# Which mone will make an ex from 10 years ago notice and want me again? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 11, 2012, 9:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-mone-will-make-an-ex-from-10-years-ago-notice-and-want-me-again/54529 "2012-02-11T09:35:45Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 15\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![set4life](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9fc29f/32.png) [@set4life](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/set4life)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2012, 9:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-mone-will-make-an-ex-from-10-years-ago-notice-and-want-me-again/54529/1 "2012-02-11T09:35:45Z")
Hello everyone. Can someone please tell me what is the best mone to use. Here is my situation. I had a wonderful relationship with a young lady about 10 years ago. We broke off the relationship even thou I still had feelings for her. She know this and plays as if she is not interested simply because she has professionally moved up the ladder. It’s like she is an executive and I am still in the mailroom. What can i wear to get her to simply give in and stop being so stuck-up. I want to wear something that will make her want and notice me. any advice?😕 ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2012, 9:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-mone-will-make-an-ex-from-10-years-ago-notice-and-want-me-again/54529/2 "2012-02-11T09:57:34Z")
A314 - Oil base. This ups your status considerably in subtle and wide ranging ways. Also consider using IH, P74, [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), TUTH and IJ alongside it - although the latter two are not really suitable forwork but could come into play later if things develop. All will get you noticed in generally good and interesting ways! Several good threads on each possible combinations already if you want to search. A314/IH/P74 is a favourite “wow-them” at work mix but it has gained me a stalker. And the last time I encountered an ex socially wearing A314/IJ, the behaved in a most interesting and unseemly manner! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![MclarenMercedesF1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mclarenmercedesf1/32/2073_2.png) [@MclarenMercedesF1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MclarenMercedesF1)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2012, 10:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-mone-will-make-an-ex-from-10-years-ago-notice-and-want-me-again/54529/3 "2012-02-11T10:27:21Z")
> [@mobocaster](#): > > And the last time I encountered an ex socially wearing A314/IJ, the behaved in a most interesting and unseemly manner! 😃 Care to elaborate??? 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2012, 10:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-mone-will-make-an-ex-from-10-years-ago-notice-and-want-me-again/54529/4 "2012-02-11T10:52:49Z")
> [@](#): > > On Saturday and Sunday, I took A314 / P114 and IJ out for a spin. The results were to say the least interesting! I’ll write-up the lot in my journal but the highlight was probably when my ex gave me a public toe-sucking, whilst her current guy and a friend of her’s who rapidly got to hate me looked-on. > > Despite this, her bloke still treated me with a very decent degree of respect and friendlieness but Miss F did later comment - “you can be a bit nasty at times, can’t you!” > [@A314 + p114](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-p114/52284/38): > > Just A314/P114 to a club? I’d have some TUTH/NPA/AE or other overt none in with that. The only times I’ve taken just those two to a club/sexual situation was with A314-Extra None Edition. Which was fine. A314/P114 together is better at lower dose for work or for more sedate socialising at slightly higher. I don’t agree it softens the alpha vibe at all but it does steer it in an altogether different direction. A much more social, looked-up to kind of respect/sought after/enjoyable vibe. Which i… And there have been other incidents! 😉 ---
**Author:** ![set4life](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9fc29f/32.png) [@set4life](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/set4life)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2012, 11:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-mone-will-make-an-ex-from-10-years-ago-notice-and-want-me-again/54529/5 "2012-02-11T11:05:50Z")
Thanks…I’ll give it a try. Some of the products are just out of my financial league. But i will still do what I can ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2012, 11:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-mone-will-make-an-ex-from-10-years-ago-notice-and-want-me-again/54529/6 "2012-02-11T11:24:23Z")
I know - A314 oil does work out a more cost effective than other products because of its longevity and efficiency though. And its effects in dating/relationships are IMO most effective in us older guys! 🙂 If you want to try it out, the /b version is closest to oil in strength/impact, although it won’t last as long per application and lacks a lot of the subtlety of oil. Also, if you keep reporting-in your results, clearly - good and bad, you should fairly soon find yourself given RU status which does bring the costs of Putatives and MXs down significantly. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![MclarenMercedesF1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mclarenmercedesf1/32/2073_2.png) [@MclarenMercedesF1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MclarenMercedesF1)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2012, 8:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-mone-will-make-an-ex-from-10-years-ago-notice-and-want-me-again/54529/7 "2012-02-11T20:40:21Z")
> [@mobocaster](#): > > I know - A314 oil does work out a more cost effective than other products because of its longevity and efficiency though. And its effects in dating/relationships are IMO most effective in us older guys! 🙂 > > If you want to try it out, the /b version is closest to oil in strength/impact, although it won’t last as long per application and lacks a lot of the subtlety of oil. > > Also, if you keep reporting-in your results, clearly - good and bad, you should fairly soon find yourself given RU status which does bring the costs of Putatives and MXs down significantly. 🙂 how do you know if youve been made a reporting user? ---
**Author:** ![Tacarov](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tacarov/32/2132_2.png) [@Tacarov](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tacarov)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2012, 9:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-mone-will-make-an-ex-from-10-years-ago-notice-and-want-me-again/54529/8 "2012-02-11T21:57:34Z")
set4life, You have a nice start here, but you might want to go back and keep posting in your introduction thread, even if you just take what you wrote here and add a little but more about yourself you will be able to get the 25 dollar gift certificate. Also you might want to tell us a bit more about whats been going on with the two of you since things ended. It is rather difficult to change someone’s opinion of you, not that it can’t be done of course, but it would be easier to give you the proper advice if we knew a bit more instead of taking shot in the dark. Also, maybe tell us more about her. ---
**Author:** ![set4life](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9fc29f/32.png) [@set4life](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/set4life)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2012, 10:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-mone-will-make-an-ex-from-10-years-ago-notice-and-want-me-again/54529/9 "2012-02-11T22:23:25Z")
This forum has been extremely helpful. My friend and I see each other often just in passing. She always smiles because I know she remember the good times we used to have. We both work at the same university. I make her laugh still. I tell her how beautiful she is, but she won’t buge on us getting back together. i feel like I can do this w/o the pheremone but i can do better with it. hey if it’s not to be, I can live with it. Now she is not the only girl I want but she would be number one!! Do you suggest also getting the newbie kit to get me started? Also…all the IG and [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/) and MX22!!! Man it’s like you guys are talking greek!!! ---
**Author:** ![Tacarov](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tacarov/32/2132_2.png) [@Tacarov](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tacarov)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2012, 10:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-mone-will-make-an-ex-from-10-years-ago-notice-and-want-me-again/54529/10 "2012-02-11T22:39:52Z")
I’m going to quote a true master of mones here, P51Mustang truly knows what he is talking about. This ought to help you get an understanding of the different products. I chopped out a few sections because it is not advised to start in on products that are outside the consumer line. This is because they can be more temperamental, the effects are not always known. That is part of the point of the forum, finding out the effects of new molecules, testing experimental mixes, yet that is rather difficult to do if you dont have a handle on the basics yet. [Here is the link to the original thread, it is a great read.](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/updated-androticsdirect-pheromones-for-newbies/39802) > [@P51Mustang](#): > > AD offers a wide array of pheromones out there. There’s been more and more new users asking about products and what not. > > To start off here are some basic guides for pheromones. > > This is a great writeup by Steve O to test pheromones out that you receive. > > [How to find your sweet spot… - PheroTalk Pheromone Research Forum](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146/1) > > [An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) > > Here is also a guide to the molecules by toilofday. > > [Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/basic-noob-phero-bootcamp/2159) > > Once you’ve read these, they are very very helpful in understanding these products so much better. You will TAILOR these things specifically to you and your body chemistry. You being your personality. > > **Ammunition:** This product is a great overall product in cologne strength. You can spray this and go. This has enough alpha, sexual, and social vibe to give it a great all around product. This product has Androsterone, Androstenone, and Alpha Androstenol. You will hear all over the forum to be careful in ODing on Androstenone, this is because this can amplify desire, but can also amplify dislike. Follow the sweet spot guide to help you find the right sprays for you. > > **Instant Shine:** A majority of the people that report on this pheromone is that it makes you feel good. When you feel good, people around you feel good. It helps give you that vibrant, healthy, virile, appeal. As for OD, it is harder to do it with this because it’s considered a social pheromone. People have also reported that there is a “Crash” that happens after the effective time frame of the pheromone wears off. Some attribute the crash to a caffeine crash. > > **Instant Openness:** This pheromone has Androstenol in it. Both alpha and beta. This mix contains 70% of Alpha Androstenol and 30% of Beta Androstenol. This gives the wearer and people exposed to it a chatty appeal and has them essentially open up with the user. This has been reported that it has had an “ice breaker” effect when speaking with people. It’s got great uses around bars/clubs and has been one of the many favorites amongst forum users. > > **Instant Honesty:** This is the other product that has more of the Beta Androstenol than Alpha Androstenol. The mix is 70% Beta Androstenol and 30% Alpha Androstenol. This product provides results like Instant Openness but the conversations are deeper. Instant Honesty will give you more of a bonding feeling by having deeper conversations. This is like Instant Openness but users have found this really shines in environments where there has already been rapport established and you’re looking to deepen the connection you have. This is one of my more favorite products when it comes to potential LTR material for social situation. Reports also have shown that Instant Honesty works well in business situations where you would like to have that trust from your clients/coworkers/bosses/subordinates. > > **Turn up the heat:** This is a very sexual pheromone, this is primarily made up of Androstenone, this can help you in situations that are more sexual in nature. Remember that Androstenone can work with you or against you. People have had great results and also bad results. Remember that your personality and how you handle situations will determine how things will go. There have been reports that it may have a build up and isn’t encouraged to be sprayed on your head. Also users have found that spraying on your chest works well too for diffusion and for less blatant in your face signature when wearing TUTH. > > **Instant Jerk:** This pheromone will probably give you the most blatant proof of how pheromones work. Results include user feeling more aggressive than normal. There is also a sexual component to it and certain women will react positively with this. This used to be made with couplins, right now this has a high Androstenone dose. Be very careful when testing this pheromone, because Androstenone is polar, it can give you positive reactions one time, while giving you negative reactions in another. > > **A314:** This is an Androsterone heavy product. It is made with 9 pheromones to help steer the trust and respect product. Many many users have used A314 as a base for their everyday use as either a stand alone or with mixes. This can be toned up or down depending on which steering pheromones to use. Many professionals and sales people have used this pheromone to improve their sales. All others have used this to further their Alpha status in both personal and professional lives. This is a slower diffusing pheromone being this is the only oil (Dipropylene Glycol) based one (for now) in the AD product line. A314 also have been reported that it takes a while for the results of the pheromone to surface, it is a slow change within the user and people affected and generally it takes about a month of consistent applications to see more results. > > **A314 1.23/a & b:** These are newer introductions on the product line. These are made to be just like A314 but in a convenient alcohol spray version. The positives are its quick application and on to go uses. The downsides are it doesn’t last as long as the oil version. As stated on the website, the “a” version is slightly more potent than 1 drop of the oil, and the “b” version is as potent as 1 drop of the oil version. Most members here use this as their starting point in their usage with A314. Some members here also use this as a quick reapplication for those who need a quick refresher when they are on the go. > > **Instant Gentleman:** Instant Gentleman another product by AD that is a heavier base of Androsterone. There have been comparisons to A314 as being the “big brother” of the more serious and stern product. Instant Gentleman has a sexy quality about it that gives it preference in social situations with some members. The warmth of the effect the Instant Gentleman offers gives less of an authoritative vibe yet still giving the respectability. This gives the user the vibe of “Prince Charming”. Instant Gentleman users have reported a respect vibe along with a sexy and fun aspect. For those who like A314 but do not have any social or sexual additions to add onto A314, Instant Gentleman is a great alternative. > > Good luck and Happy testing! ---
**Author:** ![Tacarov](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tacarov/32/2132_2.png) [@Tacarov](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tacarov)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2012, 11:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-mone-will-make-an-ex-from-10-years-ago-notice-and-want-me-again/54529/11 "2012-02-11T23:04:32Z")
> [@set4life](#): > > This forum has been extremely helpful. My friend and I see each other often just in passing. She always smiles because I know she remember the good times we used to have. We both work at the same university. I make her laugh still. I tell her how beautiful she is, but she won’t budge on us getting back together. i feel like I can do this w/o the pheremone but i can do better with it. hey if it’s not to be, I can live with it. > Now she is not the only girl I want but she would be number one!! Alright, I may not be the most insightful here, but it sounds like you may have placed yourself in the friends zone. Something we all do or have done, now obviously I’m not in your shoes and can’t see the type of relationship you two have. I could be totally off, but that is what I am seeing based on what you said. All is not lost however, it is an uphill battle to change someones opinion of you, especially when you two have have known someone for as long as you have her. Yet no matter the circumstances there are a few generalities that usually apply. You say you tell her how beautiful she is often, showering her with compliments is nice and all. I understand where you are coming from, or at least I think I do, but this has never worked for me and based on some of the other threads I’ve read in the past it isn’t a tactic that has a high success rate. I would suggest trading some of these compliments for some joking / teasing. Just remember not to put her on a pedestal. Some other suggestions would be (based on how often you see her of course) would be to be a bit more “busy” Out of curiosity how often do you talk and how often do you get together? I think the long term key here is to display high social value, which a314 is excellent at. At your age, I believe none output has decreased and women have begun to find it more attractive so ammo could work particularly well for you. I dont believe you said, what is her approximate age? > [@set4life](#): > > Do you suggest also getting the newbie kit to get me started? Also…all the IG and P74 and MX22!!! Man it’s like you guys are talking greek!!! Take a look at the previous post. It can be confusing at first but trust me you will pick it up rather quickly. Of course we are always here to help if you need anything. Please don’t hesitate to ask. ---
**Author:** ![set4life](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9fc29f/32.png) [@set4life](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/set4life)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2012, 11:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-mone-will-make-an-ex-from-10-years-ago-notice-and-want-me-again/54529/12 "2012-02-11T23:43:50Z")
She is 47/48. We see each other maybe once every 2 weeks in passing in hall. We do email each other a lot. Look…I really want her but most of all to just open up to me. You are right we are friends but…it goes a little deeper that that. Its a lot i want to say but there are some personal things that goes way back. Personal meaning nothing bad but extremely good. When i get my $25 GC i think i will start out with Ammo and IH If my money is right maybe A314. Thanks my friend ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2012, 7:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-mone-will-make-an-ex-from-10-years-ago-notice-and-want-me-again/54529/13 "2012-02-12T07:16:35Z")
> [@MclarenMercedesF1](#): > > how do you know if youve been made a reporting user? You will usually be told on the forum but if you miss that, you also get an email saying “your profile has been modified” and you get a pleasant surprise the next time you log into the store! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![set4life](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9fc29f/32.png) [@set4life](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/set4life)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 7:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-mone-will-make-an-ex-from-10-years-ago-notice-and-want-me-again/54529/14 "2012-02-13T19:31:59Z")
Thanks!Still waiting for my gc. Guess i aint getting it. ---
**Author:** ![Tacarov](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tacarov/32/2132_2.png) [@Tacarov](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tacarov)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 7:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-mone-will-make-an-ex-from-10-years-ago-notice-and-want-me-again/54529/15 "2012-02-13T19:55:21Z")
> [@set4life](#): > > Thanks!Still waiting for my gc. Guess i aint getting it. Hey man, it does take a few days to get the GC, but if you check [your introduction thread here](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-north-carolina/54518) you will see that Mickaelia asked you to provide some more information so that you would qualify. You might also want to check out the [first post in this thread.](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) It should be pretty quick for you to head onto the other thread and fill out a bit more about yourself. 🙂