# What's a good mix/approach for a shy girl? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 9, 2011, 12:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-a-good-mix-approach-for-a-shy-girl/53222 "2011-11-09T00:13:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![CMBC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/dc4da7/32.png) [@CMBC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CMBC)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2011, 8:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-a-good-mix-approach-for-a-shy-girl/53222/21 "2011-11-10T08:03:45Z")
> [@dbot](#): > > It’s a scientific fact that shyness in women is strongly related to cock-hungriness. Showing your cock to a shy girl is like dripping blood into shark-infested waters. Try it and see! Serious? Or just being sarcastic? Have any links to articles that suggest this? Not because I want to dispute you, but because that could potentially be quite valuable for me to learn a bit for. I have not simply googled this topic, as I am hoping you have a good article that discusses this. Perhaps one that convinced you. ---
**Author:** ![CMBC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/dc4da7/32.png) [@CMBC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CMBC)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2011, 8:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-a-good-mix-approach-for-a-shy-girl/53222/22 "2011-11-10T08:06:43Z")
> [@ballzan](#): > > Well there is a post some where on here by tish, pretty much saying that when a girl says know it just means “I don’t want to” it doesn’t mean they aren’t attracted to you or don’t like you so trying again is always an option if you get an initial no. Like you said just slowly lead into it so she lets her guard down, it will give you better chances, keep an eye on her body language to tell when she is less defensive. BL is just as important as verbal communication! That’s something I REALLY hate about women. Put it this way, if a girl asks us guys to do something, if we’re interested in her, we will go, even if it’s something we have no interest in doing. It’s the person that matters to us, not the event. Perhaps I’m generalizing, but this is how I feel, and I think it’s how most guys feel. But women on the other hand, quite often I’ll suggest to girls I know to go out and do something, or come over (not a formal date or anything, just a hang out). Sure, many say yes, but also some say no, without a reason behind it. I often feel okay, she’s not interested in ME, move on. Yet, sometimes I’ll go back to the same girls and throw out another suggestion at another time, and sometimes they’ll say yes. So again, wtf? It’s as if women don’t care about whether they like you or not, it’s whether or not you are suggesting something they are interested in doing. Just something that I find a little frusterating. That’s all. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2011, 9:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-a-good-mix-approach-for-a-shy-girl/53222/23 "2011-11-10T09:51:59Z")
> [@SiriusC](#): > > I said the ratio was 1 to 2, but it’s probably closer to 1 to 3 or 4. To just add that bit of sexuality. > > Tomorrow is the big day! Yes - Tuth is fine when well moderated by socials and IH/IG will round it out very nicely. Good luck - Fingers crossed! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![dbot](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dbot/32/1595_2.png) [@dbot](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dbot)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2011, 2:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-a-good-mix-approach-for-a-shy-girl/53222/24 "2011-11-10T14:32:06Z")
> [@CMBC](#): > > Serious? Or just being sarcastic? > > Have any links to articles that suggest this? Not because I want to dispute you, but because that could potentially be quite valuable for me to learn a bit for. > > I have not simply googled this topic, as I am hoping you have a good article that discusses this. Perhaps one that convinced you. The best way to prove this fact to yourself is through empirical data. Begin by selecting a nice-sized sample, say 30 shy girls (n=30). Then one by one, expose them to the cock-out approach method. Even if it happens that the first few are non-responders, by the end of the experiment I promise some verrry interesting things will have happened. 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2011, 2:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-a-good-mix-approach-for-a-shy-girl/53222/25 "2011-11-10T14:39:02Z")
> [@dbot](#): > > The best way to prove this fact to yourself is through empirical data. Begin by selecting a nice-sized sample, say 30 shy girls (n=30). Then one by one, expose them to the cock-out approach method. Even if it happens that the first few are non-responders, by the end of the experiment I promise some verrry interesting things will have happened. 🆒 And have good legal insurance in place! 😉 And do vary the trial by putting a couple of doughnuts on it! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![dbot](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dbot/32/1595_2.png) [@dbot](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dbot)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2011, 8:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-a-good-mix-approach-for-a-shy-girl/53222/26 "2011-11-10T20:18:37Z")
I agree, the mixture of cock-hungriness and doughnut-hungriness could really drive these shy girls over the edge! [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-a-good-mix-approach-for-a-shy-girl/53222.md?page=1)