# Where should I start? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 16, 2008, 1:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/where-should-i-start/12690 "2008-05-16T01:43:16Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bookgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c67d28/32.png) [@bookgirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bookgirl)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2008, 1:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/where-should-i-start/12690/1 "2008-05-16T01:43:16Z")
So, I am really new to pheromones. A couple of months ago I tested out Instant Sexiness B, 2.5 mcg TAH, [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) and Instant Openess (not all at the same time though!) with few, if any, real positive results. Honesty gave really bad results. I chalked this up to my not being sure as to how to apply them, although part of the problem might be the strength of my TAH. I’ve spent the past few weeks reading every thread I could find about apply pheromones and what to expect from them. Which means I’m ready to try again! I was looking to attract a relationship when I first bought my pheros, but now I think that I set my expectations too high. I’m thinking a social, popularity mix might be a better start since I’m so shy and I don’t stand out at all. After all, guys notice you when you are having fun! Today was payday, which means that I can afford to try out suggestions! What should I buy? I have EST, Spaceland, Instant Sexiness B, TAH, MX135, Instant Openess, and Instant Honesty. I also have LP’s Super Sexy for Women. The week I wore Instant Honesty people had a tendency to just blurt out mean things to me, so I kinda hope to avoid that social. One of my closest friends is celebrating her 21st birthday next Friday and I want to make sure I have fun (not take the spot light away from her though). I ended up with the pleasant task of guarding purses at the table, the last two birthdays in my group of friends, while the other girls all danced with guys. I don’t want purse duty this time. So what pheros should I use/buy for next Friday? A fun mix that maybe has an attractive element to it. Thank you so much for any suggestions you might have! ---
**Author:** ![Tealeaves](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tealeaves/32/1293_2.png) [@Tealeaves](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tealeaves)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2008, 4:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/where-should-i-start/12690/2 "2008-05-16T04:42:21Z")
Hey Bookgirl 🙂 Did you ever get around to testing MX135? How did it work for you if you did? When I first started using this product, it made me feel a bit ditzy, but I’ve overcome that self-effect since… now I’m just soft, girly, and given plenty of attention 😛 [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) is one of my favorites… ☹ I’m sorry it’s not working well for you. The only day I wore Super Sexy out of the house, people became more confrontational and insulting. It wasn’t _bad_, as my friends and I usually joke around like that, but it was more than usual. I’m sorta holding off on further testing, as I didn’t like the response or self effects I got from it… Well, come to think, I did get more IOIs than usual from a guy I’m interested in, but… hm, maybe I can use it while we’re alone 😃 🙄 What sort of environment will the party be held in? A backyard? A bar? ---
**Author:** ![bookgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c67d28/32.png) [@bookgirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bookgirl)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2008, 5:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/where-should-i-start/12690/3 "2008-05-16T05:17:08Z")
> [@Tealeaves](#): > > Hey Bookgirl 🙂 > > Did you ever get around to testing MX135? How did it work for you if you did? When I first started using this product, it made me feel a bit ditzy, but I’ve overcome that self-effect since… now I’m just soft, girly, and given plenty of attention 😛 > > Instant Honesty is one of my favorites… ☹ I’m sorry it’s not working well for you. > > The only day I wore Super Sexy out of the house, people became more confrontational and insulting. It wasn’t _bad_, as my friends and I usually joke around like that, but it was more than usual. I’m sorta holding off on further testing, as I didn’t like the response or self effects I got from it… Well, come to think, I did get more IOIs than usual from a guy I’m interested in, but… hm, maybe I can use it while we’re alone 😃 🙄 > > What sort of environment will the party be held in? A backyard? A bar? Hi Tealeaves! Thank you for your help! MX135 is one of the few I have not tried out yet. I think I’ll have to try it out by itself this weekend. The soft, girly image really fits with my personality, so I think I’ll like this one.🙂 I’ll have to report back. As for the party, it’ll been dinner in a resturant and then on to a bar. I’ll definately be out of my element. ---
**Author:** ![Tealeaves](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tealeaves/32/1293_2.png) [@Tealeaves](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tealeaves)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2008, 5:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/where-should-i-start/12690/4 "2008-05-16T05:52:51Z")
Just remember to relax, enjoy yourself, and don’t be so concerned with how other people perceive you. Let loose and have a good time 🙂 For a bar, you’re probably gonna need more sprays, because you’re competing with everyone else’s pheromones. The same is true for most other crowded environments. Test MX135 over the next week to make sure you’re comfortable using it. Maybe try some [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) as well. Keep us posted and good luck 😃