# What's better for confidence, IS or IJ? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 23, 2011, 7:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-better-for-confidence-is-or-ij/52972 "2011-10-23T19:25:39Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Kaplan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/bcef8e/32.png) [@Kaplan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kaplan)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2011, 7:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-better-for-confidence-is-or-ij/52972/1 "2011-10-23T19:25:39Z")
Title pretty much says it. ---
**Author:** ![delocc](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/delocc/32/1200_2.png) [@delocc](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/delocc)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2011, 7:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-better-for-confidence-is-or-ij/52972/2 "2011-10-23T19:29:09Z")
I’m gonna say IJ. I’ve been wearing it a lot lately for social events (check out my latest journal for detailed info) and its great. ‘I don’t give a shit because I am awesome’ attitude and a lot of fun. If you don’t want the recklessness aspect that I’ve found accompanies it, try A314, I always feel levelheaded and maturely confident. Id say IS is more confidence by lack of self-conciousness, more loose and social. Great for parties where you want to lighten up, or reduce a negative bias from others- I guess I’d describe IS’s effect (kinda philosophical) as being the ‘perception of good intention.’ ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2011, 8:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-better-for-confidence-is-or-ij/52972/3 "2011-10-23T20:02:27Z")
Ishine is for cinfidence. You come over with a strong sense of well-being and confidence. It tells the people around you that they can relax and be comfortable because they are in the presence of someone who is in control. When those people are around you they feel secure enough to let there guard down and this usually leads to more laughter. Usually someone is more of a jerk because they lack confidence and need to put others down to make up for their absent sense of well being. IShine actually claims confidence as a major trait the mix projects: “Instant Shine” Feel Good Pheromone For Men :: [Spray Pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/spray-pheromones/) :: Androtics Direct ([Instant Shine Spray — Mood Enhancing Pheromone For Men - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/shine/)) > [@](#): > > The short tag-line on the bottle accurately reads: “Instant Shine. **Confident** and more brilliant than the rest.” > > Based around a completely new pheromone, Instant Shine puts you in a great mood and **makes you feel vibrant and confident**. > > A key to Instant Shine, when used in moderation, is that **it gives you that kind of aloof confidence that’s so powerful and appealing** , it just sucks other people in. **The kind of confidence that doesn’t just make you feel good, but also allows you to better do as you please.** The sense that you will succeed, regardless of real or imagined negativity around you. It really helps you to express yourself more freely. > > You also get the benefit of a positive “behavioral feedback loop”. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2011, 8:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-better-for-confidence-is-or-ij/52972/4 "2011-10-23T20:02:46Z")
Totally different sort of confidence boost from each TBH. IJ - Strong/assertive individual/take-on the world and “I don’t care,” confidence. IS - Fun/happy, social, centre of attention, liked by everyone and able to spread the like. Depends entirely on the sort of situation you want to use them in. Put another way. IS/TAA is one of the the pheros I keep in in my pocket and apply if I felt I needed to regain control in any given social/dating situation. I have never, never felt the need to topup IJ on a night out. ---
**Author:** ![tho](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/9de053/32.png) [@tho](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tho)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2011, 8:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-better-for-confidence-is-or-ij/52972/5 "2011-10-23T20:06:27Z")
IJ and TUTH. ---
**Author:** ![The\_Jake](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8dc957/32.png) [@The\_Jake](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/The_Jake)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2011, 10:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-better-for-confidence-is-or-ij/52972/6 "2011-10-23T22:31:29Z")
> [@thomaslavoie](#): > > IJ and TUTH. REALLY? Why would you mix those two? I think TUTH would just add edgeness to both male and females… From what I am reading. Please excuse me if I am wrong…I am a newbie… ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2011, 10:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-better-for-confidence-is-or-ij/52972/7 "2011-10-23T22:37:13Z")
The 2.5mcg of none in TUTH won’t make a great dent in the 12.5mcg of IJ, which will still give bags of the classic none-confidence. However, the sexual steering molecules in TUTH may turn the more abrasive nature of IJ in a more determinedly sexual direction. ---
**Author:** ![Climax](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c68b51/32.png) [@Climax](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Climax)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2011, 11:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-better-for-confidence-is-or-ij/52972/8 "2011-10-23T23:18:18Z")
IJ worked differently for me than most, but IS more more consistent for the confidence effect in general. ---
**Author:** ![delocc](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/delocc/32/1200_2.png) [@delocc](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/delocc)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2011, 12:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-better-for-confidence-is-or-ij/52972/9 "2011-10-24T00:32:08Z")
> [@Climax](#): > > IJ worked differently for me than most, but IS more more consistent for the confidence effect in general. How did it work for you? ---
**Author:** ![treeon325](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f0a364/32.png) [@treeon325](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/treeon325)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2011, 1:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-better-for-confidence-is-or-ij/52972/10 "2011-10-26T01:07:01Z")
i think it has to do more with your personality. if you are alredy laid back,and chilled like me, i would suggest instant jerk. i say that because,im not much of a talker. im more of a thinker/observer. sometimes people think im depressed lol , but im just that laid back. i like to watch other people have fun. so instant jerk for me, is that voice that you cant hear, but know its there. a sort of ‘presence’ , if you will. i dont really get the instant shine self effects,but i have noticed them on others. i would also recommend ammo. i always feel like ‘da shit’ when i wear it! ---
**Author:** ![tho](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/9de053/32.png) [@tho](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tho)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2011, 1:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-better-for-confidence-is-or-ij/52972/11 "2011-10-26T01:10:08Z")
For me, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) hasn’t done anything. It’s one of those pheromones that, for me, never worked. I used 1 whole 30ml bottle and I thought I had been applying alcohol and lemon the whole time. ---
**Author:** ![mariocisneros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d2c977/32.png) [@mariocisneros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mariocisneros)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2011, 1:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-better-for-confidence-is-or-ij/52972/12 "2011-10-26T01:34:40Z")
> [@thomaslavoie](#): > > For me, Instant Shine hasn’t done anything. It’s one of those pheromones that, for me, never worked. I used 1 whole 30ml bottle and I thought I had been applying alcohol and lemon the whole time. I’m with you T, I have tried IS many times and I don’t get any self-effects, the only thing that I felt is sleepy afterwards, like somehow it drained my energy, but like it has been said before, we are all different and we are of those few that get nothing with a certain product. IJ works wonders for me as far as confidence level goes 😉 ---
**Author:** ![tho](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/9de053/32.png) [@tho](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tho)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2011, 2:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-better-for-confidence-is-or-ij/52972/13 "2011-10-26T02:58:09Z")
> [@mariocisneros](#): > > I’m with you T, I have tried IS many times and I don’t get any self-effects, the only thing that I felt is sleepy afterwards, like somehow it drained my energy, but like it has been said before, we are all different and we are of those few that get nothing with a certain product. > > IJ works wonders for me as far as confidence level goes 😉 Yes, you are probably a lesbian in a man’s body like myself. Smell your bottle of [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), if it makes you feel good, you are probably a lesbian in a man’s body. I’m kinda kidding, but i’ve been thinking of this recently, why am I so different than 99% of men on earth? Instant Shine makes me tired and sleepy, that’s about all it does. ---
**Author:** ![mariocisneros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d2c977/32.png) [@mariocisneros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mariocisneros)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2011, 6:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-better-for-confidence-is-or-ij/52972/14 "2011-10-26T18:14:02Z")
> [@thomaslavoie](#): > > Yes, you are probably a lesbian in a man’s body like myself. Smell your bottle of Instant Female Magic, if it makes you feel good, you are probably a lesbian in a man’s body. > > I’m kinda kidding, but i’ve been thinking of this recently, why am I so different than 99% of men on earth? > > Instant Shine makes me tired and sleepy, that’s about all it does. hahaha why would you say that bro? I mean, IS doesn’t work for me, but I’m a horny bastard that looooooveeessssss women! Just like you do, right my friend? So what is that you been thinking about that lately? ohhh and I don’t have IFM, so I wouldn’t know bro.