# What to Wear: Lingerie Party **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [April 16, 2009, 3:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099 "2009-04-16T03:53:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![pupy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/bc8723/32.png) [@pupy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pupy)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2009, 3:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/1 "2009-04-16T03:53:40Z")
Hey Guys! This is kinda strange considering I’m still meeting all of you, but you seem like a great bunch so I’m gonna shoot this out there anyways! 🙄 I’ve been invited to a lingerie party next (not this) weekend by a friend, and I’m a little lost as to what I should wear. I’ve been told by all of my guy-friends to just wear some super-awesome boxers, but was told by girl-friend to get myself a pair of Armani briefs. What’s your guys’ take? What should I wear? 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2009, 1:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/2 "2009-04-16T13:14:00Z")
Hi pupy, here’s my suggestion. 🙂 [http://bricksandstonesgossip.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/hefner-bunnies-460\_998355c.jpg](http://bricksandstonesgossip.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/hefner-bunnies-460_998355c.jpg) Though it doesn’t seem to be workin’ so well for this guy. [http://images.costumesgalore.net/hugh\_hefner\_costume\_06218.jpg](http://images.costumesgalore.net/hugh_hefner_costume_06218.jpg) 😃 Bella ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Feel\_Good](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.feel_good/32/1148_2.png) [@Mr.Feel\_Good](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Feel_Good)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2009, 1:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/3 "2009-04-16T13:30:34Z")
> [@pupy](#): > > I’ve been invited to a lingerie party next (not this) weekend by a friend, and I’m a little lost as to what I should wear. I’ve been told by all of my guy-friends to just wear some super-awesome boxers, but was told by girl-friend to get myself a pair of Armani briefs. > > What’s your guys’ take? What should I wear? 🆒 Well, i went to one of those last winter and wore some smiley face boxers, but found myself to be one of 3 guys who actually conformed to dress code. Mortified? I think not! That just means i’m comfortable enough to do what they’re not and i actually got more attention because of it. Woot! Honestly, i’d stay away from briefs for the night. I think your gal pal either wants a chuckle or wants to check out whats under the hood… But either way, make her do it the hard way. 😛 ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2009, 3:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/4 "2009-04-16T15:25:20Z")
> [@Mr.Feel\_Good](#): > > Well, i went to one of those last winter and wore some smiley face boxers, but found myself to be one of 3 guys who actually conformed to dress code. Mortified? I think not! That just means i’m comfortable enough to do what they’re not and i actually got more attention because of it. Woot! Kudos on your courage. > [@Mr.Feel\_Good](#): > > Honestly, i’d stay away from briefs for the night. I think your gal pal either wants a chuckle or wants to check out whats under the hood… I agree on both … > [@Mr.Feel\_Good](#): > > But either way, make her do it the hard way. I whole-heartedly agree. ---
**Author:** ![pupy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/bc8723/32.png) [@pupy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pupy)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2009, 8:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/5 "2009-04-16T20:54:25Z")
> [@Mr.Feel\_Good](#): > > But either way, make her do it the hard way. 😛 Haha Will do. The Heffner look is an idea… there’s about 7 other guys going, so I don’t want to be wearing the same thing that one of them might show up in. And judging by who they are… I’m pretty sure one of them will. Boxers is prolly the way to go, then. I saw a cool pair the other day that had a list of girl names all over them, a couple of them had their names scratched out, and a a couple had their names circled. That could be a good laugh. ---
**Author:** ![djandarial](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djandarial/32/1667_2.png) [@djandarial](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djandarial)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2009, 9:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/6 "2009-04-16T21:03:55Z")
Wear boxers and order a Cock Sock, I think I stuffed mine with a condom filled with some Jello. I was going for the black man effect. Needless to say, I still have people talking, I am a big guy… but wearing boxers and the sock is 2/3 to bottom, obviously constrained LOL Had a couple grab me, and then yell back, “Oh it’s real alright.” ---
**Author:** ![pupy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/bc8723/32.png) [@pupy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pupy)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2009, 9:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/7 "2009-04-16T21:19:59Z")
> [@djandarial](#): > > Had a couple grab me, and then yell back, “Oh it’s real alright.” Haha That’d certainly be a fun story to tell my friends later. I’m tempted… but sounds a bit too over-the-top for this. Back at Arizona State… that was definitely fair-game. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2009, 10:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/8 "2009-04-16T22:15:51Z")
some ratty boxers and a wifebeater(white undershirt) but make sure it has some ketchup and mustard stains on it… That way you can keep hollering “Hey honey, while you are up get me a beer, willya?” ---
**Author:** ![pupy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/bc8723/32.png) [@pupy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pupy)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2009, 10:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/9 "2009-04-16T22:49:53Z")
> [@Wolfy](#): > > some ratty boxers and a wifebeater(white undershirt) but make sure it has some ketchup and mustard stains on it… > That way you can keep hollering “Hey honey, while you are up get me a beer, willya?” Hahahahahaha I love it! Great idea! ---
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2009, 2:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/10 "2009-04-17T02:10:47Z")
> [@pupy](#): > > Hahahahahaha I love it! Great idea! It’s basic math, women get all dolled up, in their babydoll empire necklined camisoles, garter belts, and stockings, guys typically show up in something they pulled out of the dirty clothes hamper and decided was not “too dirty” to wear. somewhere I read women are 80% more likely to go without underwear than they are to rewear dirty, where as Men are 90% more likely to rewear underwear than go without. 😮 ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2009, 2:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/11 "2009-04-17T02:33:57Z")
one of my friends threw a lingerie party once like.. 2 yrs ago or so.. like wolfy said, i got those really hot lingerie with the garter belts etc etc. the best looking guyat the party showed up in black boxers and a mafia hat (not sure if that was the guys’ dresscode tho…) i thought he was so hot. but it couldve been the alcohol. either way, he got my number and we did go out on a date and then i realized that he’s super boring. but ya.. wear boxers. nobody showed up in briefs and some guys actually dressed up. aaand let us know how it goes 😉 ---
**Author:** ![pupy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/bc8723/32.png) [@pupy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pupy)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2009, 4:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/12 "2009-04-17T04:41:59Z")
Wolfy! Where’d you find that statistic! That’s the funniest thing ever… The only exception I can think of that on the guy’s side was something I did just the other day… went hot tubbing, forgot my suit so I just went for it in my shorts, realized I had no clean OR dry boxers, so I just went commando in my jeans. 😛 > [@remmy](#): > > aaand let us know how it goes 😉 You know I will! Being a newbie to phero’s, what’s advisable to wear? I’ve still got about a week in which to experiment for my own, but a pointer sure would be nice. Right now AMMO sounds great, 'cause it’s both fragrance and phero’s all in one. ---
**Author:** ![Takhisis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Takhisis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Takhisis)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2009, 12:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/13 "2009-04-17T12:13:03Z")
> [@Wolfy](#): > > some ratty boxers and a wifebeater(white undershirt) but make sure it has some ketchup and mustard stains on it… > That way you can keep hollering “Hey honey, while you are up get me a beer, willya?” Mmm, sounds like a real catch 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2009, 5:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/14 "2009-04-17T17:18:40Z")
> [@pupy](#): > > Wolfy! Where’d you find that statistic! That’s the funniest thing ever… The only exception I can think of that on the guy’s side was something I did just the other day… went hot tubbing, forgot my suit so I just went for it in my shorts, realized I had no clean OR dry boxers, so I just went commando in my jeans. 😛 Something one of the other mascots came up with off the interweb, after a 3 hour discussion on going “Commando in Someoneelse’s fatigues.” > [@Takhisis](#): > > Mmm, sounds like a real catch 😉 Classic PUA style, act like a jerk to make her want you more. 🆒 > [@pupy](#): > > Being a newbie to phero’s, what’s advisable to wear? I’ve still got about a week in which to experiment for my own, but a pointer sure would be nice. Right now AMMO sounds great, 'cause it’s both fragrance and phero’s all in one. Sounds like a plan, I was going to say [Instant Jerk](https://a314.com/product/instant-jerk/). 😃 ---
**Author:** ![shades](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9d8465/32.png) [@shades](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shades)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2009, 5:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/15 "2009-04-17T17:37:45Z")
IM gonna suggest middle ground…Boxer Briefs. you get the freedom of movement and relative modesty of boxers, but with a nice dash of form-fitting sexyness. My wife got me some a few years back and Ive been sold ever since. You can get some really spiff ones from Armani or Hugo Boss or Calvin Klein in any dept store. You can probably find a matching designer sleepwear set from the same designer, and thus your “costume” is a functional thing youll enjoy wearing well after the party, unlike some cheap Heff knock-off novelty store thing. ---
**Author:** ![pupy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/bc8723/32.png) [@pupy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pupy)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2009, 9:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/16 "2009-04-17T21:00:48Z")
> [@Wolfy](#): > > I was going to say Instant Jerk. 😃 Now THAT could be kinda funny, no lie. haha (It’s too bad I don’t have any though. Another time I guess… ☹ ) > [@shades](#): > > You can probably find a matching designer sleepwear set from the same designer, and thus your “costume” is a functional thing youll enjoy wearing well after the party… Well… I was actually tempted to show up in flannel pajamas. I’d take off my shirt of course but keep the pants on (I already sleep in flannel pants without boxers in the Summer). It’s kinda cold here already so this seemed like a comfortable option. At the same time that almost seems like I’d be cheating… going like an A&F model in jeans (commando) and nothing else was one of my first ideas. But I decided that’s DEFINITELY cheating. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2009, 9:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/17 "2009-04-17T21:45:48Z")
> [@djandarial](#): > > Wear boxers and order a Cock Sock, I think I stuffed mine with a condom filled with some Jello. I was going for the black man effect. Needless to say, I still have people talking, I am a big guy… but wearing boxers and the sock is 2/3 to bottom, obviously constrained LOL Had a couple grab me, and then yell back, “Oh it’s real alright.” WTF is a Cock Sock? Do I even want to know ---
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2009, 9:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/18 "2009-04-17T21:49:57Z")
> [@Steve](#): > > WTF is a Cock Sock? Do I even want to know the ones I saw, on HBO Real Sex were made to look like an elephant. my GF, at the time, thought they were cute. They are basically G-strings for guys with extra room in the front, for sausage storage. ---
**Author:** ![pupy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/bc8723/32.png) [@pupy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pupy)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2009, 10:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/19 "2009-04-17T22:24:19Z")
> [@Wolfy](#): > > They are basically G-strings for guys with extra room in the front, for sausage storage. Haha Definitely wouldn’t want that to pop out of yer boxers… that’d not end well at all… 😮 ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2009, 11:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099/20 "2009-04-17T23:37:33Z")
Just go as Mango from the old SNL skits. Heh. 🙂 [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-wear-lingerie-party/28099.md?page=2)