# When you want opposite effect

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-you-want-opposite-effect/11554>\
**Category:** Pheromone Theory & Molecules\
**Created:** [April 20, 2008, 4:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-you-want-opposite-effect/11554 "2008-04-20T16:11:28Z")\
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**Author:** ![newlife](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b2d939/32.png) [@newlife](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/newlife)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 4:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-you-want-opposite-effect/11554/1 "2008-04-20T16:11:28Z")

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I am trying still my mones I posted my first experience and soon I will post more experiences what are very good. I am having a very good time with my husband, the best since we got married 7 years ago.

I am also sharing some of my experiences with my female friends, one friend wants to try some of my mones before she orders hers.  
She asked a interesting question and I would like to ask in this forum.  
Is there a mone that causes opposite effect?  
The chemistry is still in their marriage, she wants to keep the ladies far from her husband.

Is there a mone that man can use and insteat to attract girls will have an opposite efect?

I really like the positive effects from the mones, but her question rose my curiosity.😕

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 6:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-you-want-opposite-effect/11554/2 "2008-04-20T18:28:06Z")

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I am sure there are molecules that will repel and at times I do think I have tested a few of them here LOL But there is not a product specifically for repelling people. Here is the thing to…

Mones are going to effect her as well as all these other women she is looking to keep away. So she wont be attracted to him either. She will still love him of course but it will probably put a damper on her sex life and intimacy. He will repel women he works with, what if his clients or his boss is female ? He will repel ,his mom ,his sisters, his wife… Just not a productive product.

Now if she is worried about other females getting to her husband she should spice things up so he has no reason to stray.

Tisha

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**Author:** ![newlife](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b2d939/32.png) [@newlife](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/newlife)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 10:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-you-want-opposite-effect/11554/3 "2008-04-20T22:48:48Z")

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I thought about this Tisha, but he works with guys, he is construction worker and generally only guys are around him, including boss. Also they are foreigners and do not have any family here.If it had a mone to do this and if the mone last for about 6 hours, by the time he was back home it would not affect her and she could spice the things up with the mones in a good way. Anyway, it is not something I would do it, but I did not know how to answer her question.

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**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\
**Post date:** [April 22, 2008, 12:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-you-want-opposite-effect/11554/4 "2008-04-22T00:55:32Z")

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Like many others, I think your friend has the wrong impression of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). I’ll be blunt here and say that if she’s concerned about her partner’s fidelity and feels that pheromones are the only way to keep her partner from committing adultery, then I would suggest stepping back and reconsidering the state of their relationship.

You should be able to maintain the relationship sans pheromones. Usually, this happens whether it is intentional or not as pheromones are only a fragment of attraction and thus inevitably targets are attracted to the whole attraction, not just the pheromone enhanced fragment. (Did that make sense?)

Morality or philosophy aside, then it’s an equally complicated question of how to apply said pheromones.

Would you inform him of the purpose and intended effects of the pheromones? The pheromones might not have the effect you want, but there is absolutely no doubt that revealing your intentions (and honestly, if he’s a legitmate man, might even been hurt that you would go about your suspicions in such a clandestine manner) would create tension, as you are essentially coming to the conclusion that you cannot trust him.

Or, somehow your friend finds a way to apply those pheromones every day without her husband noticing the smell, let alone the change in behavior. Is she willing to commit herself to applying these pheromones behind her husband’s back for the rest of her life? I think it’s safe to say that your friend’s wellbeing will be negatively impacted by having to deal with the stress of applying pheromones and keeping the secret and hiding every day and night.

Maybe she plans to continue this until he loses his sex drive? That still doesn’t guarantee fidelity. Ultimately, relationships fail not always because one or both parties are intentionally acting maliciously, but because one or both parties are being unfulfilled and can’t communicate that to their partner.

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If the chemistry is indeed there, then why is your friend concerned about her husband having an affair? I would not recommend _any_ pheromones for this situation, even if there were applicable pheromones, as I believe that a far more effective situation would be to just sit down and talk like two adults. If the chemistry is there and they both truly value each other, then sitting down to talk about their relationship should be possible. It’s not easy, even on the best of terms, because our worst enemies will always be ourselves. The hardest part of having a conversation like that will be admitting your fears, admitting to yourselves that the trust isn’t as solid as was once thought. After that, taking steps to reinforce the trust is relatively easy.

Finally, let’s say that the pheromones work and he stays faithful. Is your friend willing to risk living in a dead relationship for the rest of her life? Wouldn’t she rather leave the guy she doesn’t trust to find a new, more fulfilling relationship?

I for one wouldn’t want to be in a situation where I can’t trust my wife, while ensuring her fidelity through the use of external influences. I’d rather just let her live her life, I’ll be hurt, but it’s certainly better than knowing I wasted my life with someone who didn’t even want to be there.

Perhaps I’m coming from an extreme. I’ve been the guy she couldn’t trust before. I’m certain some of this happened because of my inexperience, but at the time, I felt that if you’re going to say you trust me, then trust me. If you’re gonna rep me, rep me right. I do the same for my girls. If anyone becomes close enough to me where I value their trust, I will never let that trust dissolve until I see it for myself. Otherwise, what’s the value of my word? There’s no value in me saying to someone that I trust them, if I’m only going to doubt them later down the line.

Ironically, that same girl ended up cheating on me (although I think she’ll claim that under the circumstances it wasn’t her fault). So, now I know. If you can’t trust someone, it’s sometimes because you can’t trust yourself. Because they know firsthand how quickly loyalties can change.

Tell your friend to work it out with her husband through communication. I don’t know her husband, but I don’t think he’ll be mad if your friend shares her feelings about trust. Then, when their relationship is going strong, tell her to come back and we’ll give her all the help she wants spicing up that relationship of hers.

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**Author:** ![newlife](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b2d939/32.png) [@newlife](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/newlife)\
**Post date:** [April 22, 2008, 3:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-you-want-opposite-effect/11554/5 "2008-04-22T03:24:02Z")

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Phya, I think you are right . Personally I have a lot o fun with my mones and I thought about asking the question above, just because I was asked about it and I read some posts where some people thought that they had different reactions. I read your message with my friend and I do not like to get involved in the couples business, but I want to help her to have more confidence and I certainly can help her feel more sexy.  
I am a hard temper person and my married is based on trust, I would not forgive my husband if he would be unfaithful.

By the way, my husband does not know about my mones, he does not need to know, I do not use everyday and he would not believe in the effects anyway and would get crazy if he knew how much I spent with it.

If he knew it would not be fun and I consider my mones a personal thing, he does not need to control all my personals, like make up, perfumes, etc.

I respect your opinion and I kind believe in the same thing, but I respect my friends choice, and I have friends that had forggiven their husbands after they committed adultery and they are happy.

My friend will try some [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) today and I hope she can be happy and have a lot fun with mones.

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**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\
**Post date:** [April 23, 2008, 6:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-you-want-opposite-effect/11554/6 "2008-04-23T06:10:35Z")

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I’m not right. I’m just sharing my opinion, but thanks. 😉

> [@newlife](#):
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> I want to help her to have more confidence and I certainly can help her feel more sexy.

That’s awesome. In my short, short life, I’ve seen more than a few “friends” who as we all know talk the talk, but don’t walk the walk. It’s great that you’re willing to take the time and effort to help your friend feel better about herself. Props just for that. 😃

> [@newlife](#):
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> By the way, my husband does not know about my pheromones, he does not need to know, I do not use everyday and he would not believe in the effects anyway and would get crazy if he knew how much I spent with it.
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> If he knew it would not be fun and I consider my pheromones a personal thing, he does not need to control all my personals, like make up, perfumes, etc.

We all have our secrets, so enjoy yours. 😛 He doesn’t need to know for you to enjoy it, or even him to enjoy it. You feeling better about yourself benefits him as well, so I don’t think he’d really object to it. I can understand how he might be upset about spending money (😃), but as long as there is balance, it should be cool.

> [@newlife](#):
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> I respect your opinion and I kind believe in the same thing, but I respect my friends choice, and I have friends that had forggiven their husbands after they committed adultery and they are happy.
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> My friend will try some Instant Honesty today and I hope she can be happy and have a lot fun with pheromones.

I too respect you and your friend’s opinions as well, I only brought up a contrasting perspective to shed some light on some unforeseen issues with your friend’s plans. As long as she is aware of it, her life is hers.

I hope she’s happy as well, and I’m sure the two of you will have a blast!

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**Author:** ![nbully79](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c68b51/32.png) [@nbully79](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nbully79)\
**Post date:** [April 24, 2008, 9:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-you-want-opposite-effect/11554/7 "2008-04-24T21:47:48Z")

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> [@newlife](#):
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> I am also sharing some of my experiences with my female friends, one friend wants to try some of my pheromones before she orders hers.  
> She asked a interesting question and I would like to ask in this forum.  
> Is there a pheromone that causes opposite effect?  
> The chemistry is still in their marriage, she wants to keep the ladies far from her husband.
> 
> Is there a pheromone that man can use and insteat to attract girls will have an opposite efect?
> 
> I really like the positive effects from the pheromones, but her question rose my curiosity.😕

Hey newlife, this might interest you…a blurb from another website

“…As studies have demonstrated the Primal Concentrate gives you the extraordinary power to MARK YOUR MAN with a HANDS OFF SIGNAL signal that other women honor unconsciously. When you wear the PRIMAL, no other woman could naturally equal the strength of pheromones detected on you. **And this concentrate of female sex pheromones on his person or his clothes acts as a chastity belt, because as numerous scientific studies have shown, women are repulsed by a man upon whom they detect the presence of the [female pheromone](https://phera.com/).** This is the most potent force in preserving fidelity ever conceived. Bear in mind that INFIDELITY, and a PREFERENCE for a STRANGER is programmed into a man’s DNA. The Primal Concentrate gives you the opportunity to short circuit his natural impulse to stray…”

Take the research studies mentioned with a grain of salt 😛 …but basically what your friend needs is the signature of a strong woman on her husband. This might give a signal to other women that he is taken, although there are some women who like that vibe, most don’t..so it might work!

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**Author:** ![newlife](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b2d939/32.png) [@newlife](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/newlife)\
**Post date:** [April 24, 2008, 11:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-you-want-opposite-effect/11554/8 "2008-04-24T23:23:06Z")

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Thanks nbully, I will let her know and she can try. I guess she is up to try everything. I gave her some of my EOW, [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) and Instant Sexiness. I told her how to use and to start with Instant Honesty, since her husband did not speak, he just listens and gets quiet, what probably makes she imagines a lot things since he does not answer her questions.  
She is 29 years old, they have a 10 years old girl and 8 months baby, what sometimes I think, that when a woman has a child the man feels a little be left out.

Anyway, she got the samples I gave her on Monday and I was expecting her feedback next day, but she did not call, I did not hear from her Wednesday morning also and my only thought it was that the pheromone worked.  
She called last night and she did not follow my instructions to use just Instant honesty, since I thought she was looking for a conversation first, before she gets to the intimacy part.  
I think that she just wanted the whole package, then she used EOW, Instant Sexiness and Instant Honesty.  
When he got home, she started a conversation and for while it was like she was talking by herself, she told me that she was almost giving up, when he started to speak.  
She authorized to post her experience, then after a conversation they went to bed and when she got near him, she could feels his arousal, she had the best sex from a long time, as she told me it was not quick ( what we use to say, like a rooster and the hen) like she was having before and she really enjoyed.  
Anyway, if they are happy, I am happy, more one customer for [Smartmones.com](http://Smartmones.com). She is so amazed how the pheromones worked for her, me too, because for her first time using mones, I think it was great.

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**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\
**Post date:** [April 25, 2008, 5:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-you-want-opposite-effect/11554/9 "2008-04-25T05:36:47Z")

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Newlife, I’m glad your friend had positive first experience with pheromones.

It’s funny that you say that the man feels a little left out after a woman has a child. Nas has a good verse about that:

I’m jealous of you how come you so beautiful?  
Smelling fresh youthful intelligent while I’m stressin’ and shit  
Ay, yo I envy you ’cause all you do is smile and things come your way  
Such a innocent child is what some say  
I get upset ’cause I just want to be treated the way you are  
Like a star not a worry in this world thus far  
But wait a minute we both need ya mother’s attention  
I must be crazy jealous of my own baby infant

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**Author:** ![nbully79](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c68b51/32.png) [@nbully79](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nbully79)\
**Post date:** [April 25, 2008, 1:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/when-you-want-opposite-effect/11554/10 "2008-04-25T13:38:12Z")

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Hey newlife, that’s great news! Hope things get even better for her and they can work through their communication problems.😉 🙂