# Whats happenin? **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 15, 2009, 4:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-happenin/34111 "2009-11-15T16:58:21Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Wolfeman309](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/3e96dc/32.png) [@Wolfeman309](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfeman309)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2009, 4:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-happenin/34111/1 "2009-11-15T16:58:21Z")
Hey guys, I just found this forum and site today and I’m intrigued by the concept of [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). I really want to figure it out, and this looks like an amazing place to do so. I’m a male, 19, living in Akron, Ohio. I currently attending the University of Akron, and I’m not entirely shy, but I think that Pheromones could help make the job easier with the ladies. I’m not a terrible looking guy, just average so I have to work a bit more on the suave talk and dressing. I’d really like to find something that I can wear that makes the process of building attraction a little more easier, if you guys have any suggestions I’d love to hear them. I’d also like one that makes people enjoy being around me. I am currently a student leader on campus and naturally around people all the time, the happier they are the easier my job is. So my questions I guess: What would you recommend for making attraction easier? What would you recommend so people are magnetically pulled to you? Thanks and I look forward to being a part of the community. ---
**Author:** ![ladyofthewoods](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ladyofthewoods/32/1288_2.png) [@ladyofthewoods](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ladyofthewoods)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2009, 5:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-happenin/34111/2 "2009-11-15T17:22:16Z")
Welcome to the forum Wolfeman! Just from reading your intro, I would recommend, Instant Shine &Come Talk To Me or [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). You said that the happier people around you are the easier your job is. Well, Instant Shine makes you & everyone around you feel great.I use it whenever I can. Either Come Talk To Me, or Instant Openness will pull people to you to start conversations. I’m sure the guys will have other suggestions also.. Do you have a target in mind, or just to pull lots of people to you?? ---
**Author:** ![tangent](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tangent/32/5178_2.png) [@tangent](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tangent)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2009, 5:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-happenin/34111/3 "2009-11-15T17:27:44Z")
Yup the first products I thought of were Instant Openess (which should ease communication) and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) (which give you that added bit of pizzaz, lightens moods and make you someone people like to be around) If you want to add a little sexiness into the mix then I’d start with Ammo which should give you that added bit of attractiveness. Hope you find what you’re looking for. ---
**Author:** ![chicagokid1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/53a042/32.png) [@chicagokid1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chicagokid1)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2009, 6:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-happenin/34111/4 "2009-11-15T18:04:33Z")
Hey wolfeman welcome to the board, based on what you said, I’m giving in my suggestion of ammo, instant shine, and instant openness. Instant shine is in my top three favorites along with ammo and a314. Give em a shot and let us know how they work out. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2009, 6:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-happenin/34111/5 "2009-11-15T18:20:39Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Wolfman! Yes, pheromones are pretty interesting. Reading the stories and the theory is all well but it comes a time when we had to dive in a get started. I am glad you are here and you were given some good recommendations already. Instead of the A314 because of your age and you want a softer suave approach I would suggest instant gentleman. This product in addition to the others is going to assist in the attraction area. Good luck. 🙂 Your GC will be issued soon! ---
**Author:** ![Wolfeman309](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/3e96dc/32.png) [@Wolfeman309](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfeman309)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2009, 7:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-happenin/34111/6 "2009-11-15T19:49:41Z")
Thank you everyone for the advice I will look into each product! By making everyone happier it becomes easier to lead. I usually joke around a lot and just generally seem like nothing we are doing is too serious and that makes things easier, however I would like everything to be as easy as possible.