# whats good for coffee shop **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 22, 2010, 3:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-good-for-coffee-shop/40230 "2010-07-22T15:50:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bathspa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3be4f8/32.png) [@bathspa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bathspa)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2010, 3:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-good-for-coffee-shop/40230/1 "2010-07-22T15:50:11Z")
ok so im going to be on my own, going to go into a coffee shop and sit near or as close as to females as i can, reading a mag and drinking my coffee, which phero is gonna be best for one of these girls to initiate a convo with me. I understand alot of personal work is involved to, but being quite shy, which would be the most likely for someone to try and start something with me whether its a convo or asking for help etc? ---
**Author:** ![Jabez](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jabez/32/2193_2.png) [@Jabez](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jabez)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2010, 4:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-good-for-coffee-shop/40230/2 "2010-07-22T16:01:22Z")
What pheromones do you currently own first off? [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) is a good one to start off with, and you can’t go wrong with Instant Shine. Instant Openness gives you and everyone around you a sort of chatty vibe. Instant shine is known to give a confidence boost self effect. I know at least when I wear it I am ready to go and get stuff done. Also having the right mind set works too. Remember pheromones only do so much the rest it up to you.🙂 ---
**Author:** ![bathspa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3be4f8/32.png) [@bathspa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bathspa)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2010, 4:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-good-for-coffee-shop/40230/3 "2010-07-22T16:03:53Z")
i have 3 being delievered TUTH, AMMO and IO so at least i have one you mentioned ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2010, 4:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-good-for-coffee-shop/40230/4 "2010-07-22T16:06:45Z")
AMMO and IO ---
**Author:** ![bathspa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3be4f8/32.png) [@bathspa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bathspa)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2010, 4:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-good-for-coffee-shop/40230/5 "2010-07-22T16:08:01Z")
cheers mustang i will give that a good, shot , any personal things u think i should try to, like maybe dropping my wallet near them or walking past a few times , considering im quite shy also? ---
**Author:** ![Jabez](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jabez/32/2193_2.png) [@Jabez](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jabez)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2010, 4:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-good-for-coffee-shop/40230/6 "2010-07-22T16:10:31Z")
[Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) is good too for initial attraction. Before you start combining products though you should test each one individually to see how they work. Like start with 1x spray of ammo. then the next day 2 etc until you overdose. Turn Up The Heat is used for more personal encounters once you have gotten to know the person and are in a one on one situation. So start with 1x of IS or Ammo to see what happens. You could combine the IS and the ammo but you don’t know your sweet spot for either so stick to 1x. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2010, 4:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-good-for-coffee-shop/40230/7 "2010-07-22T16:24:04Z")
Dropping the wallet and any tactic is fine IMO, but most people mess it up because of how their body language is. Girls can easily tell whether it’s a faux or it really happened by accident. The best thing for you is to face your back to the wall and see IOI’s coming, keep a firm eye contact but not creepy, make your mindset be “they’re checking me out” break contact only after they do (and they will) and act normal, cool, calm and collected, they’re just women. Second look just smile and keep eye contact. By the time the third look comes just say hi and be yourself, joke around, keep the conversations light hearted. I don’t really have a script or a procedure I use. I mean I’m not the best at picking up girls cold but the times that I’ve done it the conversation just flowed naturally. I usually make it quick and simple. Get contact info, tell them we’ll hang out sometime during the week, and go forward from there.