# What to use in my situation **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 19, 2010, 4:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-use-in-my-situation/36381 "2010-02-19T16:15:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![TMacVC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e99b99/32.png) [@TMacVC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TMacVC)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2010, 4:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-use-in-my-situation/36381/1 "2010-02-19T16:15:05Z")
I was in a relationship with this girl, but it abruptly ended when we couldn’t see each other. Back in December I saw her and it was the first time I saw her since the break-up in may and I knew there was something still left. 4 days later, we had sex, but ever since then it was like she was scared of me. She invites me over her house constantly but when i’m there she starts to ignore me and act like im not here. But when I leave she trys to pull me back in. I want to see what [pheromones](https://a314.com/) to use to get her to stop being frightful of me. ---
**Author:** ![giants52000](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/958977/32.png) [@giants52000](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/giants52000)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2010, 5:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-use-in-my-situation/36381/2 "2010-02-19T17:53:58Z")
> [@TMacVC](#): > > I was in a relationship with this girl, but it abruptly ended when we couldn’t see each other. Back in December I saw her and it was the first time I saw her since the break-up in may and I knew there was something still left. > > 4 days later, we had sex, but ever since then it was like she was scared of me. She invites me over her house constantly but when i’m there she starts to ignore me and act like im not here. But when I leave she trys to pull me back in. > > I want to see what pheromones to use to get her to stop being frightful of me. For friendlyness go with IH and IO. However, since you want to be more than friends, you’ll probably want none in it too to keep the spark. In that case, go with [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/)! ---
**Author:** ![reddog](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reddog/32/2091_2.png) [@reddog](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/reddog)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2010, 7:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-use-in-my-situation/36381/3 "2010-02-19T19:00:20Z")
Instant Shine, Instant Honesty, and [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) would be a great combination to try. IG will add your a great guy to be with feeling. Maybe forget the Ammunition for a while. She had sex with you, but might feel she shouldn’t have done that, mixed feelings and ‘too soon in the re-kindled relationship’. Then again I don’t fair to well trying to figure what is going on in the female mind. Good luck. ---
**Author:** ![bman123](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bman123/32/2087_2.png) [@bman123](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bman123)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2010, 10:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-use-in-my-situation/36381/4 "2010-02-19T22:08:41Z")
yes you should stay away from ammo and tuth type of pheros. from what you’re telling us it just looks like she needs you to take control. I dont really tink you need pheros in your case but it would help some. its obvious she invites you to her home and at the same time she wants you to stay when she ignores you the whole night. i think shes just playing a little game with you not so much shes “afraid” she had sex with you, whats there to be afraid of. just play the game with her a little bit and take some control. if she ignores you show a little attention then take it away. for pheros i think IH, IO, IS, IG, would work. use dont have to use all of them at once. remember the younger you are the less pheros you really need. def get the IS in there. itll make her feel good.🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2010, 1:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-use-in-my-situation/36381/5 "2010-02-20T01:48:58Z")
IG + IS is a pretty strong and simple comfort/ uplifter mix that works wonders. Give that a try. ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2010, 2:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-use-in-my-situation/36381/6 "2010-02-21T02:53:56Z")
> [@TMacVC](#): > > I was in a relationship with this girl, but it abruptly ended when we couldn’t see each other. Back in December I saw her and it was the first time I saw her since the break-up in may and I knew there was something still left. > > 4 days later, we had sex, but ever since then it was like she was scared of me. She invites me over her house constantly but when i’m there she starts to ignore me and act like im not here. But when I leave she trys to pull me back in. > > I want to see what pheromones to use to get her to stop being frightful of me. TMAC Just play along, there’s a game going on. If she invite **s…** Suit Up! You do have your equipment? right 🙄