Your sweetspot is something you need to find yourself… Did you read the newbie introduction threads?
IO paired with A314 is not good. Alphanol in IO kills the A314 status vibe. A314 + TUTH is a good mature attraction mix, but be careful with adding TUTH. Only add it in the right environments, where a sexual vibe is acceptebale (e.g. NOT during an important meeting at work!).
How do you know A314 works? Here are a couple of hits to look for from the A314 sub-forum:
Whenever I go out to eat, they hand me the bill
People do what I ask the 1st time
People rarely look me in the eye when I’m talking to them
Girls at my work seem to be in awe when I talk to them
My boss gives me a lot more trust and responsibility
My boss asks for my opinion on a lot of important things
Customers ask me questions first even if I don’t have my name tag on
My co workers try to impress me with stories that are outlandish
People in general seem to trust me more than they should
The one the waiter hands the wine list to when we sit down
Girls fishing for compliments
Everyone quietening down when you enter a room or a group in a party
I get what I ask for
…she told me that I seemed “for some reason, more sophisticated.”
When in groups people wait for my decision
Increase in hair flips (Playing with hair)
Human magnetism: People flock to me. They don’t always talk, but they move towards me.
People move out of my way
I look like I’m 12 years old and get called SIR each and everyday I wear A314
People Listen to what you have to say
I get lots of requests asking me for my “valuable” time - My Time is like Gold
People, especially girls, go out of their way to say hello to me
Leader of Men effect
It’s the T & A display where women develop back trouble all of a sudden and bend over