# What to try first at a swingers party?

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**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [January 27, 2010, 8:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-try-first-at-a-swingers-party/35764 "2010-01-27T08:02:18Z")\
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**Author:** ![RobAndDanielle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/ccd318/32.png) [@RobAndDanielle](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RobAndDanielle)\
**Post date:** [January 27, 2010, 8:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-try-first-at-a-swingers-party/35764/1 "2010-01-27T08:02:18Z")

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My wife and I go to swinger parties all the time. I’m wondering what I should try first at one of these parties.

Everyone at the party is there mainly to meet new friends and have sex with them. So I figure I need to stand out from the crowd.

I’m 51, white and have a few extra pounds and am only 5’ 7" tall.

Any suggestions?

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**Author:** ![MuskCloud](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f07891/32.png) [@MuskCloud](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MuskCloud)\
**Post date:** [January 27, 2010, 1:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-try-first-at-a-swingers-party/35764/2 "2010-01-27T13:52:43Z")

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I’m guessing that people who go to these parties are very full-on and not shy at all, right? If that’s the case, then you don’t need to be subtle with the pheromones. I would suggest [Instant Jerk](https://a314.com/product/instant-jerk/) mixed with a drop or two of Essence of Woman (EOW). You can get that from Love Scent.

The EOW will make you smell like you’re in demand, so to speak.

Musk

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**Author:** ![evolver](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/evolver/32/1896_2.png) [@evolver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/evolver)\
**Post date:** [January 27, 2010, 2:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-try-first-at-a-swingers-party/35764/3 "2010-01-27T14:01:02Z")

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You’re correct Musk, I think with his age that would be the best plan. However, coming on too strong could work in the opposite manner. It depends on your self image and personality. Myself I found that loading up with TUTH kept people away. I am much younger- about half his age. I enjoyed using P83 and [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) over the stronger androstenone mixes.

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**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\
**Post date:** [January 27, 2010, 8:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-try-first-at-a-swingers-party/35764/4 "2010-01-27T20:49:53Z")

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I’d go with what Musk said, but add some IH to it for comfort and trust, and maybe some Androsterone as well (IG or a drop or two of A314.) You don’t really need IO here, since people there are (I’m sure) already pretty open.