# What pheros ATTRACT African American females? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 15, 2008, 8:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680 "2008-05-15T20:45:16Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![NormaJeanMarilyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/normajeanmarilyn/32/586_2.png) [@NormaJeanMarilyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NormaJeanMarilyn)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2008, 8:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/1 "2008-05-15T20:45:16Z")
**Please do not post if you’re not attracted to African American females, have no experience with trying to attract them or otherwise have nothing positive to add.** I believe that I secrete a pheromone out of my body that repels younger African American women. This has come over YEARS of mistreatment, harassment and out and out harm from certain aged African American women. I would say from 15 to 40 (definitely 15-30). Since my boyfriend has a lot of African American female friends, this has caused MANY issues. I am not concerned with him being with any of these people (please don’t PM me or post with the whole “you don’t know men” thing. I know men better than I know women and I know my man better). I wouldn’t bother being with someone I don’t trust. I love him enough to have to wear whatever pheromones I have to so I can get along with these c\*nts. I myself am half-black, but do not look it. Any suggestions? I have [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) (for women) in my cart for now. I also wear Instant Shine (for self-effects). Thanks for the helps, guys! P.S. I do NOT have any issues with AA women at all. I do my best to get along with them, but to no avail. All of my female friends are white. ---
**Author:** ![mstearious\_won](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8edcca/32.png) [@mstearious\_won](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mstearious_won)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2008, 9:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/2 "2008-05-15T21:02:50Z")
> [@NormaJeanMarilyn](#): > > **Please do not post if you’re not attracted to African American females, have no experience with trying to attract them or otherwise have nothing positive to add.** > > I believe that I secrete a pheromone out of my body that repels younger African American women. This has come over YEARS of mistreatment, harassment and out and out harm from certain aged African American women. I would say from 15 to 40 (definitely 15-30). Since my boyfriend has a lot of African American female friends, this has caused MANY issues. I am not concerned with him being with any of these people (please don’t PM me or post with the whole “you don’t know men” thing. I know men better than I know women and I know my man better). I wouldn’t bother being with someone I don’t trust. I love him enough to have to wear whatever pheromones I have to so I can get along with these c\*nts. I myself am half-black, but do not look it. > > Any suggestions? I have Instant Female Magic (for women) in my cart for now. I also wear Instant Shine (for self-effects). Thanks for the helps, guys! Just curious NJM, is your boyfriend African American? I know you said he has a lot of a.a friends, I just dont want to assume ---
**Author:** ![NormaJeanMarilyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/normajeanmarilyn/32/586_2.png) [@NormaJeanMarilyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NormaJeanMarilyn)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2008, 9:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/3 "2008-05-15T21:07:00Z")
No, he’s white. ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2008, 9:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/4 "2008-05-15T21:09:54Z")
I’m attracted to AA females, don’t have much experience trying to attract them, and what I have to add, I hope is received as positive. But I don’t think the first two will really help your situation. Most of the ‘attraction’ that is discussed here is ‘sexual attraction’ and I don’t think that’s what you’re looking for. I suppose we could call what you’re looking for ‘social attraction’. I don’t know if [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) are really the issue. I doubt there is a pheromone that ‘repels’ AA women. Clearly you’ve had issues for pretty much your whole life. It also seems that the conflicts started around the beginning of sexual development. That could be a hint.. I only observed AA culture as an outsider, so I cannot provide an exact perspective, only the perspective that has been developed thus far. If I had to guess at what might cause conflicts is your mixed ethnicity? I know there have been conflicts over being light skinned/dark skinned. Or mixed girls/guys being given a hard time from both their caucasian peers and AA peers. Could that be root of the conflict, as misguided as it may be? Especially since you say you look more white than black. If you look white and are with a black man, some black women might have negative things to say about that as well, just on the assumption that a ‘good black man’ was taken by the ‘evil white woman’. There is a similar complex amongst asian men regarding asian women dating white men. **Edit: I just saw your post stating that your bf is white. I’m not really sure how that might change things and what that might mean regarding your situation, but it does nullify any relevance regarding what I just wrote. I guess my next question is, how is your relationship with older AA females? How about your own mother? Was she AA or white?** How would you describe your culture? Do you ‘act white’? Or do you ‘act black’? I’ve been told I’m not very ‘Korean’ and it tends to put off other Koreans. Others have told me I don’t ‘act asian’ and thus upon first impression they think I’m mixed or pacific islander. But, if I were to suggest any type of pheromone use, maybe you could try and project an ‘Oprah’ persona? Be an AA female role model for the younger AA girls to look up to. So that rather than try and approach you with disdain, they’ll approach you in a positive, open mindset. I’m not familiar with the women’s products, so I’m not sure how to achieve that ‘effect’ or if that’s even the proper persona to try and emulate, but that’s the approach that I might suggest. If it is rooted in skin color (being mixed but looking white), then you could find common ground in that, and how you can understand that their behavior might just be due to unresolved insecurities they might have regarding race issues. ---
**Author:** ![mstearious\_won](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8edcca/32.png) [@mstearious\_won](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mstearious_won)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2008, 9:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/5 "2008-05-15T21:25:59Z")
I agree with Phya–It’s a little deeper then pheromones as I’ve read somewhere on the board that they only comprise 10-20% of the attraction equation. The exact reason why you may repel a.a. women depends on the particular women you’re repelling and how they perceive you. You may come across as being this to one, and that to another. It’s kinda hard to generalize. ---
**Author:** ![NormaJeanMarilyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/normajeanmarilyn/32/586_2.png) [@NormaJeanMarilyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NormaJeanMarilyn)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2008, 9:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/6 "2008-05-15T21:41:25Z")
Thank you Phya. I come from a mixed family and grew up upper middle class in a mostly white neighborhood and town. I don’t agree that there is acting white or acting black. I have never subscribed to that kind of thinking. I will admit that being light in a black family I was treated differently. I am my mother’s color (white) with long hair and in the AA world that can be consider “ideal” to some. I have done all I can my whole life to be nice and never understood why they were so mean to me, without provocation. Now that I am older, I don’t think it’s just my skin color. I have NO issues with white, hispanic or asian women. I have always been kind and get along with OLDER AA women with no issues. They adore me, in fact. Anyway, I mentioned [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) because women use it to help temper their tempers (little play on words there) during that time of the month and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) since they are socials. I want to figure out what kind of pheromones attracted or made them nice them so I could isolate what was used in them and make my purchases based on that. ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2008, 10:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/7 "2008-05-15T22:13:26Z")
> [@NormaJeanMarilyn](#): > > Thank you Phya. I come from a mixed family and grew up upper middle class in a mostly white neighborhood and town. I don’t agree that there is acting white or acting black. I have never subscribed to that kind of thinking. NP. You’re very welcome. 😃 I too, don’t agree with anyone ‘acting white or black’. However, I do agree that within certain households, specific social values will be given precedence over others, which can lead to a general consensus of preferred values, which in turn degenerates into ‘acting black/white/asian/etc…’ I think that growing up in a mostly white neighborhood and town might not be the root of the issue, but is certainly a good place to start. That being said, I’m not declaring your childhood background as negative to your social status or anything like that, I’m simply indicating that it might be a significant factor. > [@NormaJeanMarilyn](#): > > I will admit that being light in a black family I was treated differently. I am my mother’s color (white) with long hair and in the AA world that can be consider “ideal” to some. I have done all I can my whole life to be nice and never understood why they were so mean to me, without provocation. Now that I am older, I don’t think it’s just my skin color. I have NO issues with white, hispanic or asian women. > > I have always been kind and get along with OLDER AA women with no issues. They adore me, in fact. If you get along with older AA women, while it is possible that _their_ tolerances to whatever specific pheromone you output (that repels them) has changed over the years, or that it just isn’t a biological issue, and that the older AA women have changed culturally, and thus behave differently as well. I’d say that, if anything, perhaps the fact that your mother was white, rather than black might also be a factor? You learned to socialize with women in from a woman with predominantly ‘white’ values, whereas a woman growing up under a black woman, would have been raised with predominantly ‘black’ values, possibly leading to ‘acting white/black’. Your black father might be able to influence you with some of his ‘black’ values, but the bond between mother and daughter being what it is, won’t have as significant of an impact if both parent figures are in the equation. Maybe the younger AA girls get jealous because you have that ‘ideal’ hair, look lighter (which to them might mean more/better acceptance in society), and you don’t ‘act’ like them. Thus they might conclude that your behavior is that of ‘exclusivity’ or ‘superiority’, and react accordingly. That would be them projecting their insecurities onto you, then reacting to it. > [@NormaJeanMarilyn](#): > > Anyway, I mentioned [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) because women use it to help temper their tempers (little play on words there) during that time of the month and Instant Shine since they are socials. I want to figure out what kind of pheromones attracted or made them nice them so I could isolate what was used in them and make my purchases based on that. I can’t speak for IFM being used in that manner, but [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) has lighten up many situations for me, so I think that might be effective. All in all, if you can get the girls to be comfortable around you, then you should be gravy. I might tried experimenting with different ratios of TAL and TAH and see how that might change things up. I wonder how much of that perceived ‘angelina jolie’ personality that you attribute to yourself is a product of personality contrast with respect to your environment. Maybe there are lots of other AA women who are much more ‘angelina jolie’ than you, and you are more ‘marilyn monroe’ than you think, but because of differing cultural values in your environment, you might be inclined to conclude incorrectly. I know I was often described as ‘violent’. The only thing ‘violent’ about me was how intense I could get if rubbed the wrong way, but I didn’t get into fights, didn’t hit people, didn’t even make fun of them. I was as nice of a kid as you could hope for. But I was ‘violent’. That was in the pristine, ‘untainted’ environment of my private bilingual French school. Public school, hell, I was a softy. The security guards prayed for more kids like me. By contrast, at my old school I was trying to play the system, violent, etc… It goes without saying that our environments play a large role in molding our behavior, but it also plays a large role in molding our self-perception. I used to think I was really violent because I was told I was violent, so I played sports to ‘get out the anger’ and I tried to understand where this ‘anger’ was coming from. I got really confused until I realized I wasn’t angry, people were just telling me how they thought I should feel and I listened. ---
**Author:** ![NormaJeanMarilyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/normajeanmarilyn/32/586_2.png) [@NormaJeanMarilyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NormaJeanMarilyn)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2008, 10:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/8 "2008-05-15T22:25:55Z")
I have had to become more self aware as I got older, not respond to what other people wanted me to be. I used to feel bad about being light and would tan to be darker. But I guess with my features, it’s hard to hide. I used to dye my hair black so my natural blond hair would be hidden. Now, I just say to hell with it. But I want to at least be able to tolerate these girls when we are out with them. They are relentless with trying to get together with my boyfriend and break us up. If I told you the things they have done, it would blow your mind. They don’t even like him, they just hate me. I hate having to say these things, but over time it’s been harder and harder to deny that they have been happening. We have talked about it and decided to stop being around them together for now, but I don’t like that. Thanks again, Phya. ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2008, 10:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/9 "2008-05-15T22:44:51Z")
> [@NormaJeanMarilyn](#): > > I have had to become more self aware as I got older, not respond to what other people wanted me to be. I used to feel bad about being light and would tan to be darker. But I guess with my features, it’s hard to hide. I used to dye my hair black so my natural blond hair would be hidden. Now, I just say to hell with it. But I want to at least be able to tolerate these girls when we are out with them. **They are relentless with trying to get together with my boyfriend and break us up. If I told you the things they have done, it would blow your mind. They don’t even like him, they just hate me.** > > - I hate having to say these things, but over time it’s been harder and harder to deny that they have been happening. We have talked about it and decided to stop being around them together for now, but I don’t like that.\* > > Thanks again, Phya. That’s too bad. I understand your comment about “how guys are” a bit more clearly, now that you’ve articulated that. If that’s the case, I would probably say that those specific women aren’t giving you a hard time because of any natural [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) you produce, they’re trying to bully you away from your man. It’s the same tactic a meat head uses when he comes up to you when you’re talking to your girl, only to try and humiliate you so that he looks more attractive by comparison. They might just truly hate you, but that speaks more about them than you. If that really is the case, then you truly can’t do anything about it. Don’t worry about them, the two of you (you and your man) seem to be on the same page regarding your relationship and are doing the right thing by just not associating with them. I know humans can act strangely when jealously is introduced. In middle school, I started dating a new student, and I guess there must have been some pre-existing interest in me because all of a sudden a couple girls started going haywire on me. Telling lies to their brothers to get him to try and beat me up, or throwing tantrums during lunch…sheesh. It wasn’t until after we went to high school that I found out why all those strange things started happening. I certainly learned a different lesson during that time though. As far as removing someone from your life, it sounds like you’re the type of person that wants to be friends with everyone if you can, and are remorseful even at the thought of intentionally removing potential friends from your life. I can relate - if that’s not you..well..my bad and I don’t relate. 😛 I have a friend, I’ve done lots of shit for him, to help him out of nasty situations. All he’s done so far is complain about the situations he gets stuck in. At a certain point, I had to break off communication with him. He was draining too much of my energy and time for his own needs. Needs he never pro actively tried to fulfill himself. That wasn’t cutting it, so I was forced to cut him off temporarily. If he doesn’t shape up his life and keeps running to me for help, I’m gonna cut him off permanently. I don’t want to do this by any means, I like being in his company and he meets a different group of people than who I’m used to so it’s makes for nice social variety. **But my life and my limits come first.** It’s something I had to learn, but it was necessary. So if those girls are making _ **your life** _ difficult, and are breaking _ **your limits** _, cut them out. And it seems that your BF is on the same page, so it shouldn’t cause any conflicts with your BF. No problem NJM, I hope I was able to shed some light, somewhere. 😛 Come back and say hi any time. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![NormaJeanMarilyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/normajeanmarilyn/32/586_2.png) [@NormaJeanMarilyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NormaJeanMarilyn)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2008, 11:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/10 "2008-05-15T23:13:23Z")
It’s not just those AA women, it’s ALL. They are just indicative of what I deal with on a daily basis. If he wasn’t worth it, I wouldn’t have hung in as long as I have with the BS they have put us through. But since it happens with EVERY SINGLE AA WOMAN of a certain age group, I have no choice. He has caucasian and asian female friends and they love me. It’s not just simple dislike…ok, I don’t like her, and they leave me alone. Things have gotten physical for no reason (those people are no longer around). But he’s going to be my husband and therefore I will do whatever to make it so we can all hang out without any bad feelings. I am a grown woman and can put things aside, but obviously they can’t. ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2008, 12:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/11 "2008-05-16T00:41:31Z")
AMMO would be the safest. Turn Up The Heat may get you hit on. Alter Ego from the other place. If those don’t work … you’re dealing, probably with jealousy issues. With that being said, cut off all your hair, get all your teeth pulled, and wear farmer pants. 🙄 Tis terrible that you’re spending your money to get along with ignorant people, but if you feel you must … ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2008, 12:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/12 "2008-05-16T00:48:41Z")
Well, the age group you mentioned earlier is an extremely large selection of the AA female population. Enough of a range in ages to eliminate any hormonal issues, or life stage issues. There must be something that is shared by all those women of different ages. The fact that a large range of ages exists might mean that it isn’t an age specific cultural conflict. I can see how you would see it the way you do after having experienced what you have for some time. Is there any chance that you might be subconciously priming yourself for a negative experience, and thus have a negative experience? Something like a self-fulfilling prophecy? Perhaps your younger experiences of being picked on by darker girls for being light skinned were extremely impactful and influenced you to believe in that self-fulfilling prophecy? If I may ask, are there ever any similarities between the various conflicts? Say, maybe they all happen to comment on you being light skinned? Or mixed? I suppose that would be too obvious. Maybe they indirectly try and bring you down? They don’t like your haircut..? Or is it just straight, hey you! _blam_ fist to the face? ---
**Author:** ![mstearious\_won](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8edcca/32.png) [@mstearious\_won](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mstearious_won)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2008, 12:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/13 "2008-05-16T00:51:22Z")
> [@Phya](#): > > Or is it just straight, hey you! _blam_ fist to the face? LOL I am sooo only laughing at that comment and not the topic I promise! ---
**Author:** ![NormaJeanMarilyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/normajeanmarilyn/32/586_2.png) [@NormaJeanMarilyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NormaJeanMarilyn)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2008, 2:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/14 "2008-05-16T02:17:30Z")
> [@Phya](#): > > Is there any chance that you might be subconciously priming yourself for a negative experience, and thus have a negative experience? Something like a self-fulfilling prophecy? Perhaps your younger experiences of being picked on by darker girls for being light skinned were extremely impactful and influenced you to believe in that self-fulfilling prophecy? No, it’s been happening for a long time, before I could have a complex about it. I’ve always been very open nad friendly, but in all honesty I’ve always had darker girls hate me for a long time as well. My female cousins were light or another race, so they never had issues with me. But once I went to a more integrated school, I got it in the hallways and at lunch (they knew my black male cousins and knew I was half black or the few). I never denied who or what I am, but they didn’t like that my family had money or that I wasn’t ghetto. But as I’ve gotten older, even people who should be past that don’t like me. I always worked in white clubs when I danced and made more money than anyone else, and since some people say you MUST be black if you have one drop of black blood, the black girls didn’t like me since the white customers spent a lot of money on me and not them. I am nice unless you are mean to me. Even then I don’t snap right away. Because of my man, I am nice for him to them. I put up with a lot I didn’t tell him about until it got to be too much. With them, I am a lot prettier, hands down. Not one of them is in shape or good looking in the least. Even pretty girls have issues with me, ones you would think would be confident in themselves. Have the times they do it behind my back, act nice to my face then tell someone else that they hate me…when they have no reason to. If I have to buy some pheromones to get along with them and make my man happy, I will. 🙄 The ones who got physical did so over time. ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2008, 3:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/15 "2008-05-16T03:06:32Z")
> [@NormaJeanMarilyn](#): > > With them, I am a lot prettier, hands down. Not one of them is in shape or good looking in the least. Even pretty girls have issues with me, ones you would think would be confident in themselves. Have the times they do it behind my back, act nice to my face then tell someone else that they hate me…when they have no reason to. If I have to buy some pheromones to get along with them and make my man happy, I will. 🙄 > > The ones who got physical did so over time. Well, at least you have the why **s** , and they have plenty of reasons … as list above. > [@NormaJeanMarilyn](#): > > If I have to buy some pheromones to get along with them and make my man happy, I will. 🙄 Then it sounds, to me, like you need to bug TishaPoo and Jas and any other feline about a more A314-dominant-type mone to build respect in your man’s circle; annnnnnnd you should always talk to your man waaaay before it builds up. Your pretty hinny may end up hurting someone! 🙄 That’s what build-up does. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![NormaJeanMarilyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/normajeanmarilyn/32/586_2.png) [@NormaJeanMarilyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NormaJeanMarilyn)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2008, 4:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/16 "2008-05-16T04:29:37Z")
I know I should have told him sooner. It’s a mistake I won’t make again. We’ve talked about it. Thanks again. ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2008, 7:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/17 "2008-05-16T07:19:58Z")
> [@NormaJeanMarilyn](#): > > No, it’s been happening for a long time, before I could have a complex about it. I’ve always been very open nad friendly, but in all honesty I’ve always had darker girls hate me for a long time as well. My female cousins were light or another race, so they never had issues with me. But once I went to a more integrated school, I got it in the hallways and at lunch (they knew my black male cousins and knew I was half black or the few). I never denied who or what I am, but they didn’t like that my family had money or that I wasn’t ghetto. But as I’ve gotten older, even people who should be past that don’t like me. I always worked in white clubs when I danced and made more money than anyone else, and since some people say you MUST be black if you have one drop of black blood, the black girls didn’t like me since the white customers spent a lot of money on me and not them. > > I am nice unless you are mean to me. Even then I don’t snap right away. Because of my man, I am nice for him to them. I put up with a lot I didn’t tell him about until it got to be too much. With them, I am a lot prettier, hands down. Not one of them is in shape or good looking in the least. Even pretty girls have issues with me, ones you would think would be confident in themselves. Have the times they do it behind my back, act nice to my face then tell someone else that they hate me…when they have no reason to. If I have to buy some pheromones to get along with them and make my man happy, I will. 🙄 > > The ones who got physical did so over time. The more I read, the more it just sounds like jealousy issues. And if you get the reactions you say you do without pheromones, I’m sure you’re fiiiine and know how to get your thang on. Many girls would be jealous of that, hell, lots of guys are jealous of that. 😃 Don’t trip, keep your chin up and let em hate. ---
**Author:** ![NormaJeanMarilyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/normajeanmarilyn/32/586_2.png) [@NormaJeanMarilyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NormaJeanMarilyn)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2008, 7:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/18 "2008-05-16T07:42:33Z")
I mind my own business which is what is annoying. I hang out with more guys than girls, always have. I hate the drama that comes along with being around women. Men are easier to deal with and understand (to me). For the girls that have to do with my dude, it’s jealousy along with whatever maks AA women hate me. But there hasn’t been ONE AA woman that hasn’t (within that age group), which is the rub. I just want to make him happy. I’m not the kind of woman who will keep her man from going out. But we’ve agreed that I won’t be around them for now, since they can’t get it together. Just got to get him more male friends. He wants them, he knows that the ones he has now aren’t that great. ---
**Author:** ![smn1234](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smn1234/32/2430_2.png) [@smn1234](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smn1234)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 9:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/19 "2008-05-20T21:14:48Z")
jealousy? ---
**Author:** ![NormaJeanMarilyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/normajeanmarilyn/32/586_2.png) [@NormaJeanMarilyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NormaJeanMarilyn)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2008, 12:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680/20 "2008-05-21T00:41:42Z")
LOL…I think I am just going to order large sizes of [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and MX135 and keep my to go atomizers stocked with them. [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheros-attract-african-american-females/12680.md?page=2)