for them, so I’m going to try the Instant sexiness thing. But, I’m a pretty attractive woman (not to brag), so I’m not sure if this is my fault, or just a common thing with men in this age range…Help! I’m starting to lose my confidence! Any suggestions on how to get them going?? ---
**Author:** ![Snoopyace](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snoopyace/32/1727_2.png) [@Snoopyace](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Snoopyace)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2010, 10:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-might-stimulate-male-erection/36598/2 "2010-02-27T22:50:30Z")
Androstenone helps (Turn Up The Heat) and it will get your motor going as well. Copulins can REALLY help, depending on the guy but they don’t sell those here (do a search on the web and you’ll find a few places that are unmentionable here). I’m not sure about the female pheros since I’ve never knowingly been exposed to them but I know that copulins do work to get me, uh, up and ready at full salute. 🙂 There are also herbal products that can help. I was playing around with something called EHP (do a search) and woah, it works. My GF at the time couldn’t handle it so I stopped taking them. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Butterfly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/butterfly/32/1942_2.png) [@Butterfly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Butterfly)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2010, 10:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-might-stimulate-male-erection/36598/3 "2010-02-27T22:52:58Z")
If the guys are in their 50’s, then yes it is common for their age, in fact it is not unusual for men over 40 in general. A healthy lifestyle does help a lot, and some men maintain an active sexlife until old age. It is not your fault at all, don’t lose your confidence over this. Are you with these guys now or not? [Instant sexiness](https://a314.com/product/instant-sexiness/) is also great for you to feel sexier and attract men. You can also try IS to feel happy and have guys feel happy around you. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2010, 11:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-might-stimulate-male-erection/36598/4 "2010-02-27T23:49:49Z")
Copulins or Viagra ---
**Author:** ![Whitehall](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/whitehall/32/1087_2.png) [@Whitehall](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Whitehall)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2010, 6:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-might-stimulate-male-erection/36598/5 "2010-02-28T18:45:41Z")
Since I’m in the same age group as your fellas, and date women in your age group, let me share some personal experience and thoughts. Guys do vary a good bit in their aging processes. One factor I’ve noticed is that after a dry spell, it takes a bit more time to remember “what to do down below” and what it **feels** like to hump. Plus performance anxiety becomes a big factor. First nights can be problematic so ease into sex - enticement, not pressure. For a woman to better manage her man, she should start with necking and petting, advancing over several dates. Leave him wanting more until you get what you want. To get over-excited and push the guy for sex too early is a big turn-off. A “runaway hot woman” can be a real woody killer if he’s not feeling it too. Yes, copulins are definitely a turn-on, especially when wore by women in their 40’s and 50’s. PCC works for me as does [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) /B. I’ve concocted my own mixes, with varying degrees of success - so far. One effect I’ve noticed is that IH seems to be an erection killer in high doses when I’ve wore it. Too much empathy is not how sex works. A-none on a woman has to be in very light doses too. One effective supplement for a man is zinc-based called ZMA. A couple of capsules before bed over a few nights makes for sexy dreams and morning wood. If you have more questions, feel free to PM me. ---
**Author:** ![Warren](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/97f17d/32.png) [@Warren](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Warren)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2010, 9:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-might-stimulate-male-erection/36598/6 "2010-03-01T21:56:54Z")
Shantisonggirl, a similar question is discussed here: [Pushing someone over the edge with P81 + P83?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pushing-someone-over-the-edge-with-p81-p83/34493) and here: [Experimenting with P81](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p81/34901) ---
**Author:** ![ZombielandMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c89c15/32.png) [@ZombielandMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ZombielandMan)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2010, 10:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-might-stimulate-male-erection/36598/7 "2010-03-03T22:55:04Z")
Copulins work for me 🙂 as does TUTH. I’ll second what Whitehall says about ZMA too … Magnesium, Zinc and B vitamins have a pretty big effect on me. ---
**Author:** ![ZombielandMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c89c15/32.png) [@ZombielandMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ZombielandMan)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2010, 10:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-might-stimulate-male-erection/36598/8 "2010-03-03T22:58:20Z")
Another point worth making is this … don’t let this affect your confidence Shantisonggirl, and don’t feel that you have to take it upon yourself, or center into yourself, other people’s issues. That just results in two unhappy people. ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2010, 8:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-might-stimulate-male-erection/36598/9 "2010-03-04T08:13:13Z")
When a dumb high school and college student my dick was pretty much a “hair trigger” affair and it could and did go off at moment’s notice. I recall pitching tent walking down the street and catching a mere glimpse of an attractive women. I could bust nut before I even hit the barn door. Luckily I was usually good to go in 15 or 20 minutes. Not so much when past the big five-Oh. One shot and I’m down for the count. So it has to be a good one. It still works just fine but it takes a lot more to “prick” his interest. Little willie has gotten a lot more picky. She has to work more at the naughty and I appreciate the variety and little kinky details. Oddly, my relative disinterest seems to make women more interested. Life is not fair. When I was desperately horny women were fleeing before me. Now that I half way don’t care they try to seduce me all the time.