# What's up **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 19, 2009, 6:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-up/30826 "2009-07-19T18:42:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jtjohnny102](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c89c15/32.png) [@jtjohnny102](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jtjohnny102)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2009, 6:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-up/30826/1 "2009-07-19T18:42:58Z")
What’s up, im 24 and of course another noob to the forum. I decided to sign up for here to learn more about [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). I’ve seen them on and off and haven’t quite been sold on it yet and hoping to spend time reading up and learning more about it. I have actually be in a relationship for over 5 years and it’s needless to say starting to slow down. I hoping pheromones might aid in some ways. Im actually more intrigued by the stories that people have using the products here. It’s really interesting to see everyone’s personal results and opinion. Even though I’m in a relationship, that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t like to keep the lady’s interested at the bars and clubs. I would love to see how some of these things actually work or not, lol. Either way, looking forward to reading up on this and getting to know some of you. ---
**Author:** ![Vespero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vespero/32/988_2.png) [@Vespero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vespero)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2009, 6:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-up/30826/2 "2009-07-19T18:50:27Z")
Welcome to the forum, jtjohnny! Why don’t you tell us a little about yourself? Read this sticky and let us know a little more, and Tisha will get you a $25 gift certificate to start you off. Now, how did you find this forum? What kind of personality do you have? I wish you the best of luck, and I hope you find these products help you add a little vigour to your relationship. If you have any questions about anything, use the forum’s search function, and if you can’t find it there, don’t be afraid to ask. This forum contains some of the most experienced [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) users anywhere. ---
**Author:** ![Mco-gnv](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mco-gnv/32/229_2.png) [@Mco-gnv](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mco-gnv)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2009, 6:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-up/30826/3 "2009-07-19T18:51:15Z")
Hey johnny, welcome to the forum! Check out the link in my signature about how to qualify for a $25 gift certificate. Can you also tell us a bit more about yourself so we can make some better recommendations? Are you shy or outgoing, location, what do you hope to accomplish with pheromones, ect. These things can help us help you. for ltr, I would suggest IH to get her making more deep and meaningful conversations with you. Ammo is nice as an attractant to rekindle the fire as well. Hope this helps, and if you have any questions let us know. -mco; ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2009, 6:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-up/30826/4 "2009-07-19T18:55:25Z")
Hi jtjohnny, welcome to the forum. We were all skeptical when we first came here, it sort of seems too good to be true. And it is definitely not like what you might have seen in Ocean’s 13. That isn’t realistic. But the truth is that pheromones do work, and you’ve come to the place to find high quality products. Tell us about yourself, it will help us know what types of things to recommend. Are you shy? Do you have trouble meeting/approaching people? Do you have a target in mind for phero usage? Do you have any particular expectations, or hopes, about what pheros can do for you? Do you plan to use them for social only, or also for work/business? Glad you’re here. You’ll find a wealth of information in the stickies at the top of each forum section. Have a read around, tell us about yourself, you’ll be off to a great start. ---
**Author:** ![jtjohnny102](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c89c15/32.png) [@jtjohnny102](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jtjohnny102)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2009, 7:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-up/30826/5 "2009-07-19T19:08:22Z")
I’m from Nebraska and in response to some of the questions, if it’s new people i’m meeting that’s part of a group i’m with then that’s no problem. If it’s another group that I know no one, then I’m pretty hesitant to approaching them whether guys or girls. My comfort zone is usually when I know at least one person. Plus I’ve been in a relationship for over 5 years and I would almost as far as saying I forgot how to play the field. It was a lot easier when I was younger. I must have forgotten or lost my “mojo”. I don’t ever remember having a difficult time approaching people. I guess after all these years I’ve lost the skills. It would be nice to know I still have some game and confidence. Wouldnt hurt to spark up the current relationship too, lets just say it’s slowed down over the years.. I’m looking to try phero for just the social aspect, looking to have that confidence I once had before getting into a relationship. I actually came across an article on yahoo about pheromones and then one thing led to another and I ended up on Androtics Direct site. ---
**Author:** ![jtjohnny102](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c89c15/32.png) [@jtjohnny102](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jtjohnny102)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2009, 7:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-up/30826/6 "2009-07-19T19:10:20Z")
I guess to sum it up is that I want to get that spark going again in my relationship in addition to being able to step into a room and command it. I still would enjoy girls showing interest in me even though i’m already with someone. ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2009, 11:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-up/30826/7 "2009-07-19T23:08:19Z")
> [@jtjohnny102](#): > > I guess to sum it up is that I want to get that spark going again in my relationship in addition to being able to step into a room and command it. I still would enjoy girls showing interest in me even though i’m already with someone. You may want to look into A314. It is a serious respect and admiration pheromone, projects the image of being a cut above, high caliber. Many of the guys use it for business purposes, it gives them the edge over their competition. But it also has social use, never again will you have the feeling that someone is ‘out of your league.’ This is the thing to give you that ‘command of a room.’ ---
**Author:** ![Vespero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vespero/32/988_2.png) [@Vespero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vespero)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2009, 12:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-up/30826/8 "2009-07-20T00:02:08Z")
I agree with moonwhisper, though I would like to point out (and I’m sure many here will agree) that A314 is a complex mix, and may take a decent amount of experimentation and careful observation to really appreciate its effects. I’m not saying it’s weaker than other products; A314 is by far one of the best and most effective products out there. But it is also subtle in many ways. Compared to other feelings like happiness or lust, respect can be harder to see and utilize to its fullest purpose. But with practice, I’m sure you will see that it is an amazing and versatile product. If you would like to see more immediate, obvious results just to help assuage doubts you may have, you might also purchase a To-Go or two from the consumer line. ---
**Author:** ![jtjohnny102](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c89c15/32.png) [@jtjohnny102](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jtjohnny102)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2009, 6:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-up/30826/9 "2009-07-20T18:14:42Z")
I’ll definitely take a look at that. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2009, 7:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-up/30826/10 "2009-07-20T19:31:08Z")
Hey there Johnny and welcome to PheroTalk. Sure glad you stopped by. You know creating a little spark is not at all a bad thing in a relationship. Sometimes we need that extra kick to heat things up just a bit. There is nothing wrong with that. On that front I would recommend some TUTH. It takes the relationship from the couch to the bedroom and the name really says it all. Does exactly what it says it does, but dont be one of those nuts who order double strength. Its not needed. Just remember that with Androstenone, the primary ingredient, that more is definitely not better 🙂. You might also consider some CTTM for those situations where you want to get the conversation started. Its a fun cross between IH and IO and really helps to stir up the conversation juices. Whichever way you decide I wish you lots of luck with your girl. I’m also glad you came back and added to your intro to qualify for the GC which you did. I am emailing it to you in a little while. Welcome to PheroTalk.