# what's up **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 14, 2008, 10:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-up/12611 "2008-05-14T10:51:47Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![shuier858](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/76d3ee/32.png) [@shuier858](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shuier858)\ **Post date:** [May 14, 2008, 10:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-up/12611/1 "2008-05-14T10:51:47Z")
I’m 32, male from San Diego. I’m that charming guy that every friend has to make them look great. Funny, intelligent, well spoken, average to good looking, average to great shape, has some cash, self employed travel agent. I’ve been getting my friends laid for 13 years and that’s just it. They get the girls and i’m the designated driver, hand grenade juggler. This full time wing man is retired. My friends beg me to go out and i just say i’m busy, usually cus i am. I’m 5’4" and all my friends are the 5’8" to 6’3" “tall dark and handsome” type, magician, ninja, navy hero, modeling agency guru type. Sure we are the sum of who we hang around the most so i realize my pimpness. All of that aside i have some approach anxieties. In groups i usually say all the right things, one on one, i get the “never say that to ladies” speech. So I went from talks to much to why are you all the sudden shy. lately I’ve been that creepster that make eye contact 8 times and then walk right past to go to the bathroom. Writing this down I realize my afc status. I’ll stop rambling. Any suggestions on turning this master wing man into a ladies man? ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [May 14, 2008, 10:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-up/12611/2 "2008-05-14T10:54:00Z")
Hi shu, Welcome to the forum. Nice introduction there. Instant SHine is good to boost your confidence Try some social pheros like IO and IH to increase your sociability with gorls. If you have any question, just ask. The people here is friendly. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [May 14, 2008, 11:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-up/12611/3 "2008-05-14T11:05:08Z")
Hey Shuier, Cool & interesting introduction there, you have me speechless for a moment there. Your friends are lucky there to have you as their friend. I mean helping them get laid. Wow! Anyway welcome to this forum Pherotalk 😃 So i see you have some approach anxieties & need pheros to fix this, well my experienced phero buddy jamesbonded has recommended his choice of pheros to you. I say do check for his recommendation there 🙂 There is other experienced ones too. Try to find this guy(Jasx69) as he is really good in this. You will find them while browsing in this forum. Once again Welcome 😃 ---
**Author:** ![shuier858](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/76d3ee/32.png) [@shuier858](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shuier858)\ **Post date:** [May 14, 2008, 11:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-up/12611/4 "2008-05-14T11:08:09Z")
Being new, i see ammo as an all purpose and the is,[Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/),and Instant Honesty as accents to the desired outcome. do i get a ll of the above and try them at once or experiment one at at time. I see mix and match a lot on here. A specific sent can trigger all these reactions in my self and others. Is this animal kingdom chemist stuff? how are they acquiring the pheros? ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [May 14, 2008, 11:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-up/12611/5 "2008-05-14T11:14:36Z")
It is always recommended to try a phero at a time to see whether it is effective for you and at the same time know the right number of spray for you. Every individual need different number of spray/drop because we ourselves are producing natural [pheromones](https://a314.com/) at different amount. After you know which pheros work for you, the effect of individual pheros and the right number of spray/drop, you can play around with mixtures. If you understand what each pheros do for you, you will understand what misture you want for different occasion, people and desired effect. ---
**Author:** ![NormaJeanMarilyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/normajeanmarilyn/32/586_2.png) [@NormaJeanMarilyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NormaJeanMarilyn)\ **Post date:** [May 14, 2008, 4:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-up/12611/6 "2008-05-14T16:39:48Z")
Ahhhhh. The infamous wingman. I like wingmen better anyway. It shows they are gracious enough to let the person who needs the attention have it and confident enough to be in that position. I don’t like men who need attention. Someone how is good looking and has a lot to offer (more than just money) doesn’t have to be the center of attention. The height issue might not really be one. Say what you want about Tom Cruise and his affinity to jump a couch, but the man is gorgeous, talented, very successful and SHORT. Never seen him have an issue with getting any equally successful and hot babe…nor should you. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2008, 12:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-up/12611/7 "2008-05-15T00:05:32Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 I suggest you start with AMMO, its sexy attracts attention and its mildly arousing. Since you have approuch anxiety I suggest both IO and IH. IO to break the ice and IH to induce a deeper more meaningful connection. If you have any questions just ask. 😃 **Your GC will be in your email box shortly** 😃 Have fun Tisha