# Where did you "Get Game" From? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 3, 2006, 6:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/where-did-you-get-game-from/119 "2006-02-03T06:31:17Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 2
**Author:** ![tacitus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/6a8cbe/32.png) [@tacitus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tacitus)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2006, 8:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/where-did-you-get-game-from/119/2 "2006-02-03T20:39:10Z")
Less is more. You wouldn’t think this first crack off the bat. I think I’ve had my best results from two things, a lot of vocal TRAINING, not listening to CDs or reading books, but working with a good teacher… even my ex-wife says she hardly recognizes me on the phone and she likes the improvement… more unexpected, instead of a deeper, gravelly voice it gave me a more youthful, fresher voice like a younger guy… a lot of guys mess up by trying to sound deep and rich and then sound like hung over oafs. I’ve heard so many “masters” with self defeating verbal tics and tonal problems, four highly regarded NLP “masters”, or self promoted as such, and you’re thinking, WHO is going to take these guys (and gals) seriously ? There will forever be a glass ceiling over their heads when it comes to whatever they’re pitching… The second thing is high level of body awareness, I do a ton of Alexander technique and associated body consciousness activities, all the time, when I’m up, down, depressed, tuned up, I keep on working the motor neurons… many, many people today have poor body/spatial/situational awareness, they’re kind of mindlessly trundling along like they’re on a conveyor belt or something, or sitting there imploded in their personal mind space, like their sphere of consciousness is about the size of a ping pong ball… the thing is that people with high level body awareness are interesting, even captivating to watch, even their simple movements are kind of poetic and absorbing… I say these two girls walking down the beach in their sexy bikinis, one was more outwardly beautiful but her posture was somewhat stiff and artificial, and the second girl wasn’t so visually excellent but she moved with an animal vitality that was such a turn on. Pretty soon I wasn’t even aware of the first girl… There is a hard to describe thing, the congruity of the body, the voice, the thought processes, the clothing that all merge into a coherent expression of someone, it is essential that everything makes sense in terms of the whole self-system.. --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/where-did-you-get-game-from/119)._