YW
Its kinda a long explanation so here is the link >>>>
One thing I didnt mention in my post in that link is what we call congruence. This doesn’t mean you have to act different then normal or exactly like the mix your using, just dont act in opposition to the signal the mix is intended for.
For instance suppose your wearing IO which is a fun talkative attractive comfortable mix. Girls start approaching you or just saying hi in passing but you ignore them, dont smile and look moody or mean this will confuse them. So you dont have to turn into Mr outgoing with IO on just work with the vibe.
Tisha