# which one should i buy? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [August 20, 2013, 2:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-one-should-i-buy/59843 "2013-08-20T14:39:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 17\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![mrgrimm20](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d78d45/32.png) [@mrgrimm20](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrgrimm20)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2013, 2:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-one-should-i-buy/59843/1 "2013-08-20T14:39:04Z")
Okay swhich [pheromone spray](https://a314.com/product-category/spray-pheromones/) should i buy to attract this girl that i know that kinda likes me but not so much? Im trying to use this product more for like dating and stuff. Any ideas? Thanks ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Sea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.sea/32/1227_2.png) [@Mr.Sea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Sea)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2013, 7:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-one-should-i-buy/59843/2 "2013-08-20T19:27:20Z")
> [@mrgrimm20](#): > > Okay swhich pheromone spray should i buy to attract this girl that i know that kinda likes me but not so much? Im trying to use this product more for like dating and stuff. Any ideas? Thanks I am new to all this and haven’t done any experimintation my self with relationship stuff. I am more into Sales. My relationship with my Wife is Awsome. Having said that I have read through tons of posts and ammo may be a good start. Tell us more about the situation and what you know of her. Where do you see her, how do you know her, what does she like to do, how many conversations have you had with her, what were they about? There are some really awsome people here that can give you a lot of advice but the more you can tell them about you and her the better? IShine also might put her in a good mood if that is how you want to start things. Other people may have better suggestions. Study the posts and journals of others and I am sure you will find a similar situation to yours. Freindship is the best way to start rather then trying to get her to fall madly in love with you. Keep yourself in check with your own emotions and don’t let passion destroy what you are trying to build. “Love is a delicate flower and friendship its gaurding tree.” -unknown. Good Luck. ---
**Author:** ![mrgrimm20](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d78d45/32.png) [@mrgrimm20](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrgrimm20)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2013, 7:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-one-should-i-buy/59843/3 "2013-08-20T19:52:30Z")
> [@Mr.Sea](#): > > I am new to all this and haven’t done any experimintation my self with relationship stuff. I am more into Sales. My relationship with my Wife is Awsome. Having said that I have read through tons of posts and ammo may be a good start. Tell us more about the situation and what you know of her. Where do you see her, how do you know her, what does she like to do, how many conversations have you had with her, what were they about? There are some really awsome people here that can give you a lot of advice but the more you can tell them about you and her the better? IShine also might put her in a good mood if that is how you want to start things. Other people may have better suggestions. Study the posts and journals of others and I am sure you will find a similar situation to yours. Freindship is the best way to start rather then trying to get her to fall madly in love with you. Keep yourself in check with your own emotions and don’t let passion destroy what you are trying to build. “Love is a delicate flower and friendship its gaurding tree.” -unknown. Good Luck. Wow, well said :o Thanks a lot bro, ill take all this into consideration, i just order ammo to go and it will be arriving tomorrow hopefully and ill try it out and tell u how it goes. ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Sea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.sea/32/1227_2.png) [@Mr.Sea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Sea)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2013, 8:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-one-should-i-buy/59843/4 "2013-08-20T20:15:23Z")
> [@mrgrimm20](#): > > Wow, well said :o > Thanks a lot bro, ill take all this into consideration, i just order ammo to go and it will be arriving tomorrow hopefully and ill try it out and tell u how it goes. Sweet, remember if you are trying to go somewhere with this relationship “TAKE IT SLOW” for at least a little while while you experiment to find your sweet spot. One spray let it settle then observe how it effects you. Then put yourself in a position where she can be exposed for at least 20 minutes. You don’t have to talk to her if that’s not your normal thing. Do not change your behavior around her innitially or she may get wierded out. Look for hits from her and from others. She may not respond outwardly as much as others do but that doesn’t mean she isn’t affected. As she gets use to your signature increase it until you hit your sweet spot. You may have indications from others too. If people start acting irritated more then usual around you back off or try something else. Do not OD or she may run. Since you still haven’t given us much to go on this is the best I can do. Are you an introvert or extovert. Do you smile a lot. Are you playful or serious? Nobody can help if we don’t know more abot the situation. Also there are a lot of other people who are better at [Pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) use then I when it comes to relationship. Some may disagree with me but make sure that you look at what experiances they have had before you take there wod for it. One size does not fit all with -mones. Good Luck and let us know how it goes. ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Sea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.sea/32/1227_2.png) [@Mr.Sea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Sea)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2013, 8:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-one-should-i-buy/59843/5 "2013-08-20T20:41:57Z")
Oh one more thing. Read SteveO’s Introduction to -Mones > [@An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003): > > Welcome to an exciting world of [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). By joining our community you have taken a HUGE step in progressing a science that is cutting edge and still in its infancy. This community is globally important in recognizing pheromones, and Neuroinfluence Technology ? and their impact on human communication. There are thousands of posts here and thousands more users. Each one of us, including you, adds a unique dynamic to the community from our individual perspectives, experiences and our research an… ---
**Author:** ![mrgrimm20](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d78d45/32.png) [@mrgrimm20](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrgrimm20)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2013, 8:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-one-should-i-buy/59843/6 "2013-08-20T20:57:46Z")
> [@Mr.Sea](#): > > Oh one more thing. Read SteveO’s Introduction to -Mones > [An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) Ok got you 🙂 and uhm im a very very happy person, i smile everytime, laugh and im playful too idk if this helps lol ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Sea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.sea/32/1227_2.png) [@Mr.Sea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Sea)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2013, 9:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-one-should-i-buy/59843/7 "2013-08-20T21:04:21Z")
Are you that way around her. what is your current relationship with her. are you friends or does she just know who you are from a common enviorment? What is she like ---
**Author:** ![Mysterion](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mysterion/32/986_2.png) [@Mysterion](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mysterion)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2013, 9:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-one-should-i-buy/59843/8 "2013-08-20T21:35:06Z")
We can’t answer it for you because you didnt give enough details. Like, what’s your origin, what’s hers? Is she as young as you? What does “like but not so much” mean? Does it mean she likes you as a friend - you’re friendzoned? ---
**Author:** ![mrgrimm20](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d78d45/32.png) [@mrgrimm20](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrgrimm20)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2013, 10:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-one-should-i-buy/59843/9 "2013-08-20T22:50:56Z")
> [@Mr.Sea](#): > > Are you that way around her. what is your current relationship with her. are you friends or does she just know who you are from a common enviorment? What is she like Yeap im just like that with her…well here’s what happened, we were friends nd we started talking again for about two weeks , we hung out and stuff and then suddenly it went from hanging out to kissing her even tho we were just friends but we both knew we liked each other…then a week after i asked her out and idk we wouldnt really see each other and i finally told her we should take break bcuhz i felt this wasnt working and she told me she felt the same bcuhz she feels like we rushed things and that we should just be friends for now to get to know each other better bcuhz i guess she didnt feel comfortable around me…shes a very talkitive person and shes really cool but she stresses out a lot bcuhz she works and babysits but besides that i just want things to workout better. ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Sea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.sea/32/1227_2.png) [@Mr.Sea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Sea)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2013, 2:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-one-should-i-buy/59843/10 "2013-08-21T02:43:30Z")
Perfect, this is the type of stuff we need. But… we still need more. Here is why? You can hop in a car and drive all day long but if you don’'t have a destination how do you know when you have arrived. Where do you want to go with this? Do you want an LTR or do you just want to have her be a good friend you can hang out with or do you want to get her in bed in a short term relationship (if it’s the bed thing your on your own. That can get messy real fast and 90% of the time one or both of you ends up hurt)? So what is your deffinition of “Dating and stuff”? Be honest with what your intentions are with us so you can use the right product for that situation. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) is the “I’m to sexy for my cloths” spray. It may or may not cause sexual tenssion. Do not make the next move. If she wants to kiss you fine anything more wait. I am talking about ANYTHING. Here is why. If she is doing it while UTI of the -mone after she calms down or is away from you she may regret it. Then you’ve lost her or you are back to square one. Let the roots of the friendship develop. If you give a tree to much water then the roots don’t grow deep. Without deep roots it all comes crashing down when strong winds blow. Don’t shut her out so you can play hard to get just don’t give her too much right away. So coming back to my origional point. What do you want from this relationship Short term (next month to six months)? That will determine product and how to use it. It’s important that you can answer the question from her “What do you expect from this relationship?” (Those are probably not the words she will use). You don’t have to answer her completely honestly but you have to be ready for the question. I don’t know is not an aceptable answer. nether is “I just want you in bed” even if it’s true. ---
**Author:** ![mrgrimm20](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d78d45/32.png) [@mrgrimm20](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrgrimm20)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2013, 6:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-one-should-i-buy/59843/11 "2013-08-21T06:28:14Z")
> [@Mr.Sea](#): > > Perfect, this is the type of stuff we need. But… we still need more. Here is why? You can hop in a car and drive all day long but if you don’'t have a destination how do you know when you have arrived. Where do you want to go with this? Do you want an LTR or do you just want to have her be a good friend you can hang out with or do you want to get her in bed in a short term relationship (if it’s the bed thing your on your own. That can get messy real fast and 90% of the time one or both of you ends up hurt)? So what is your deffinition of “Dating and stuff”? Be honest with what your intentions are with us so you can use the right product for that situation. Ammo is the “I’m to sexy for my cloths” spray. It may or may not cause sexual tenssion. Do not make the next move. If she wants to kiss you fine anything more wait. I am talking about ANYTHING. Here is why. If she is doing it while UTI of the -mone after she calms down or is away from you she may regret it. Then you’ve lost her or you are back to square one. Let the roots of the friendship develop. If you give a tree to much water then the roots don’t grow deep. Without deep roots it all comes crashing down when strong winds blow. Don’t shut her out so you can play hard to get just don’t give her too much right away. So coming back to my origional point. What do you want from this relationship Short term (next month to six months)? That will determine product and how to use it. It’s important that you can answer the question from her “What do you expect from this relationship?” (Those are probably not the words she will use). You don’t have to answer her completely honestly but you have to be ready for the question. I don’t know is not an aceptable answer. nether is “I just want you in bed” even if it’s true. Honestly i wanted a long term relationship with her cause i really really like her:/ . Sleeping with her is not even on my mind , i just want to do things right with her. ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Sea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.sea/32/1227_2.png) [@Mr.Sea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Sea)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2013, 6:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-one-should-i-buy/59843/13 "2013-08-21T06:48:40Z")
Then from what i have read. and your personality i would recomend ammo and shine. look up what others say about that combo. shine will accent your personality. ---
**Author:** ![mrgrimm20](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d78d45/32.png) [@mrgrimm20](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrgrimm20)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2013, 6:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-one-should-i-buy/59843/14 "2013-08-21T06:57:37Z")
> [@Mr.Sea](#): > > Then from what i have read. and your personality i would recomend ammo and shine. look up what others say about that combo. shine will accent your personality. Yea i already ordered ammo yesterday and its suppose to get here by 10:30am hopefully . Im excited to try out this product \>.\< Thank you very much for all your help i really appreciate it man 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2013, 9:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-one-should-i-buy/59843/16 "2013-08-21T09:39:20Z")
No phero will make a girl want to get into a relationship if she’s not in that place already and at 19, a great many young women are nowhere near ready to pair-up. Change you approach and concentrate on having fun and a good varied and challenging social/sexual time with her and don’t push the relationship aspect at all. Take what comes with no pressure for commitment. To that end, Ammo is good but maybe consider some [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) (happy/fun/feelgood) and IG (smart/sociable/status) to use alongside it. Plus some TUTH and IO for more sexual/uninhibited environments (clubs/parties) and just have fun. If she starts to want a relationship, you will be the first to know. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mrgrimm20](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d78d45/32.png) [@mrgrimm20](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrgrimm20)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2013, 11:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-one-should-i-buy/59843/17 "2013-08-21T11:04:29Z")
> [@mobocaster](#): > > No phero will make a girl want to get into a relationship if she’s not in that place already and at 19, a great many young women are nowhere near ready to pair-up. > > Change you approach and concentrate on having fun and a good varied and challenging social/sexual time with her and don’t push the relationship aspect at all. Take what comes with no pressure for commitment. > > To that end, Ammo is good but maybe consider some Instant Shine (happy/fun/feelgood) and IG (smart/sociable/status) to use alongside it. Plus some TUTH and IO for more sexual/uninhibited environments (clubs/parties) and just have fun. If she starts to want a relationship, you will be the first to know. 🙂 Yea thats what im gonna do , just be friends and have fun till shes ready 🙂 …thanks bro 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Sea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.sea/32/1227_2.png) [@Mr.Sea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Sea)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2013, 6:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-one-should-i-buy/59843/19 "2013-08-21T18:46:10Z")
> [@mobocaster](#): > > No phero will make a girl want to get into a relationship if she’s not in that place already and at 19, a great many young women are nowhere near ready to pair-up. > > Change you approach and concentrate on having fun and a good varied and challenging social/sexual time with her and don’t push the relationship aspect at all. Take what comes with no pressure for commitment. > > To that end, Ammo is good but maybe consider some Instant Shine (happy/fun/feelgood) and IG (smart/sociable/status) to use alongside it. Plus some TUTH and IO for more sexual/uninhibited environments (clubs/parties) and just have fun. If she starts to want a relationship, you will be the first to know. 🙂 Good point about the IG I completely forgot about that one. I agree with IS going to be the key ingredient. P51mustang had a good point he said make -mones an extention of who you are not the other way around. and it takes practice like driving a car. Be yourself and let the [Pheromones](https://a314.com/) accentuate that. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [August 22, 2013, 1:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-one-should-i-buy/59843/20 "2013-08-22T01:18:49Z")
Yes - if you can be a social/sexual chamelion you can use any product/combo you like but for most of us, its far better to choose mixes that complement and support the different aspects of our personality in the best ways possible. If you don’t, the initial impression can be confusing and ultimately unproductive when you don’t live-up to it. 🙂