# Whoa. What?! **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 3, 2012, 4:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759 "2012-06-03T16:39:52Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1

**Author:** ![Syn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/syn/32/2340_2.png) [@Syn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Syn)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2012, 4:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/1 "2012-06-03T16:39:52Z")

Ladies, I think I might have truly made a mix of liquid witchcraft. O\_\_o Well yesterday, I went on an excursion with a large group of friends. I wore two drops of my pink sugar sample vial that contained Eow on my wrist and wore three concentrated drops- one drop on each side under my ear and one in the middle of my clavicles. I wore two drops of Cleo. One spray of [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A and two sprays of TAH. I think I used quite a lot without even realizing it. Anyway, I definitely had hits galore. I was feeling confident too. 🆒 I remember I was walking alone to get a drink and this janitor kept saying hi to me and giving me this cheesy wink while looking up and down, which I really don’t care for so I’d politely say hi back and keep walking. Another would be an acquaintance who seems to acknowledge me on and off. I don’t know him well, or like him in that manner, but I just notice sometimes he’s all over getting to know me in one meeting and doesn’t even look at me in another meeting. I can’t say I care, I don’t know him well at all. XD Well yesterday, he could not stop staring and smiling at me. He’d sneak me compliments or try to chat me up while being more.. respectful. Cool~ All the other hits were mainly stares and smiles. We all went to a housewarming party of a friend’s later and there, multiple friends that I knew were then being a lot more flirty and chatty with me. I kept it nicely and friendly of course. ^^ Now here’s the meat of the story and where things take a huuuuuge turn. I have a particular friend who I don’t exactly see often, but when we see each other, we are close. I used to like him, and he supposedly liked me back but it wasn’t in the serious sense that I had for him. He’s a nice guy, but he always likes somebody and then they date for a month and he breaks up. Apparently, he didn’t like me enough to even date me. He had a really superficial race complex at the time too. Sucked and all, and through all of the awkwardness and on and off friendship, I got over him and finally moved on to my lovely current boyfriend. \<3 This friend and I are still friends and we’re still close when we meet. Nearly every time we’re together, we may play-fight, tickle, get competitive, share funny things or awesome music, and he always ends up turning into a giant puppy and lays in my lap while I scratch his scalp and play with his dreadlocks and rub and gently scratch his back. Usually when I do this, it calms him down greatly and he either turns into a big cuddle baby or sleeps. It’s pretty cute. Friends in general enjoy when I massage their scalp or their back. Anyway, this is how things usually go. Not but last night.. nope.. This time, when he was laying on my lap and I was gently rubbing and scratching his back and playing with his dreads, it was different. **First** , I noticed he would squirm a bit. Hm, maybe he’s trying to shift because he was uncomfortable! Nope. The small squirming continued. **Second** , my lap became a lot warmer. He was breathing onto my lap. Hm, maybe my lap is obstructing him! I’ll shift a little. Nope. His entire head was warmer and he was breathing into my lap. **Third** , now he’s breathing audibly louder! Holy shit, what? Is he okay? I ask him and he quickly nods and says yes in a more airy than usual voice. **Fourth** , get ready, he begins making tiny sounds. At this point, I can’t lie to myself, I know something is up. Then it happens, HE LETS OUT A MOAN. AND MORE MOANS. _OHHHHH MYYYYY GODDDDDD!!_ And as if his tiny moans and groans aren’t shocking enough, in one moan, he mumbled “I love you” but I don’t think he realized it. I had to stop there. I asked him again, “are you okay..?” my eyes wide open with confusion (and slight amusement) and he tells me yes. But then I ask, Me: Are you…? _Starts doing random hand movements_ Him: What? Me: You know..! Him: Huh? Me: AROUSED! Are you aroused?! You’re giving all the signs of arousal and all I’m doing is rubbing your back and playing with your hair like I’ve always done for our entire friendship. You have never reacted like this before..! O\_\_O Him: Yes.. I don’t know why I’m suddenly so sensitive. I didn’t bring him up saying he loves me because one, I am taken and I either love or leave and two, our friendship has already gone through enough awkwardness and me being over him has enabled our friendship to be in a great place. I don’t want to endanger that (although this is awkward as hell on its own.) Not only that, I think that was just him speaking mumbo jumbo because of the state he was in from me caressing him. The way he was squirming, he truly was being pleasured without actually being pleasured and that just shocked me. It’s as if his entire body turned to an erogenous zone. I never expected to even witness anything like this in my entire life. I’m still so shocked about it all. I haven’t spoken to him about his sudden erogenous sensitivity. I find this both weird and interesting but I don’t have any desire to delve into this. .\_.; When people say copulins have the best effect on those who know you, they weren’t lying.. After everything “calmed down,” I noticed, he would periodically give me the most intense stare. Not directly, he clearly didn’t want me to notice. I remember in his car, I felt like I was being stared at but he was facing forward. So I look up at the rearview mirror, and sure enough, his Scorpio eyes are giving me the most intense stare. It was almost like a glare without being a glare. It was really intense. He wouldn’t take his eyes away too when I looked at him. Man.. Let’s see, other than that, I noticed my temperament was shorter. My friend’s younger sibling was constantly making rude and stereotypical jokes and comments towards me because I am black. It was really annoying and made her look ridiculous. We even saw a mural of an orangutan and she got so rude, she had the audacity to say it was my relative and I immediately expressed offense at her “joke.” That must have been the IS/A at work because I was not taking crap that day! I though my two sprays of TAH would chill me out! XD **EDIT:** OHHHHH MYYYYYY GODDDD OH SHIT, HE REMEMBERS. OH GOD [http://i49.tinypic.com/2cenaqg.png](http://i49.tinypic.com/2cenaqg.png) [http://i50.tinypic.com/1hccok.png](http://i50.tinypic.com/1hccok.png) Holy craaaaaaaap!! I decided to talk to him about it because it was just stuck on my mind. He replied after saying it was on an impulse and can’t explain why he said it. I’ll just leave it at that! ---

**Author:** ![\_honeyrose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/_/8dc957/32.png) [@\_honeyrose](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/_honeyrose)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2012, 6:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/2 "2012-06-03T18:02:39Z")

That poor guy didn’t know what hit him! It’s incredible what [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) can do, thanks for sharing your lethal mix & story haha. His reaction was priceless! ---

**Author:** ![Syn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/syn/32/2340_2.png) [@Syn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Syn)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2012, 6:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/3 "2012-06-03T18:24:05Z")

Holy crap, you quoted all that? You know my post is quite long, right? XD Anyway, no prob~ But yes, it seems this mix was pretty potent and had pretty shocking results on one particular friend! It definitely started out subtle.. but man! ---

**Author:** ![\_honeyrose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/_/8dc957/32.png) [@\_honeyrose](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/_honeyrose)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2012, 6:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/4 "2012-06-03T18:52:25Z")

Woops, I just hit reply and didn’t think much of it! Yeah those results were crazy! Definitely not a mix you want to mess around too much with. And him being a Scorpio makes things that much more intense. I was kind of iffy on buying EoW but now I’m really curious (: ---

**Author:** ![Syn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/syn/32/2340_2.png) [@Syn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Syn)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2012, 7:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/5 "2012-06-03T19:09:45Z")

Yes, Honeyrose! I will keep my mixes much more friendly. I was supposed to see my boyfriend last night which was why I went free with the cops. But he couldn’t make it to the party and my Scorpio friend was the one who escorted me and a friend of his. It seems our time together enabled him to get quite the long exposure to my cops. EoW can really intensify a mix but I didn’t think it would take its effect THAT far! I had this guy squirming and moaning in my lap just from petting and caressing him, I felt like I was some kind of.. _gentle dominatrix!_ [![](https://us1.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/uploads/pheromonetalk/original/2X/f/f7d2786571b594653aa0fdee9f647d2226223179.gif) ](https://64.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4el8nsje91qihztbo1_500.gif) ---

**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2012, 2:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/6 "2012-06-04T02:48:59Z")

The sexual attraction was already there however this friend probably always kept it on a leash before because the timing wasn’t right. The mix just influenced him to unleash it or at least made it difficult to keep it on a leash. Cops have a tendency to do that. We communicate attraction in 4 different ways. Verbally, pheromonally, body language and through touch. Any one of the 4 can trigger a sexual response depending on the guy. You have already been sending one single to him continuously with the massages. Two was probably a bit more then he could take. The after glare was a normal reaction from men when they get these signals and it go’s no where. Think about how you would feel if someone got you riled up then pulled away before the main event. Same thing, you feel frustration confusion and somewhat agitated. Be careful with your cops because you don’t want to ruin good friendships by making people uncomfortable and frustrated. If your wearing them around your friends skip the intimate touch. A hug and kiss is fine in greeting but massages and scratching heads and backs are more intimate in there nature. Take it from a witch, be careful with your potions 😉 Tisha ---

**Author:** ![Syn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/syn/32/2340_2.png) [@Syn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Syn)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2012, 4:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/7 "2012-06-04T04:36:58Z")

Hehehe, definitely shall do! Yeaaaah, I don’t want to wade in forbidden waters. ^^; I’ll have to lower my affections. As for the staring, he always does it, as if to keep an eye on me. I’ve noticed it for about two years now and I’ve just accepted it as a part of his nature. This time though, it was intense. I don’t know if it was anger and frustration emanating from his eyes, but it felt more like.. curiosity and desire. Which is completely understood. ---

**Author:** ![Andsoitgoes](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/andsoitgoes/32/220_2.png) [@Andsoitgoes](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Andsoitgoes)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2012, 4:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/8 "2012-06-04T16:43:14Z")

Yup. I’ve experienced firsthand some experiments gone awry. Be careful with the cops! 😛 ---

**Author:** ![Syn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/syn/32/2340_2.png) [@Syn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Syn)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2012, 7:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/9 "2012-06-04T19:19:51Z")

> [@Andsoitgoes](#): > > Yup. I’ve experienced firsthand some experiments gone awry. Be careful with the cops! 😛 Seriously, this experiment went way awry! I know I’m a self-proclaimed mad social scientist, but I’m not trying to create a zombie out of my friend! XD At least I can say I’ve learned a lot from this. A lot about the power of copulins through extended exposure.. and a lot about him! [![](https://us1.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/uploads/pheromonetalk/original/2X/b/b9044dab3fe5d316e0e7c36b8d6e712b2653fd75.gif) ](https://64.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ljqdm4kAUb1qc0hek.gif) I’m still so shocked that he said he loved me though, especially because of what our friendship has gone through regarding feelings. I don’t think he realized he said he loved me so it’s nothing I’m going to bring up to him or anybody (except you all. Thank you, anonymity!) ---

**Author:** ![Andsoitgoes](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/andsoitgoes/32/220_2.png) [@Andsoitgoes](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Andsoitgoes)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2012, 9:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/10 "2012-06-04T21:02:02Z")

It’s powerful stuff! Maybe he just buried all of those feelings because he thought you were over him..? ---

**Author:** ![Syn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/syn/32/2340_2.png) [@Syn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Syn)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2012, 2:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/11 "2012-06-05T02:31:02Z")

> [@Andsoitgoes](#): > > It’s powerful stuff! Maybe he just buried all of those feelings because he thought you were over him..? He has every right to.. but yeesh, I get over him and he wants me back? Typical male move, I swear. -\_\_- I used to like like him. Since the first day I met him, I found him extremely attractive and found we had a lot in common which was a huge plus because I’m into a lot of things the masses have no interest in or shun, but with him, I could be completely open. As we grew closer, I liked him to the point of fantasizing about him daily. Finally, my feelings came to light in spring last year but he sort of rejected me saying he likes me, but not in a serious way and he doesn’t really know what he wants, which is code for, “I’m not that into you.” His actions contradicted such words greatly, but I decided I’m not going to give myself false hope. Not only that, but regarding his race complex, he decided he doesn’t like black women and prefers women of a different race. He got a girlfriend two weeks later and basically went on a dating binge all of last year dating everyone but me. Sucked, but that’s life. Our friendship became on and off because I hated the way crushing on him made me behave. I’m not a dramatic person so I wasn’t on some any “WHY WON’T YOU LOVE ME?!” bullshit, but I became increasingly distant from him to the point of not even greeting him if I saw him. I would periodically cut him off so I could enable myself to get over him. Out of sight, out of mind. I say periodically, because he would somehow sneak back into my life and I would gradually allow it until I notice I wasn’t over him. XD Finally, the longest time I cut him off was about 3-4 months and that period was the charm because I was in a happy place and actively dating a close friend of mine who unfortunately passed away six months after we began dating. :\ I let this friend back in my life and everything was good. I actually saw him as a friend now and held no qualms about everything that happened. Even though things didn’t turn out the way I wanted, it’s not like he actually wronged me. Everything was going swell. I began dating my boyfriend in January of this year and my friend met my boyfriend and they were very cordial which I appreciated. Hell, he better be. I was cool with all of this dude’s girlfriends! XD R-e-s-p-e-c-t! When I look at my friend now, I see qualities in him that I know may not be good for me to deal with. Also, looking at the pattern of his relationships, I feel like I would end up as another 1-month girlfriend. It’s not like any problems have stemmed because I have moved on. But it’s like now that I have moved on, he’s allowed this to happen. This “accidental admittance.” Was it his pleasure talking? Was he allowing his true feelings to come out? I wonder. ---

**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2012, 10:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/12 "2012-06-05T10:35:06Z")

> [@Syn](#): > > Holy crap, you quoted all that? You know my post is quite long, right? XD > Anyway, no prob~ But yes, it seems this mix was pretty potent and had pretty shocking results on one particular friend! > It definitely started out subtle.. but man! > [@\_honeyrose](#): > > Woops, I just hit reply and didn’t think much of it! > > Yeah those results were crazy! Definitely not a mix you want to mess around too much with. And him being a Scorpio makes things that much more intense. > > I was kind of iffy on buying EoW but now I’m really curious (: No biggie: SteveO was here to save the day and fix it right up for yah 🙂 ---

**Author:** ![Syn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/syn/32/2340_2.png) [@Syn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Syn)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2012, 11:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/13 "2012-06-05T11:55:16Z")

OH SHIT, HE REMEMBERS. OH GOD [http://i49.tinypic.com/2cenaqg.png](http://i49.tinypic.com/2cenaqg.png) [http://i50.tinypic.com/1hccok.png](http://i50.tinypic.com/1hccok.png) Holy craaaaaaaap!! I decided to talk to him about it because it was just stuck on my mind. He hasn’t replied after this and frankly I’m terrified of continuing this conversation so I’m letting it die here!! ---

**Author:** ![Andsoitgoes](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/andsoitgoes/32/220_2.png) [@Andsoitgoes](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Andsoitgoes)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2012, 1:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/14 "2012-06-05T13:59:56Z")

Holy smokes, girl!!! I’m curious to know what his next move will be. You update us immediately if he says anything else lol ---

**Author:** ![\_honeyrose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/_/8dc957/32.png) [@\_honeyrose](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/_honeyrose)\ **Post date:** [June 6, 2012, 9:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/15 "2012-06-06T21:55:21Z")

Whoah girl sounds like he’s in denial, when he went on a dating binge he was probably really confused because he probably was never into a black woman before. But since you are currently dating someone it was a good choice to let that convo end there! And I agree with Andsoitgoes definitely keep us updated (: ---

**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2012, 3:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/16 "2012-06-07T03:06:12Z")

If your over him why did you feel compelled to bring it up to him ? Are you sure you have moved on ? Loving and being " in love " are two very different things. The trick is to know the difference when someone says it to you. Especially when sexual attraction is involved. He is your friend, you have a past, there is going to be some measure of love. Words are just words. I am a person who reads what people are saying with there mouths shut and I am actually very good at it. > [@](#): > > **he’s allowed this to happen**. This “accidental admittance.” Was it his pleasure talking? Was he allowing his true feelings to come out? Do you really want to know LOL His feelings of sexual attraction came out. Men associate love with sex and arousal more then women do. However don’t read more into it then there is. Unfortunately in relationships the phrase “all you need is love” is a myth. If he loves you he will show it in other ways. You allowed this to happen as well by bringing up what he said and allowing intimate touch. I know some people are more prone to touching then others its part of their personality and nature. However just as pheromones are a form of communication so is touch. > [@](#): > > Nearly every time we’re together, we may play-fight, tickle, get competitive, share funny things or awesome music, This is a mild form of expressing attraction and there is attraction on both sides or you wouldn’t be friends to begin with. > [@](#): > > lays in my lap while I scratch his scalp and play with his dreadlocks and rub and gently scratch his back. This is a form of intimacy and signals something beyond friendship especially to a male. My advice is if you truly want to be over him and strictly friends. Stop the intimate touch. Don’t read more into the words. Its actions that show a persons true feelings. He is definitely sexually attracted to you. Your action of allowing intimate touch and bringing what he said up to him are signaling to him loud and clear that you still have those feelings for him. Unless you want to pursue something with him, next time he lays his head in your lap get up and go get a drink or something then come back in the room like nothing happened and sit somewhere else. This will signal. I love you as a friend dude but it stops there. Tisha ---

**Author:** ![Syn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/syn/32/2340_2.png) [@Syn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Syn)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2012, 9:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/17 "2012-06-07T09:25:17Z")

I brought it up to him because I was so surprised by the whole thing and couldn’t get it out of my head. I kept wondering if that really happened or if I imagined that. I’m not taking his words seriously however, because of the situation. I mean.. the situation was clearly slathered in sexual tension and him saying that obviously was a result of it. Besides, I’ve always paid attention to action more than words! 😛 You kidding me? Dudes will say aaaaanything to get what they want! Here’s the thing about this guy that concretes the fact that he’s not that serious about me (well besides saying it last year LOL): His attraction to me comes out the strongest when he’s in an altered state. He has kissed me MULTIPLE times on an impulse last year and _every time_ I have stopped the kiss and rejected him. For the many times he has kissed me, he was drunk. If he wasn’t drunk, he had _some_ alcohol in his system. Now this time, not only did he have a beer, he was hot and bothered from me petting him like a pup and said he loved me. Tisha, I’d have to be a madwoman to take this kind of conduct seriously! As for being over him, I do believe I am. I believe I am because if I had the opportunity to enter a relationship with him, I honestly doubt I would take it. The past awkwardness we shared, him being interested in every girl who even looks at him, our rare times in seeing each other- I feel a relationship _shouldn’t_ be in the cards. I’m happy with our friendship. I _used to_ want to be in a relationship with him, but once the infatuation disappears, you begin to see things a lot differently. Him basically admitting a sexual attraction is nothing new to me at all. XD Young, Scorpio, male, it’s always been pretty obvious. I cannot deny that this is also my fault. You’re definitely right about our encounters being too intimate. It’s not the impression I want to give off, but I suppose I’ve allowed it because it grew into a norm in our friendship. :\< Anyway, I’ve already decided I won’t be engaging in such things anymore to keep our friendship in the friendship lane. I haven’t talked to him since that message. **Forgot to add, after my reply in the screenshot, he said, “It was kind of impulsive. I can’t really explain why it happened.” and I simply replied with “Understood. ^^” to end it.** I haven’t talked to him since that day. But that doesn’t bother me at all since it’s not a conversation I want to delve further into. Anyway, it’s pretty clear this admittance was a heat of the moment type thing and was purely superficial. If his feelings match his words, his actions would show it, would they not? I appreciate how eager he is about me when we’re in each other’s presence but we’re usually in each other’s presence _by chance_. It’s not something usually planned. I wasn’t curious about his feelings toward me. I was curious on if that actually happened or if my hearing is turning bad! XD ---

**Author:** ![Syn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/syn/32/2340_2.png) [@Syn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Syn)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2012, 9:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/18 "2012-06-07T09:32:05Z")

> [@\_honeyrose](#): > > Whoah girl sounds like he’s in denial, when he went on a dating binge he was probably really confused because he probably was never into a black woman before. But since you are currently dating someone it was a good choice to let that convo end there! And I agree with Andsoitgoes definitely keep us updated (: Hahaha! I don’t think he went on a dating binge solely on my account. I think he went on a dating binge because he’s a fickle ol horny guy! XD I appreciate how polite he is, but the dude’s a dude! What can I do~ Not my cup of tea~ But I know who is! \<3 _Ze boyfriend_ He definitely was confused over supposedly liking me. He had a lot of internalized racism and it was pretty sad. He’s matured a lot since then. ---

**Author:** ![Sarafina](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f4b2a3/32.png) [@Sarafina](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sarafina)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2012, 8:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/19 "2012-06-09T08:36:11Z")

Lol that sounds hilarious. literrally moaning? Crazy. why push him about the “love you” thing..you’re attached so let that go also tell your “friend” to tell her racist sibling to piss off. Frankly you shouldnt even be hanging with such a person/people. Tell them off once and be done. is your IS/A full bottle or to go? ---

**Author:** ![Syn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/syn/32/2340_2.png) [@Syn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Syn)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2012, 11:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759/20 "2012-06-09T11:29:28Z")

> [@Sarafina](#): > > Lol that sounds hilarious. literrally moaning? Crazy. > > why push him about the “love you” thing..you’re attached so let that go > > also tell your “friend” to tell her racist sibling to piss off. Frankly you shouldnt even be hanging with such a person/people. Tell them off once and be done. > > is your IS/A full bottle or to go? Oh whoa, I’m not trying to get anything further, I was honestly just confused on if that happened or not. It was.. bizarre! We are pretty close friends, but the whole relationship thing is a sailed boat I’m not waiting for to return. As for my friend, I admit, his sibling’s conduct has me on my toes. But because he did talk to her and explain how disrespectful she was being, I do appreciate him for that. The girl is an acquaintance so it’s not as if I’m actively trying to hang with her (she’s kind of annoying but that day just put the nail in the coffin. I refuse to associate with her even if she’s my friend’s sibling.) But in general, I have to watch for these things because society kind of normalizes this behavior. Often, people do it and they don’t even realize the weight of their words. When someone of another race tells me something like, “Oh you’re such a nice black girl, you’re not like all the others!”, they genuinely think they’re complimenting me but what they’re showing is that they attribute an entire race with bad and praise me for being “an exception.” It’s actually very insulting. Regardless, I don’t have much patience for that kind of thing. I’ve already lost a few friends for thinking because I’m their comrade, they are impervious to racism and can go calling someone that dreaded and oppressive word out of anger. Nothing of value was lost~ 😉 My IS/A bottle is to go. ^^ [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whoa-what/55759.md?page=2)