What’s up bro. Welcome to the forums!
Very sorry to hear about the wife, I have been there before myself. I am sure you will do anything and everything you can to keep her. I did. I sure hope you have more luck than I did but then again I didn’t know about the Pheromones back then. 
I found this Topic to be very useful. The Snook's big book o' pheros for rookies
Thanks for protecting our country. Very happy to meet you!
Dave