# What works: INTIMACY/Long Term Relationships (& sex, sex/sensual "enhancers") **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 23, 2006, 1:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225 "2006-03-23T01:21:35Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2006, 1:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/1 "2006-03-23T01:21:35Z")
Okay, I figure I’d start some threads aimed at SPECIFIC topics, and ask for SPECIFIC recommendations. Please post your BEST products/applications/mixes that you have developed for **INTIMACY/Long Term Relationships (& sex, sex/sensual “enhancers”)** Please post things that have worked, not just idle speculation. Please note possibly pertinent information such as ages (yours and “targets”/“test subjects”), environment, etc. And do what would you think if your mix (or someone elses mix) were turned into a general room diffuser-dispensed product? (eg the Oust fan.) ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2006, 2:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/2 "2006-06-04T14:04:32Z")
A314 seems to be making women seek me out as a long term relationship target, and the closer they get, the more they seem to want to keep/own me. Since I started wearing A314 I have had four women express an interest in marrying me, and one flat out proposed. For intimacy, it is quickly becoming very apparent that [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) is a good choice. I am finding that women are affected by a soft, warm glowy vibe that almost seems like a cat purring for no apparent reason. I like it. ---
**Author:** ![examine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/examine/32/1665_2.png) [@examine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/examine)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2006, 6:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/3 "2006-06-05T18:25:19Z")
IFM and IH. Id assume. never really used mones in a relationship. catloard–I like your description of IFM, its perfect. hahah You should read my early experiment threads on it. Had much fun with it. How do you view CTTM? ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [June 6, 2006, 3:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/4 "2006-06-06T03:35:16Z")
I haven’t really finished “feeling it out” yet, but I definitely like it. It has shown great promise for lightening the mood, making the “ice” thinner and easier to break, enhancing communication, and even helping to overcome the age barrier in people of very different ages. [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) sounds like a good candidate for this thread, based on what I have read, but I don’t have it yet. Mine is on the way, and I am very much looking forward to trying it. ---
**Author:** ![examine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/examine/32/1665_2.png) [@examine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/examine)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2006, 5:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/5 "2006-06-07T17:36:59Z")
> [@catlord17](#): > > I haven’t really finished “feeling it out” yet, but I definitely like it. It has shown great promise for lightening the mood, making the “ice” thinner and easier to break, enhancing communication, and even helping to overcome the age barrier in people of very different ages. > > Instant Honesty sounds like a good candidate for this thread, based on what I have read, but I don’t have it yet. Mine is on the way, and I am very much looking forward to trying it. sprays tons of it your first day. Like 8 sprays. See what happens. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2006, 4:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/6 "2006-06-09T04:10:32Z")
I will have to reserve that for a day when I am out in public… but, since I have some “special testers” I visit, care to give me some hints so I don’t screw up anything? 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![examine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/examine/32/1665_2.png) [@examine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/examine)\ **Post date:** [July 9, 2006, 9:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/7 "2006-07-09T21:19:36Z")
7 sprays of IFM & 1 spray of PMX 101–things get hectic quick =P she also likes CTTM2 when we’re out and about. ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2006, 6:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/8 "2006-07-10T06:48:55Z")
> [@examine](#): > > 7 sprays of IFM & 1 spray of PMX 101–things get hectic quick =P > > she also likes CTTM2 when we’re out and about. What do you mean by hectic? ---
**Author:** ![examine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/examine/32/1665_2.png) [@examine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/examine)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2006, 1:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/9 "2006-07-11T01:06:54Z")
physical. you know like pounce. ---
**Author:** ![R0N](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/r0n/32/1570_2.png) [@R0N](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/R0N)\ **Post date:** [December 3, 2006, 2:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/10 "2006-12-03T02:34:03Z")
I am in a live-in relationship for more than 5 years, and sex was getting less than once a week. I have been using TUTH around him (one spray on the chest and spread with my wrists), and this week we made love twice, which has become unusual for years. I recommend giving it a try. ---
**Author:** ![R0N](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/r0n/32/1570_2.png) [@R0N](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/R0N)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2007, 10:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/11 "2007-01-06T22:15:09Z")
There is a definate improvement in my relationship. We feel more loving and affectionate. Currently testing TAA spray (40 mcg), IH double strength. Residual TUTH from work at night. Receiving more spontaneous lovemaking and necking sessions, especially in the morning before work. Could the [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) that are affecting my dreams be affecting his dreams too? An all-night-long hardon makes for happy couples who like taking care of that sort of thing! My relationship has its ups and downs, but using pheromones to help when things are down is new to me, and so far I feel that it can be done successfully, especially when both parties are aware of its usage and goal. ---
**Author:** ![willym](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/b77776/32.png) [@willym](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/willym)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2007, 1:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/12 "2007-01-22T01:13:16Z")
Heh! Good luck man, dont forget to post your results 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Starlight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/4da419/32.png) [@Starlight](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Starlight)\ **Post date:** [June 14, 2007, 8:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/13 "2007-06-14T20:53:20Z")
Hey so what would make guys seek out long term relationships? Anyone know? ---
**Author:** ![PheroQuirk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9e8a1a/32.png) [@PheroQuirk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroQuirk)\ **Post date:** [June 24, 2007, 3:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/14 "2007-06-24T15:34:05Z")
mones as intimacy accelerants cool post from another forum… (fits with my experiences) “I’ve saturated girls with pheromones… and we went through the oogly phase with each other… in actuality, it accelerated the process of dealing with who we really were to each other.. although she has never known about my pheromone usage… **this thing about being in a love zombie trance is popular fiction… you also see weaknesses more clearly… the paradoxical thing is pheromones can make you realistic about your choice in significant others… time compression sets in fast.**.. Beyond your second boink it feels like you’ve been hanging around for months with all that personal information and whatnot, especially with the social-converstaional mones… this can be good, and this can be clarifying… and at times it can be quite tedious as well… like… she thinks about tortilla chips all the time ? WTF ? Choose wisely”. ---
**Author:** ![PheroQuirk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9e8a1a/32.png) [@PheroQuirk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroQuirk)\ **Post date:** [June 24, 2007, 3:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/15 "2007-06-24T15:39:16Z")
> [@Starlight](#): > > Hey so what would make guys seek out long term relationships? Anyone know? I think a sense that one has established roughly one’s romantic market value, has a sense of what one likes in a woman (possibly via playing the field previously) and on the other hand what is not so important. A sense of tiredness about going to bars and clubs and spending so much time and energy chasing girls and less patience for mindless conversation. I don’t think mones will affect that much, though they may accelerate the development of intimacy (see above). ---
**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\ **Post date:** [June 26, 2007, 2:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/16 "2007-06-26T02:17:42Z")
I want to really get to _know_ someone. Deeper feelings. More fun. ---
**Author:** ![DrSmellThis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b3f665/32.png) [@DrSmellThis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DrSmellThis)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2007, 6:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/17 "2007-06-27T06:33:25Z")
> [@Rbt](#): > > I want to really get to _know_ someone. Deeper feelings. More fun. Similar reason here. Aside from the longer term, “don’t die alone, settle down” stuff: For me, in terms of immediate reasons, it’s intimacy, love, closeness, acceptance, trust, and opportunities for better sex (safety to explore, etc.). You can’t really have any of the good stuff unless you move pretty far beyond the fling stuff. Due to much experience, I know how to recognize someone good for me now, yet am more flexible if someone meets certain intangible criteria, such as a woman having multiple sides, depth, a big heart, and wanting the same kind of sexual intimacy. Problem with the latter is women often misinterpret this, instead of seeing it as just a desire for a great, sustainable relationship. I communicate it pretty soon. A woman has to be mature enough to understand a man that way. Love and liberated lust, in the same place, even if it takes time. That way you don’t have to look around any more. Simple. If all that stuff is there, I start considering permanence more seriously. I think it’s a great idea to explore what pheromones make that kind of thing more likely, obviously. The only ones I’m pretty sure help with that goal somehow, in some dose or another, are [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) and A314. (I’m not talking about when you are already in a long term relationship.). I knew the best mix, I’d maybe be in a LTR already. ---
**Author:** ![DrSmellThis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b3f665/32.png) [@DrSmellThis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DrSmellThis)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2007, 6:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/18 "2007-06-27T06:35:14Z")
> [@Starlight](#): > > Hey so what would make guys seek out long term relationships? Anyone know? See above post. Good question. I wish more women were asking me about this, especially “qualified” ones. I don’t mind being honest. ---
**Author:** ![greg2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/ed655f/32.png) [@greg2](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/greg2)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2007, 12:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/19 "2007-08-06T00:34:31Z")
> [@Rbt](#): > > I want to really get to _know_ someone. Deeper feelings. More fun. Exactly Rbt. For me the word is Intimacy, in the largest sense of the word. As you and DST suggest, there is a lot you can experience with someone who knows you well, and who you know well. Barriers have been overcome, and there is a freedom which can only come with common experience and emotional interest. You can call it “caring” if you like. Hokey perhaps but meaningful still. When you get past the “game” and can be yourself, and likewise with your love interest, the whole world is before you, and not just the next hour or two. That makes the next hour or two much more interesting. I’ve just found this forum, nice to see you here Rbt. Greg ---
**Author:** ![DrSmellThis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b3f665/32.png) [@DrSmellThis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DrSmellThis)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2007, 1:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225/20 "2007-08-06T01:34:54Z")
Something I forgot to mention is that b-nol seems really great for building intimacy. [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) has worked wonders for me a couple times with a woman whose favor I’d like to win. [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-intimacy-long-term-relationships-sex-sex-sensual-enhancers/225.md?page=2)