# .... Whats the real meaning of: **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [December 28, 2007, 1:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-the-real-meaning-of/7795 "2007-12-28T01:11:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Dark\_light\_uk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/df788c/32.png) [@Dark\_light\_uk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dark_light_uk)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2008, 12:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-the-real-meaning-of/7795/21 "2008-01-03T00:08:24Z")
> [@sheba](#): > > Hi there, > > You know, I have a bf that is a lot like you describe yourself. And he says, all the time, that many women took his kindness for weakness. He found he had to act like a jerk, sometimes, just to gain respect… or, at the very least, avoid women trying to ‘get over’ on him or slam him into friendship hell. I COMPLETLY agree with what your saying… however ive done it all acted the jurk, ive got a wicked temper however i can control it untill people take the bicky and all hell breaks lose, but people take me for aride ALL the time… i donno what gives…? hmm i might stay single at this rate and work on my job see what happens ---
**Author:** ![xpomg](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/f14d63/32.png) [@xpomg](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xpomg)\ **Post date:** [May 14, 2008, 12:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-the-real-meaning-of/7795/22 "2008-05-14T00:23:13Z")
It’s okay if you go into a rage when a girl calls you cute, Dark; it shows that part of your personality, and some girls will think it’s hot 😛. (Not me, but still.) The word “cute” doesn’t have anything to do with sex. It is a description of appearance. I think Brian Literell is cue, but I would never date him, because 1) I’m not in love with him and 2) I’ve never nor will I ever meet him. “i just ant like that im quite calm, loving, genorous i try to be the perfect match but still SWEET F A ? i donno i donno what im doing wrong” Um, that IS sweet, and if you’re being “sweet”, you’re NOT doing anything wrong, because the girl likes you, duh… but if you want to not be sweet, then, be an asshole I guess? Which would be incredibly stupid, and certainly not get you any girls. So, if you are “calm, loving and generous,” why is that a bad thing??? “He found he had to act like a jerk, sometimes, just to gain respect… or, at the very least, avoid women trying to ‘get over’ on him or slam him into friendship hell.” Um okay being nice to someone is not going to make them less likely to date you, unless they weren’t looking for a “real” date anyway and the have some weird sexual fetish about it. Anyway… if you want a girl… don’t do anything special or different. Because then if you get a girl… it wont be the girl you want, cause she wont like you she’ll like someone else she thought you were, and then, you might actually end up liking her, but you’ll think she likes you when she doesn’t, and then you’ll either fight a lot or break up, and… yeah. “Advice on how to get girls” is stupid because unless you want sex only then you dont want to get “girls” you want to get “a girl”, but not just any random girl, and there is no way of acting that will make “girls in general” like you more or less because everyone is different in what they like. ---
**Author:** ![NormaJeanMarilyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/normajeanmarilyn/32/586_2.png) [@NormaJeanMarilyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NormaJeanMarilyn)\ **Post date:** [May 14, 2008, 3:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-the-real-meaning-of/7795/23 "2008-05-14T03:18:37Z")
I hate being called cute. I am too old to be cute. ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2008, 1:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-the-real-meaning-of/7795/24 "2008-05-16T01:04:10Z")
When I call a guy cute, I don’t mean it in a sexual context, more so in a friendly way. Meaning you’re nice, sweet and helpful. ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2008, 1:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-the-real-meaning-of/7795/25 "2008-05-16T01:05:26Z")
> [@NormaJeanMarilyn](#): > > I hate being called cute. I am too old to be cute. lol! you’re so funny! ---
**Author:** ![NormaJeanMarilyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/normajeanmarilyn/32/586_2.png) [@NormaJeanMarilyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NormaJeanMarilyn)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2008, 2:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-the-real-meaning-of/7795/26 "2008-05-16T02:23:09Z")
Unless she is your SO or someone you are dating, cute means “friend”. If she is, it’s usually used towards a gift you’ve given or something you’re done. It’s a term of endearment and very good. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-the-real-meaning-of/7795.md?page=1)