# What works: GENERAL DATING (basic interpersonal relations) **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 23, 2006, 1:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223 "2006-03-23T01:17:42Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2006, 1:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/1 "2006-03-23T01:17:42Z")
Okay, I figure I’d start some threads aimed at SPECIFIC topics, and ask for SPECIFIC recommendations. Please post your BEST products/applications/mixes that you have developed for **GENERAL DATING (basic interpersonal relations)** Please post things that have worked, not just idle speculation. Please note possibly pertinent information such as ages (yours and “targets”/“test subjects”), environment, etc. And do what would you think if your mix (or someone elses mix) were turned into a general room diffuser-dispensed product? (eg the Oust fan.) ---
**Author:** ![Cloud9](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cloud9/32/1736_2.png) [@Cloud9](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cloud9)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2006, 6:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/2 "2006-03-23T06:27:00Z")
Went on a blind date Wed. night(22nd). It went really well. She was very talkative during the whole date and constantly asking me if she annoys me. She also asked alot if I like her. She wanted to impress me and have my approval of her during the date and even asked for approval. Later after we ate and came back to my room. i laid back on my bed and she soon followed. She gradually kept getting closer to me until we were right next to each other and her face was practically right beside mine. She kept looking over at me within about 3 inches of my face constantly. I wanted to act like I was ignoring her some before I made my move. So we kissed and she was laying all over me and in an excited happy mood and talking. We practically laid in my bed watching movies until she was really tired. I had to drive her back 18 miles so I needed to not have her over too late. I was wearing 3 drops A314, 2 sprays IS, 3 sprays IO, 1 spray TUTH, 2 sprays IFM. Appeared to really work well. I’m not sure if I should stick with 1 spray TUTH or move it up to 2 sprays next date we have together on Saturday or keep it at 1. P.S. I’m writing all this right after the date..I’m tired and don’t feel like going into details right now. Also my IO is 15mcg/spray strength ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2006, 6:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/3 "2006-03-23T06:53:45Z")
This seems to beg the question… is it even possible to OD with these products? lol I know it is, but that seems like a lot of mones. ---
**Author:** ![Cloud9](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cloud9/32/1736_2.png) [@Cloud9](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cloud9)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2006, 6:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/4 "2006-03-23T18:54:46Z")
You can OD with TUTH on Anone, but not the others unless you go crazy with sprays. You should see some of the mixes of other members around here…they make my mix look small. 3 drops A314 around neck/ear area. 1 spray of IS and TUTH to front of neck area. 1 spray IS, 2 sprays IO, 2 sprays IFM to head area. 1 spray IO to back of hands. ---
**Author:** ![Cloud9](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cloud9/32/1736_2.png) [@Cloud9](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cloud9)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2006, 6:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/5 "2006-03-23T18:56:06Z")
Forgot to mention the spray of IS to my face did away with about 90% of the melloing effects from IFM!!😃 ---
**Author:** ![examine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/examine/32/1665_2.png) [@examine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/examine)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2006, 4:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/6 "2006-03-24T16:10:02Z")
IFM and IS all the way. add a -rone to it if you can. ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2006, 5:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/7 "2006-03-24T17:57:56Z")
> [@examine](#): > > IFM and IS all the way. add a -rone to it if you can. So… Add A314? 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Cloud9](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cloud9/32/1736_2.png) [@Cloud9](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cloud9)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2006, 7:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/8 "2006-03-24T19:13:59Z")
I love A314..you just have to initiate more..because it makes you more intimidating from the status/power increasing effects of it. When you initiate though its kind of how a super hot model came up to talk to you..I mean I would be intimidated by a hot model and then if she came and talked to me I would be amazed. A314 kind of turns you into that person of higher class that seems out of reach for others. Its when you initiate that it works so well. ---
**Author:** ![Aurelie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aurelie/32/1914_2.png) [@Aurelie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aurelie)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2006, 7:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/9 "2006-03-24T19:16:15Z")
> [@Cloud9](#): > > I love A314..you just have to initiate more..because it makes you more intimidating from the status/power increasing effects of it. When you initiate though its kind of how a super hot model came up to talk to you..I mean I would be intimidated by a hot model and then if she came and talked to me I would be amazed. A314 kind of turns you into that person of higher class that seems out of reach for others. Its when you initiate that it works so well. Hi Cloud, Do you experience any effect of A314 on yourself or not? ---
**Author:** ![countesszero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/countesszero/32/1392_2.png) [@countesszero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/countesszero)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2006, 7:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/10 "2006-03-24T19:23:37Z")
I always thought that A314 was exclusively for men. Can women use it as well? ---
**Author:** ![Cloud9](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cloud9/32/1736_2.png) [@Cloud9](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cloud9)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2006, 7:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/11 "2006-03-24T19:24:00Z")
I when out to lunch with a new girl today..thanks to my Fedex friend he’s always trying to hook me up with young women he meets at his delivery spots. Since I was in town home for spring break thats two different dates so far. I made sure not to wear any TUTH or Anone…didn’t want to come off as too aggressive sexually or overly intimidating in a sexual way. She acted pretty shy and maybe a little intimidated(She just turned 19 and im fixing to turn 23). After I started asking alot of questions about her though she started coming out of her shell and asked me questions on her own and was coming off a little enthusiastic about her dancing competitions. She helps her mother teach a dance class. She teaches tumbling and gymnastic type moves for cheerleaders. By the end of the lunch I could tell she was starting to like me a good bit. After I brought her back to her mothers dance studio she agreed to go out again and got my number and gave me a hug.😃 I wore 3 drops A314, 3 sprays IO, 3 sprays IS, and 3 sprays IFM Seemed to do the trick, but with the A314 If I hadn’t initiated conversation and asked questions like I did it would have worked against me instead of helping me like it did. the 3 sprays IO was a must and I can see where I may need to get the double strength 30mcg/spray version now instead, because it really helps break the ice and keep the flow of conversation up. the IFM seemed to help relax her to where she wasn’t too nervous. IS made me feel good and confident..I think it helped make it more comfortable for her to get closer to me as well..breaks physical boundaries. ---
**Author:** ![Cloud9](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cloud9/32/1736_2.png) [@Cloud9](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cloud9)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2006, 7:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/12 "2006-03-24T19:29:28Z")
A314 I can’t tell how it effects me..if anything it makes me more confident and feel in control of things more. Its not as obvious like IS, IFM, and TUTH is on me. ---
**Author:** ![Aurelie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aurelie/32/1914_2.png) [@Aurelie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aurelie)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2006, 9:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/13 "2006-03-24T21:01:46Z")
> [@countesszero](#): > > I always thought that A314 was exclusively for men. Can women use it as well? My best guess would be yes. I think it is predominantly tweaked -rone. Which some of the women’s products /unisex products have -rone as well. I have very cautiously worn 1 - max 2 drops, and didn’t notice any “-none like” effect. Maybe A314, possibly softened up with something feminine, could be a viable “business application” for women? Just brainstorming here… My question was mainly aimed at finding out what effect A314 might have on my husband. ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2006, 9:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/14 "2006-03-24T21:08:37Z")
> [@Cloud9](#): > > I when out to lunch with a new girl today..thanks to my Fedex friend he’s always trying to hook me up with young women he meets at his delivery spots. Since I was in town home for spring break thats two different dates so far. I made sure not to wear any TUTH or Anone…didn’t want to come off as too aggressive sexually or overly intimidating in a sexual way. She acted pretty shy and maybe a little intimidated(She just turned 19 and im fixing to turn 23). After I started asking alot of questions about her though she started coming out of her shell and asked me questions on her own and was coming off a little enthusiastic about her dancing competitions. She helps her mother teach a dance class. She teaches tumbling and gymnastic type moves for cheerleaders. By the end of the lunch I could tell she was starting to like me a good bit. After I brought her back to her mothers dance studio she agreed to go out again and got my number and gave me a hug.😃 > > I wore 3 drops A314, 3 sprays IO, 3 sprays IS, and 3 sprays IFM > > Seemed to do the trick, but with the A314 If I hadn’t initiated conversation and asked questions like I did it would have worked against me instead of helping me like it did. the 3 sprays IO was a must and I can see where I may need to get the double strength 30mcg/spray version now instead, because it really helps break the ice and keep the flow of conversation up. the IFM seemed to help relax her to where she wasn’t too nervous. IS made me feel good and confident..I think it helped make it more comfortable for her to get closer to me as well..breaks physical boundaries. I think I’d have toned down the A314 use, considering you’re older than she is. Maybe 1 or possibly 2 drops, perhaps, instead of 3? ---
**Author:** ![countesszero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/countesszero/32/1392_2.png) [@countesszero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/countesszero)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2006, 9:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/15 "2006-03-24T21:43:00Z")
Thanks Aurelie, I may have to buy some A314 just to see what happens. Thus far I have nothing to report. I think I’m going to try each product alone first put my mad scientist hat away until I know the effects of each one. I think I’m going to start with IS. ---
**Author:** ![examine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/examine/32/1665_2.png) [@examine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/examine)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2006, 10:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/16 "2006-03-24T22:43:55Z")
> [@catlord17](#): > > So… Add A314? 😃 well for me A1 is about as bold as im willing to go. althou i do have on TE and IFM right now, and it seems to be working pretty well. Not sure if its the IFM (which works great for my chem) and the very minimal TE giving it the _punch_ i personally wouldnt try raw -rone for a date. ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2006, 10:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/17 "2006-03-26T22:31:29Z")
Yesterday I wore Pherlure only, and I hung out with one of my female friends. At the end of the night, she toldme she had been feeling wierd. Like she felt she “needed to do more, be more in order to be good enough for” me. I have never had that response before. Today I wore A314 only (2.5 drops) around her. She was all over it, smelling my forearms, being very affectionate, and very obviously becoming aroused. She told me it “sent tingly energy straight down there” when she smelled it on my arms. Obviously, she’s highly sexed and not ashamed to discuss it. A314 has now taken pride of place in my phero collection. I think it would be an excellent choice for dating. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2006, 12:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/18 "2006-03-27T00:58:36Z")
> [@catlord17](#): > > Yesterday I wore Pherlure only, and I hung out with one of my female friends. At the end of the night, she toldme she had been feeling wierd. Like she felt she “needed to do more, be more in order to be good enough for” me. I have never had that response before. > > Today I wore A314 only (2.5 drops) around her. She was all over it, smelling my forearms, being very affectionate, and very obviously becoming aroused. She told me it “sent tingly energy straight down there” when she smelled it on my arms. Obviously, she’s highly sexed and not ashamed to discuss it. > > A314 has now taken pride of place in my phero collection. I think it would be an excellent choice for dating. 🙂 Catlord, you wear your A314 on your forearms a lot. Are you wearing short sleeve shirts? How old is this highly sexed friend of yours? Thanks ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2006, 5:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/19 "2006-03-27T05:28:13Z")
> [@M&M](#): > > Catlord, you wear your A314 on your forearms a lot. Are you wearing short sleeve shirts? > > How old is this highly sexed friend of yours? > > Thanks You betcha I wear short sleeved shirts! If I were wearing long sleeved shirts, I’d wear it on the backs of my hands. This woman is 28, if I recall correctly. A314 does wonders for highly sexed women who have a healthy sense of self esteem, I have noticed. ---
**Author:** ![Cloud9](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cloud9/32/1736_2.png) [@Cloud9](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cloud9)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2006, 11:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223/20 "2006-03-27T23:04:41Z")
I wear A314 around my neck ear area and generally a drop spread on my inner wrists(pulse points). [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-general-dating-basic-interpersonal-relations/223.md?page=2)