# Which Pheros Can Make Girls Approach Me? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 14, 2009, 2:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063 "2009-02-14T02:43:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jankren](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f0a364/32.png) [@jankren](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jankren)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2009, 2:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/1 "2009-02-14T02:43:49Z")
All my life I have always had to approach the ladies. I just wanna feel for once to be approached if you know what I mean. Just for the sake of my ego. Lets face it we all wanna feel attractive. LOL So what mix can I use so girls will feel attracted and at the same time feel comfortable and confident to make the first move? Just for info Im a 20 year old male of Indonesian descent. As for looks I rate myself 7 so basically average. Definitely not that ugly. ---
**Author:** ![tye](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/d6d6ee/32.png) [@tye](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tye)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2009, 3:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/2 "2009-02-14T03:35:27Z")
a314 and instant openess and instant honesty . this combo worked well for me when i first started using pheros. ---
**Author:** ![marty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/marty/32/714_2.png) [@marty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/marty)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2009, 4:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/3 "2009-02-14T04:02:06Z")
Well, the problem is that most girls don’t like to do the approaching. (: The best I’ve been able to do is get them to give me looks like “you better start talking to me or else.” (: ---
**Author:** ![Smelly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smelly/32/918_2.png) [@Smelly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Smelly)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2009, 4:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/4 "2009-02-14T04:29:53Z")
> [@marty](#): > > Well, the problem is that most girls don’t like to do the approaching. (: Yes. Pheros can’t “make” a girl do anything. They can only encourage her toward something she was already at least thinking about doing, anyway. And, speaking as a girl myself, many of us were taught that to approach a man in a club situation is to advertise yourself as “easy.” Girls don’t generally want to look like that to men-- or to each other. Sorry man. ---
**Author:** ![jankren](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f0a364/32.png) [@jankren](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jankren)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2009, 5:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/5 "2009-02-14T05:15:23Z")
> [@tye](#): > > a314 and instant openess and instant honesty . this combo worked well for me when i first started using pheros. Hmm, I dont think A314 is a good choice. Its gonna make me more intimidating I think. > [@](#): > > Yes. Pheros can’t “make” a girl do anything. They can only encourage her toward something she was already at least thinking about doing, anyway. What I meant by making girls approach me is not making them to suddenly like me because of the pheros. What I meant was I want pheros that make me more approachable than ladies who already have interest in me will like me even more and actually make a move about it because to be honest Im just very not good at noticing indication of interest so I often miss out or approach those who dont have interest in me. > [@](#): > > And, speaking as a girl myself, many of us were taught that to approach a man in a club situation is to advertise yourself as “easy.” Girls don’t generally want to look like that to men-- or to each other. Lol, Im not a club goer. I have never been to a club in fact. Im talking more about college and other public places. And by the way, its a myth that when a girl approaches a guy she looks easy. It all depends on how she approaches the guy. If she approaches him in whorish way then she will look easy if you know what I mean. But if she approaches him in dignified and confident way and seems intelligent then the guy will see her in a higher level once again if you know what I mean. So its all about the first impression. ---
**Author:** ![Arctortroy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/df788c/32.png) [@Arctortroy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Arctortroy)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2009, 6:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/6 "2009-02-14T06:42:35Z")
You’re a man, step up, grab your junk and take what you want. You’re biologically programmed to hit on hot chicks. Own your birth right and man up bro. ---
**Author:** ![marty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/marty/32/714_2.png) [@marty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/marty)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2009, 10:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/7 "2009-02-14T10:14:39Z")
Honestly, If you are really not picking up on the vibe, even with my best mix, the most you are gonna “usually” get is a girl who appears to be standing awkwardly close to you for no good apparent reason. That’s your cue. I mean, occasionally you will get a girl that opens you, but, that’s just rare, and most guys, even when they “want” that to happen, tend to spaz out and not know how to deal with that. you are better off trying to pick up on the subtle clues thrown out, and making an effort to actually do something about them. That’s my current gutter. “JUST DO IT” ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2009, 12:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/8 "2009-02-14T12:10:13Z")
Doesn’t work that way. Even if one does approach you she most likely will be doing it to curse you for keying her car, kicking her puppy. Women want a man that makes them feel secure, not someone who is scared of his own shadow. If your too scared to approach her even, how will you react when Big Bad Leroy Brown is coming to punch her lights out? ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2009, 1:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/9 "2009-02-14T13:24:42Z")
> [@jankren](#): > > Hmm, **I dont think A314 is a good choice**. Its gonna make me more intimidating I think. > > What I meant by making girls approach me is not making them to suddenly like me because of the pheros. What I meant was I want pheros that make me more approachable than ladies who already have interest in me will like me even more and actually make a move about it because **to be honest Im just very not good at noticing indication of interest so I often miss out or approach those who dont have interest in me**. You’re right about A314 it’s good stuff but for most guys it will not make you more approachable. It’s good to know it did work that way for Tye and shows the importance of testing things for yourself. I would think that Ammo would be best or maybe Ishine + CTTM2. BUT!!! What the others have said about women not approaching is just the way things are. The good news is that by paying attention to what is going on around you, you’ll get better at seeing IOIs. What better way to learn to pay attention than by using [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) and learning how people react to them? I think much of the value of pheromones is the learning process. Get out there and have some fun and quit worrying about details. Fun first and the rest will follow. ---
**Author:** ![AlienInspector](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9f8e36/32.png) [@AlienInspector](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlienInspector)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2009, 2:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/10 "2009-02-14T14:03:22Z")
How to get approached by a girl: (happened to me last night) 1. a314, openness, shine and either ammo/mx203 2. be at a latin dance club with lots of happy people 3. be the most confident guy on the dancefloor, imitating silly bimbo dance moves and make up even more awesome ones by yourself. 4. have fun with your friends and wait(lol) ---
**Author:** ![WildFlower](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wildflower/32/1260_2.png) [@WildFlower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WildFlower)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2009, 5:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/11 "2009-02-14T17:11:58Z")
> [@renny](#): > > I think much of the value of pheromones is the learning process. Get out there and have some fun and quit worrying about details. Fun first and the rest will follow. Spot on. Fantastic post. If I wanted someone to approach me I’d wear mega, mega doses of [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). Instant Openness is primarily used to get people talking but it’s also great for making you appear larger than life. ---
**Author:** ![ashcash](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e495f1/32.png) [@ashcash](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ashcash)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2009, 5:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/12 "2009-02-14T17:29:59Z")
from what I know..pheromones are designed to make your approach much easier, girls are less likely to approach a guy, instead they give you signes to approach them..for ex. they give you looks, smiles, playing with her hair..and sometimes much talkative.etc..but the rest is in your hand..its up to your game and how you hit a touchdown 😃..If you wear a good phero, and a girl gave you a sign to approach her, but you played dead (not responding to her sign or you were scared to approach her) dont blame the phero..its already did its magic but you didnt finish up well…now your question should be _ **Which Pheros Can Make My Approach Much Easier** _?..thats depends on you..as you know pheros are a blind of chemistery, and your body is filled of chemistry too, what may work for me, maybe wont work for you..and what may work for you maybe wont work for someone else, think about it as the _lock-key_ model..your body is the lock and the phero is the key..since human have different chemistry ( different locks), so different chemicals ( pheros) ( different keys ) will reacts in their bodies..good luck!😃 ---
**Author:** ![jankren](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f0a364/32.png) [@jankren](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jankren)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2009, 11:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/13 "2009-02-14T23:41:26Z")
> [@Arctortroy](#): > > You’re a man, step up, grab your junk and take what you want. You’re biologically programmed to hit on hot chicks. Own your birth right and man up bro. You aint helping man. You are making me more insecure. 😃😃😃 ---
**Author:** ![cabledawg299](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/a9adbd/32.png) [@cabledawg299](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cabledawg299)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2009, 2:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/14 "2009-02-15T02:14:21Z")
> [@jankren](#): > > All my life I have always had to approach the ladies. I just wanna feel for once to be approached if you know what I mean. Just for the sake of my ego. Lets face it we all wanna feel attractive. LOL > > So what mix can I use so girls will feel attracted and at the same time feel comfortable and confident to make the first move? > > Just for info Im a 20 year old male of Indonesian descent. As for looks I rate myself 7 so basically average. Definitely not that ugly. Ok when i want the ladies to pick me up, (in other words when i feel a little lazy) i always do the same thing and it works like a charm last week i went out and had at least 5 girls open me. its easy. so first i shower clean and then put on some nice new clothes add my secret combo mix and enjoy my drink(captain and coke) relax a little and enjoy the view and they will come to you!!! ---
**Author:** ![ashcash](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e495f1/32.png) [@ashcash](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ashcash)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2009, 2:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/15 "2009-02-15T02:31:01Z")
> [@cabledawg299](#): > > Ok when i want the ladies to pick me up, (in other words when i feel a little lazy) i always do the same thing and it works like a charm last week i went out and had at least 5 girls open me. its easy. so first i shower clean and then put on some nice new clothes add my secret combo mix and enjoy my drink(captain and coke) relax a little and enjoy the view and they will come to you!!! so whats your _secret combo mix_ ? 😃 ---
**Author:** ![jankren](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f0a364/32.png) [@jankren](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jankren)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2009, 5:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/16 "2009-02-15T05:58:15Z")
> [@cabledawg299](#): > > Ok when i want the ladies to pick me up, (in other words when i feel a little lazy) i always do the same thing and it works like a charm last week i went out and had at least 5 girls open me. its easy. so first i shower clean and then put on some nice new clothes add my secret combo mix and enjoy my drink(captain and coke) relax a little and enjoy the view and they will come to you!!! I asked for help. ‘Secret combo mix’ is definitely not the answer Im looking for. 😠:D:angry: ---
**Author:** ![terry0400-40](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/terry0400-40/32/1915_2.png) [@terry0400-40](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/terry0400-40)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2009, 11:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/17 "2009-02-15T11:36:08Z")
> [@jankren](#): > > All my life I have always had to approach the ladies. I just wanna feel for once to be approached if you know what I mean. Just for the sake of my ego. Lets face it we all wanna feel attractive. LOL > > So what mix can I use so girls will feel attracted and at the same time feel comfortable and confident to make the first move? > > Just for info Im a 20 year old male of Indonesian descent. As for looks I rate myself 7 so basically average. Definitely not that ugly. I have had girls approach me in bars and clubs and just about every time it was because they were interested in having a sex with me. Ok, Regarding a girl/woman approach you, There are so many variables involved in this equation that this discussion could go on and on for days or more. You could be wearing the most perfect pheromone application on the planet, but it will all depend upon other circumstances as well as the pheros. As well as acting upon her emotions and whims a womans actions also are dictated by the immediate enviroment and the social conditions prevailing at the time. You would probably have to keep your self a resonable distance from other males/competition if you are not prepared to act/dress in a manner that is congruent with the pheromone signals that are being transmitted. If you are in an enviroment that is casual and relaxed and is frenquented by many females and few males then in that case your phero mix will have a better chance of attracting some attention your way. Or you may be lucky enough to be the object of a females desire because there is something about you that attracts her attention. The pheromones may well attract a female to you if you have enough positives going in your favour with regard to circumstances and conditions. Once you have attracted and broken the ice with a girl because of your looks and pheromone signature the next step is in keeping the girl interested in you. An attractive pheromone signature will initially be a distinct advantage in your quest for female companionship, But as to what happens later all depends upon your personality and personal charisma ie charm. Remember that first impressions stay in the recipients mind, That is what i have read and it may probably be true. So then if first impressions make a big difference i would say you would have to be seen as being visualy appealing as well as sporting an irrestable pheromone mix if you are looking to be hit on. Personally the times that i have been hit on is mostly when women girls and sex were the last thing on my mind, and it was usually something stupid that attracted them, like the way i had my hair, or because a coat or a peice of clothing ect had made me look cute. Speaking of “cute” There is many a cute and handsome guy that has been left standing in the cold as an ugly faced baboon of a man walks off centre stage with the beautifull girl hand in hand, and all ya can think at the time is… What the \*\*\*\*'s goin on ??? Yes yes yes females do approach men and boys that is an absolute fact. B B B But I can give u some sound advice Please do not hold your breath while you are waiting. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2009, 1:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/18 "2009-02-15T13:42:46Z")
> [@WildFlower](#): > > If I wanted someone to approach me I’d wear mega, mega doses of Instant Openness. Instant Openness is primarily used to get people talking but it’s also great for making you appear larger than life. Great point about IO. It’s taken me a long time to learn to appreciate the value of IO. If there is a “spotlight” [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) it’s a-androstenol and IO is tempered to really bring out the best in a-androstenol. I’m using it more and more. ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2009, 2:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/19 "2009-02-15T14:45:11Z")
You’ve received some excellent advice here (women want to be approached, have fun first, etc) but _to answer your question_ … [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and other light/fun, purely social phero products are your best best. Add a genuine smile and some effective eye contact and that’s as good as it gets. It helps if send her some body language signals of approachability … that’s how we women do it 😉 but be aware that if you expect a woman to approach, you’re setting a dynamic where you’re the passive one in the relationship. Is that really what you want? If you’re a sub at heart, maybe it is … not that there’s anything wrong with that! 😛 Agree that A314 would be intimidating, and to be congruent with that one or with Ammo, _you’d_ have to be the initiator. ---
**Author:** ![cabledawg299](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/a9adbd/32.png) [@cabledawg299](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cabledawg299)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2009, 4:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063/20 "2009-02-15T16:40:20Z")
> [@jankren](#): > > I asked for help. ‘Secret combo mix’ is definitely not the answer Im looking for. 😠:D:angry: secret combo mix 10 sprays turn up the heat 2 sprays come talk to me 2 then go to a strip club…😃 [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/which-pheros-can-make-girls-approach-me/26063.md?page=2)