# What woud you recommend for me to relax girls (and get over my shyness?) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 12, 2008, 9:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-woud-you-recommend-for-me-to-relax-girls-and-get-over-my-shyness/21260 "2008-10-12T21:11:37Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jeffy50](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/7feea3/32.png) [@jeffy50](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jeffy50)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2008, 9:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-woud-you-recommend-for-me-to-relax-girls-and-get-over-my-shyness/21260/1 "2008-10-12T21:11:37Z")
Hi everyone - my name is jeff, I’m 26… I’m newly single after being in an ltr and I’d forgotten just how shy & nervous I am when it comes to meeting new women ☹ what would you guys recommend for me to try to help the lucky/unlucky 🙂 girl feel more relaxed around me until I get over my shyness? I’ve been told I do have a great sense of humor but until I’m comfortable with someone I tend to be a bit awkward. looking forward to everyones adivce & trying out some [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/)! -J ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2008, 9:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-woud-you-recommend-for-me-to-relax-girls-and-get-over-my-shyness/21260/2 "2008-10-12T21:23:49Z")
Hi Jeff, welcome to the forum! Shy? Get Instant Shine. I also suggest [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), which will get girls to be chaty with you. Also, you can’t go wrong with Ammo. You can even use all of these products together at once through layering. Make sure to read the sticky threads in the Men’s section for more advice. Good luck here… ---
**Author:** ![Tenant](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tenant/32/1668_2.png) [@Tenant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tenant)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2008, 9:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-woud-you-recommend-for-me-to-relax-girls-and-get-over-my-shyness/21260/3 "2008-10-12T21:29:36Z")
Hello jeff! Robbie started you off with some good suggestions there. If you want girls to feel more relaxed, also consider looking into IFM–that is its primary effect. Where do you reside? And what are some of your other interests? ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2008, 9:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-woud-you-recommend-for-me-to-relax-girls-and-get-over-my-shyness/21260/4 "2008-10-12T21:42:16Z")
hi jeff welcome to the forum 🙂 although im a girl and prob cant give u as detailed advice as other guys, ive used some of the social pheros like instant shine and instant openness. instant shine makes people happy to be in your prescence and they would always want to be around u 🙂 instant openness makes people talk and talk and talk… not necessarily a deep thoughtful conversation, but the convo never stops with this mix. \<3 ---
**Author:** ![jeffy50](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/7feea3/32.png) [@jeffy50](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jeffy50)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2008, 10:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-woud-you-recommend-for-me-to-relax-girls-and-get-over-my-shyness/21260/5 "2008-10-12T22:54:04Z")
Thanks for all the suggestions - think I’ll give the instant shine & instant openness a try. -J ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 13, 2008, 12:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-woud-you-recommend-for-me-to-relax-girls-and-get-over-my-shyness/21260/6 "2008-10-13T00:25:08Z")
Hello Jeff Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 I would love to send you a GC to the smartmones store but you need to quailfy first. Tell us a bit about your objective for mones. How you found us and what sparked your intial interest in mones products. That should do it 😉 Looking forward to your reply Tisha ---
**Author:** ![jeffy50](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/7feea3/32.png) [@jeffy50](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jeffy50)\ **Post date:** [October 13, 2008, 12:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-woud-you-recommend-for-me-to-relax-girls-and-get-over-my-shyness/21260/7 "2008-10-13T00:40:57Z")
Hi Tisha, my objective is to just try and help me get ver my initial shyness when meeting mew women & everyone else for that matter - I’m a bit skeptical but I’ve been thinking that even if it was just more of a psychological effect it would be good for me. I was reading popular science mag, at the back was an ad for pheromones, did a search on google & up came this forum. -J ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 13, 2008, 12:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-woud-you-recommend-for-me-to-relax-girls-and-get-over-my-shyness/21260/8 "2008-10-13T00:58:16Z")
Thank you Jeff for providing a bit more info. 🙂 I can always tell the shy ones from their first few posts. I can also tell when they start using the products because all of a sudden they blossom on the forum and jump right in 😃 I suggest socials like IO IH or CTTM which is a mix of both of them. AMMO for a sexy attractive interesting vibe. and Ishine for a general upbeat warm confident charismatic joyful vibe. Now they do have to-go size so you can try things out before investing in big bottles. Its ok to be a skeptic, we all were once 😉 **Your GC is on its way** 😃 Tisha