# What pheromones to use on friends who are staunch homebodies? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 13, 2016, 7:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-to-use-on-friends-who-are-staunch-homebodies/65759 "2016-03-13T19:57:17Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![TheAttractor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theattractor/32/575_2.png) [@TheAttractor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheAttractor)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2016, 7:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-to-use-on-friends-who-are-staunch-homebodies/65759/1 "2016-03-13T19:57:17Z")
I got a problem. All my close friends started LTR’s, and went from fun, outgoing guys, to senior citizens in a 30-year-old body. That is, they now only want to sit around the house and talk about kitchen tiles and mortgages, following by going to bed (or home) at 10:00 PM. _Maybe_ they and their girlfriends, plus me, will hit up the city’s historic district, and grab a beer for an hour. And don’t tell me they grew up! As little as 5 months ago, we went on a Halloween pub crawl together in costume. And danced (innocently) with a few older women who approached us. Now I feel like I’m visiting a retirement home every time I hang out with my friends. I might as well start bringing prune juice and Poligrip to our get-togethers. Meanwhile, I just got a solid hang of the dating/flirting process, and totally love it. Many a time, I stay downtown after work, hit up my favorite bar with Latin music, and tear up the dance floor, until it’s time to catch the last train home. It becomes more socially acceptable to come to bars alone as you get older (as opposed to seeming creepy when doing it in your 20’s), so all this works in my favor even more. So what [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) would you suggest I use before coming to hang out with my friends? Something that’ll give me charisma, to give myself more leverage in convincing them to go out for a change. And something fun and happy, to bring out their deeply buried outgoing, energetic side. I also want something to improve my status with their girlfriends, who seem to look down on me for being single (or possibly see me as a threat). I’m open to all recommendations, since I’m in the process of putting together my next order. Luckily, I still have my social groups, who are just as fun-loving as ever, despite some people being in their 50’s and married. Those groups are interest-specific: sports, karaoke, dancing, etc. I don’t need to use pheromones on them. Unless, of course, there’s a woman I’m hoping to attract, but that’s not the focus of this thread. ---
**Author:** ![chrisepz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/d07c76/32.png) [@chrisepz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chrisepz)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2016, 8:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-to-use-on-friends-who-are-staunch-homebodies/65759/2 "2016-03-13T20:50:55Z")
[Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) seems to increase the influence I have on people. They’re more prone to do what pleases me, I can sense it. I always wear Instant Shine when I wear IG, so that combo is something to consider. ---
**Author:** ![TheAttractor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theattractor/32/575_2.png) [@TheAttractor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheAttractor)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2016, 10:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-to-use-on-friends-who-are-staunch-homebodies/65759/3 "2016-03-13T22:12:11Z")
Now that A314 is back, I’m very likely going to get that. (Or P80, if the A314 gets snagged before I can buy it.) Hopefully, it’ll give me the vibe of a high-status “voice of reason”, rather than “that single guy”. It’ll also double for helping me at work. I also want a fun product. Something to avoid hearing yet another “teal vs. aqua” tile color debate. Would P83+IShine work for this? Is [MX297](https://a314.com/product/mx297/) helpful too, or is it only good for situations that are fun from the get-go, like a Latin dance club?