# When will you guys realize that LOOKS are almost all that matters!? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [August 17, 2009, 5:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619 "2009-08-17T05:04:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 6
**Author:** ![SCoupe](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/scoupe/32/2101_2.png) [@SCoupe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SCoupe)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 12:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/102 "2009-08-18T00:50:33Z")
Isn’t this some of the spam BS MHarris & Jasmine have had to deal with. DON’T RESPOND TO TROLLS Mods & Admins don’t have to ban 'em. Once the ish starts drop 'em … it takes two. ---
**Author:** ![Advanced](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/58956e/32.png) [@Advanced](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Advanced)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 12:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/103 "2009-08-18T00:56:12Z")
> [@glertsgal](#): > > I am an overweight, 40+ gal and still attract guys. Why? Because most guys are desperate for pussy and will have sex with any human female. ---
**Author:** ![Advanced](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/58956e/32.png) [@Advanced](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Advanced)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 12:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/104 "2009-08-18T00:57:40Z")
> [@onthornsilay](#): > > why is advanced trolling, not just this forums but other forums with the same topic? what point are you trying to prove? we dont care… > > i think this idiot, bought 2 get one free of pherlue and tried it on, and went to his high school expecting the hot cheerleader to just jump on him.. clearly not knowing how to work the pheros, he went away crying, and its left him scarred for life… > > not all pheros work, some are scams, and Advanced, because u never did your research, u got scammed… i bet u never tried any pheros from here… if not why dont you just stfu and buy a bottle… and if it doesnt work its double your money back, so u can pay for twice as much porn as u normally do… > > and OMG PHEROCLONE… i cant read any of your posts because my eyes keep getting drawn to that horrid avatar you have… i have never seen anything more horrfying… its like that Blackhole Sun video… yuk… No…I was not stupid enough to buy this snake oil in the first place. ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 1:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/105 "2009-08-18T01:40:10Z")
Advanced, i think i know what’s going on but first i must ask you a few questions…are you 22 years old? are you a virgin? do you consider yourself ugly? ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 1:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/106 "2009-08-18T01:54:35Z")
Yeah, and post a pic. I think it’s time you face the jury as well. > [@meow333x](#): > > Advanced, i think i know what’s going on but first i must ask you a few questions…are you 22 years old? are you a virgin? do you consider yourself ugly? ---
**Author:** ![Argamemnon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ba9def/32.png) [@Argamemnon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Argamemnon)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 2:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/107 "2009-08-18T02:23:44Z")
> [@onthornsilay](#): > > you must also know HOW to wear them.. u cant just spray it on and away you go, you need to know what you’re doing. thats why u dont see them on every shop corner… > > i know for a fact they work because i am TESTED them.. like we all have… > > **has a girl every dragged u into the public toilets and shagged u? i guess not… but after 3 sprays of turn up the heat.. i was dragged in**. ![](https://us1.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/uploads/pheromonetalk/original/2X/b/b976f39d6346f88211b4b185bbded5ce4e03e978.jpeg) ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 2:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/108 "2009-08-18T02:51:11Z")
wher’d that mofo go? anywho…i think this dude is just pissed off about his situation and just venting at anything and everything he sees. i don’t blame him..i was in that state at one point. you can tell he’s just pissed off and venting because he’s not doing anything about it. if he really believed that looks are everything then he would be either in the gym right now or saving up for a cosmetic procedure. it would be interesting to see what his before and after reactions would be to changing his looks.🆒 ---
**Author:** ![Xman0142](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/13edae/32.png) [@Xman0142](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xman0142)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 4:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/109 "2009-08-18T04:24:47Z")
but seriously looks do play a certain role in the process. Yes u can improve yourself and try change your physique, grooming, and or attitude, but when compared to a better looking guy who has half of that then the first guy is going to lose. You can tune up and modify an old cadillac all you want but its still going to look pale in comparison to a lamborghini. and it is kinda true on how u guys go ape shit about looks. ---
**Author:** ![Xman0142](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/13edae/32.png) [@Xman0142](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xman0142)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 4:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/110 "2009-08-18T04:33:40Z")
> [@ElectraComplex](#): > > To a degree we all have at least an iota of superficiality its programmed into us by people around us. > We can choose to overcome that or not. > > Assumptions.. > > There’s this thing about being too hot.(or thinking you are) > Nasty ego from some people who are super attractive. > > People who think they’re too ugly. > Nasty level of self loathing or insecurity. > > The trick either way is to _ **be happy with yourself** _ but not consumed by yourself good or bad. > > Yes, people can be cruel and people can be superficial but not everyone is that way. A certain part of that is genetic, people are attracted to facial symmetry and complimentary genetics.This is not to say someone has to be stereo-typically attractive. Stereotypes suck and we can overcome both stereo-types and our genetics in terms of thinking. > > Complimentary genetics means if you have small shoulders as a male you might like broad shouldered women low testosterone men may like women with higher than normal testosterone.Speaking strictly in terms of breeding we unconsciously and sometimes consciously go for complimentary and diverse genetics. > > Some people like big noses and some people like button noses. > There is a certain leg up for attractive people.Socially and in terms of getting jobs ectra. > > **Personality means a lot.Looks fade over time. Sure in today’s society we can plastic ourselves up until we fall into our graves.Yet in the end its the mind and heart of a person you’re left with.** > > Grooming is essential but there are certain medical conditions no amount of grooming can deal with.A guy who hasn’t got a clue as to how to deal with this stuff.Try asking a woman.Strictly in terms of courting most women have a pretty strong opinion of how things should be or at least what they personally want. > > Most people should have at least one friend of the opposite sex. > Chances are if you can’t coexist with a member of the opposite sex even on a basic friendly level something is wrong.It means you’re doing something wrong and should look at your own approach methods to see what isn’t working. > > _ **What does help.** _ > > Respect.Treating someone right. > > Both of these can lead to other things not only is it worth it from the basic angle of making someones day but you get positives in return. > People eventually notice if you treat others with respect. > > The post that started this thread was lacking in respect and drew a lot of responses that weren’t entirely respectful.You get what you put out. > > If you have that low opinion of yourself and the people around you something needs to change and its probably your way of thinking. > We tend to reflect ourselves on others. > Tearing down those around you isn’t helpful to you or them. > > Focus on more positive things for example if your friend is good to talk to focus on that. > > Btw. Most girls like being able to talk to a guy try listening. > > \*\*\*I think when you meet someone that’s good for you and makes you happy and vice versa someone you enjoy being around _not just for sex_.Then you have something. > > * * * > > Hyper focusing on trivialities that will pass and on sex is bad idea in general. > > Sex comes and goes can be good or bad and even boring. > > When we focus on trivial things too much we loose something. > > When we stop looking at people as people we loose something. > > Focus on the things you like in people and in life . > > Focus on the things you like about yourself and those around you. > > \*\*\*Strive for a healthier mindset and a healthier you. > > _ **Just a thought** _.. > > * * * I wish everyone in the world thought like you…but sadly they dont and alot of girls dont care so much about personality until theyre a bit older in the 35-50 range. Lots of people arent going to put in the effort to stop believing in stereotypes, and if some of these guys were secure about themselves and didnt really think what others thought, theyre would be wayyy less members which means a super small market for companies like Androtics. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 4:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/111 "2009-08-18T04:40:55Z")
Nope, not if he’s a complete asshole and/or wife beater. Majority of these “hot” guys are stuck up dicks (and whores,) who are major assholes (the majority I’m sure.) If a girl does choose the “hot” guy chances are she’ll end up leaving him anyway and/or cheating on him with a nice normal looking guy who’s confident in himself and charming, so the hot guy ends up losing anyway. > [@Xman0142](#): > > but seriously looks do play a certain role in the process. Yes u can improve yourself and try change your physique, grooming, and or attitude, but when compared to a better looking guy who has half of that then the first guy is going to lose. ---
**Author:** ![Xman0142](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/13edae/32.png) [@Xman0142](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xman0142)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 4:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/112 "2009-08-18T04:45:55Z")
> [@mikotorocks714](#): > > Nope, not if he’s a complete asshole and/or wife beater. Majority of these “hot” guys are stuck up dicks (and whores,) who are major assholes (the majority I’m sure.) If a girl does choose the “hot” guy chances are she’ll end up leaving him anyway and/or cheating on him with a nice normal looking guy who’s confident in himself and charming, so the hot guy ends up losing anyway. lol dude your going to the very extremes. Thats stereo typing to the fullest. There are tons of good looking guys in great relationships. Thats like saying a majority of black people can dance and play basketball. Which is not true. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 4:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/113 "2009-08-18T04:55:31Z")
That’s why I said at least the majority of them _not all of them_. This was mainly directed to those typical lugheads “bros” often talked about or seen in High School and College. > [@Xman0142](#): > > lol dude your going to the very extremes. Thats stereo typing to the fullest. There are tons of good looking guys in great relationships. Thats like saying a majority of black people can dance and play basketball. Which is not true. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 5:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/114 "2009-08-18T05:28:58Z")
It’s just like when the nerd in Revenge of the Nerds wins over the jock’s girl after giving her his peen, douche bags won’t prevail in the end. https://www.youtube.com/embed/yR-D9oSMLBw?feature=oembed&wmode=opaque ---
**Author:** ![onthornsilay](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/onthornsilay/32/1427_2.png) [@onthornsilay](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/onthornsilay)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 8:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/115 "2009-08-18T08:28:48Z")
lol advanced hasn’t even tried the products, so he doesn’t have a case here.. begone virgin ---
**Author:** ![Blacky\_Chan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/blacky_chan/32/973_2.png) [@Blacky\_Chan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Blacky_Chan)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 1:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/116 "2009-08-18T13:26:04Z")
> [@Xman0142](#): > > Thats like saying a majority of black people can dance and play basketball. Which is not true. [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T3ANUkOyDNQ&feature=related](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T3ANUkOyDNQ&feature=related) ---
**Author:** ![sherozai](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/77aa72/32.png) [@sherozai](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sherozai)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 1:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/117 "2009-08-18T13:32:17Z")
I’ll try to sum up. Advanced has a friend who is ugly. now, he can’t change the way god made him, can he? NO. So he tries products that makes him better in the other departments. Whats wrong if a girl likes the way he speaks, his confidence, his smell, the way he makes her feel when he’s around. With phero products, atleast he’s trying. You, on the other hand, are making him feel like a loser. What do you want him to do? **Roll over and die** just because he can’t get a girl with his looks. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 2:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/118 "2009-08-18T14:11:38Z")
Well in every major psychology circle, when a person speaks of their “friend” they are speaking of themselves. advanced has posted my avatar on his little suicidal boys club and accordingly I’m a fat bastard that cries when people put down mones. LOL. I’m so hurt that you would resort to name calling. Then his forum pals (which speaks volumes of their social levels) write that he should use tiny url to mask his link-backs. Again I laughed pretty loud when I read that. He furthers that his posts are in mod and he has won since I won’t let them through, but I guess that is why every post he has made is visible in this thread. Why on Earth would I not want the members here to read into exactly they type of person he is? Ahh the comedy of anonymous intelligence. ---
**Author:** ![Vaccine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vaccine/32/2381_2.png) [@Vaccine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vaccine)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 3:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/119 "2009-08-18T15:34:09Z")
Actually Steve the whole episode is sad. We can’t even get a proper troll. We get the new and inexperienced ones. Guess good trolls have better places to go. ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 4:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/120 "2009-08-18T16:41:43Z")
honestly who cares? why do the people on this forum feel the need to jump in and analyze stuff? since when is “dumbass” not a good explanation. ---
**Author:** ![bubblebob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bubblebob/32/2120_2.png) [@bubblebob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bubblebob)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 4:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619/121 "2009-08-18T16:55:25Z")
> [@Vaccine](#): > > Actually Steve the whole episode is sad. We can’t even get a proper troll. We get the new and inexperienced ones. Guess good trolls have better places to go. Yepp, he’s not even answering anymore. It’s no fun like that! ☹ We definitely need another troll! Or I have to become a member at love-shy… 😃 [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619.md?page=5) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-will-you-guys-realize-that-looks-are-almost-all-that-matters/31619.md?page=7)