# Why am I only getting hits from women???????? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 8, 2007, 12:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-am-i-only-getting-hits-from-women/2985 "2007-04-08T00:54:21Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 17\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![fullmoonnow](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fullmoonnow/32/1821_2.png) [@fullmoonnow](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fullmoonnow)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2007, 12:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-am-i-only-getting-hits-from-women/2985/1 "2007-04-08T00:54:21Z")
Just started using [pheromones](https://a314.com/) and sadly to say, 9/10 of my hits are from women. Does this make me a lesbian? 😕 I don’t mind women getting all chatty around me, but they ALSO go strange/quiet/red in the face especially when in close proximity. They also get the shivers. Am I using the wrong products? Grrarr!!! I am not gay!! \>\> using MX134, Alphanol, Inst Sexiness, Inst Honesty ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2007, 1:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-am-i-only-getting-hits-from-women/2985/2 "2007-04-08T01:16:55Z")
it only makes you a lesbian if you want to kiss them. 😛 where are you when you get these hits? For me at work - most of my hits come from women, I think because most guys don’t feel comfortable getting fresh in the office - so you have to look for subtle ways that you are working your magic on folks. when I’m out socially they come from both, but men tend to be far more overt. ---
**Author:** ![ilsa](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ilsa/32/1552_2.png) [@ilsa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ilsa)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2007, 1:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-am-i-only-getting-hits-from-women/2985/3 "2007-04-08T01:20:53Z")
> [@fullmoonnow83](#): > > Just started using pheromones and sadly to say, 9/10 of my hits are from women. Does this make me a lesbian? > > 😕 > > I don’t mind women getting all chatty around me, but they ALSO go strange/quiet/red in the face especially when in close proximity. They also get the shivers. Am I using the wrong products? Grrarr!!! I am not gay!! > > \>\> using MX134, Alphanol, Inst Sexiness, Inst Honesty It would be interesting to know where you were at when these hits occurred. And also, which version of [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) are you using? A or B? ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2007, 1:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-am-i-only-getting-hits-from-women/2985/4 "2007-04-08T01:24:53Z")
lol just like YOU arent gay, you arent making the WORLD gay with your pheromones.😉 also,it just may be that you are misreading what you see. i know alot of men that dont know how to spend time with women that they have no intention of dating, they dont know how to behave. sounds like maybe you or these women arent sure how to interpret behaviour because if someone responds it must be sexual? sounds like you are getting great hits, and attention from women are positive and dont mean they want you. i adore women. when i get hits from women i am as excited to have a hit as i do from men. it means your stuff is _working_ 🙂 phermones arent only about sex. its about _rapport_, which you are achieving … yay! 😉 your problem might be that you are using pheromones that you arent comfortable with. 2 of those mixes are TAL based. maybe its time to try something _TAH based_. its a _softer_ pheromone. it could also be that you are getting hits,but you arent seeing them. how long have you been using these mixes? in what dose? do you mix them? maybe we can narrow down what doesnt work. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![fullmoonnow](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fullmoonnow/32/1821_2.png) [@fullmoonnow](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fullmoonnow)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2007, 1:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-am-i-only-getting-hits-from-women/2985/5 "2007-04-08T01:39:22Z")
Answers in no apparent order: 1. Where do I use them pheromones - In the workplace, where I spend pretty much all my waking hours. 2. How long have I been using them - Androtics: about 1 week. The cheapo alphanol was a filler because my package from Androtics was delayed: about 1 month. 3. Dose/mix: Two sprays of 1x strength - usually to the devil horns and/or wrists and/or neck. I don’t mix the pheromones as I want to check what each one does on its own. 4. Am using Instant Sexiness A - The irony is that its the only overtly [sexual pheromone](https://a314.com/product-category/sensual-pheromones/) I ordered, in a togo bottle as well. Was not really planning to attract anyone at this stage, just to fool around and experiment a little with the ‘social lubricant’ aspects of pheromones. 1. Possibility of misreading female signals - The last time I checked, the last time I got ‘the full body shivers’ along with a red face = when I was turned on in an inappropriate social situation. Another possibility was that they were trying to control some other bodily function. Ugh. Now I’m grossed out. My pheromones make people fart. 2. Possibility of not reading male signals - So far nothng spectacular. If anything, they become really quiet and subdued, even the usually extroverted ones. ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2007, 1:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-am-i-only-getting-hits-from-women/2985/6 "2007-04-08T01:43:13Z")
Hmmm..i wonder if perhaps you do need some softening up with TAH then. Since both MX134 and IS-A are TAL heavy. Are men clamming up when you wear just alphanol or [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/)? Another possibility is that you are affectign the guys, but since you are at work, they figure best to keep their mouths shut. ---
**Author:** ![fullmoonnow](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fullmoonnow/32/1821_2.png) [@fullmoonnow](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fullmoonnow)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2007, 1:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-am-i-only-getting-hits-from-women/2985/7 "2007-04-08T01:54:38Z")
No the men don’t get subdued on instant honesty, it’s the MX134. Funnily enough the women couldn’t stop talking to me when I wore the MX134 two days ago to work. Every single floor I visit, the women would want to sit me down and tell me their life story. It was all very fascinating and I was thrilled that I was connecting with them so easily considering the age gap. But this chattiness - I thought that was an alphanol attribute?? Also, how long do pheromones last? ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2007, 1:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-am-i-only-getting-hits-from-women/2985/8 "2007-04-08T01:57:57Z")
I think it’s a TAL tribute as well - Women got chatty with me last night too, and I had scads of it on. And different molecules last different ranges, but with most of the sprays I’d says 3-6 hours, for residuals. So anyways - you should get something with TAH in it - maybe [Instant Sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) and see how the men act when you are wearing that one. ---
**Author:** ![fullmoonnow](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fullmoonnow/32/1821_2.png) [@fullmoonnow](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fullmoonnow)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2007, 2:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-am-i-only-getting-hits-from-women/2985/9 "2007-04-08T02:02:44Z")
The chattiness was extreme to the point where it was interfering with my work. I find it amusing now but I was extremely stressed at that time - funny it didn’t show on my face. Imagine the following scenario: Older lady: “And when I was working in XXX XXX in '94, they used to blah blah blah.” Me: nod nod, that’s very interesting. “I really have to go now, but it was interesting talking to you.” Older lady: “Would you want to stay and have some chocolates? You did a very good job on the [insert task here].” Me: “I would love to, but I really need to go now” (mobile goes off) Younger lady: “Don’t go, would you like to share my lunch with me?” Me: “Haha, I really have to go now.” (mobile goes off again) repeat for whole day. Unless of course, I got ‘[Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)’ instead of ‘MX134’ which would be hilarious. ---
**Author:** ![fullmoonnow](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fullmoonnow/32/1821_2.png) [@fullmoonnow](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fullmoonnow)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2007, 2:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-am-i-only-getting-hits-from-women/2985/10 "2007-04-08T02:04:41Z")
Oops sorry nunya, didn’t see your post there. I will look into [instant sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/). These togo bottles are tiny… looks like I could finish them in about 10 sprays! 😃 Time to go sleep, I am exhausted..! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2007, 4:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-am-i-only-getting-hits-from-women/2985/11 "2007-04-08T04:42:15Z")
Hi Fullmoon I get alot of hits from women. Women are generally more social so thats normal. The Redfaced shivers is probably from smelling a new scent and should go away once they get used to that. It could happen with alot of scents not just mones. My friend at work does that when she smells my Bpal scents. MX134 for me is a helpful ,take care of, kind of mix. Guys seem to want to do my job for me at work. At least the manly stuff like pushing and lifting. I also seem to get more respect when wearing it. Now that I am thinking on it the Beta type males do sort of back off and get quiet when I wear MX134. The Alpha’s are the ones who seem to want to help me. Hey thats interesting I have to play with my 134 more. Maybe you do need to add TAH to soften it more. MX134 could be changing your own signature enough that it is a little confusing to the men. The men in your office could be Betas as well but I will have to test this theory more. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![LaurieNY](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/bbce88/32.png) [@LaurieNY](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LaurieNY)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2007, 2:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-am-i-only-getting-hits-from-women/2985/12 "2007-04-09T02:10:42Z")
MX134 and IS/A may be causing what people refer to as the VIP effect, which means people are so overwhelmed by your awesomeness that they’re a little scared to speak with you…hence the boys shutting up. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![thr3shold](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thr3shold/32/2316_2.png) [@thr3shold](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thr3shold)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2007, 6:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-am-i-only-getting-hits-from-women/2985/13 "2007-04-09T06:49:24Z")
If someone were to find a magic mix to turn women gay, destroy it at once! If this mix were to fall into men’s hands it would surely be the end of the human race… ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2007, 10:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-am-i-only-getting-hits-from-women/2985/14 "2007-04-09T10:38:56Z")
> [@thr3shold](#): > > If someone were to find a magic mix to turn women gay, destroy it at once! If this mix were to fall into men’s hands it would surely be the end of the human race… hahahahahaha 😃 ---
**Author:** ![ziezi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ziezi/32/507_2.png) [@ziezi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ziezi)\ **Post date:** [October 14, 2012, 4:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-am-i-only-getting-hits-from-women/2985/15 "2012-10-14T04:42:40Z")
> [@fullmoonnow](#): > > The chattiness was extreme … Imagine the following scenario: > Older lady: “And when I was working in XXX XXX in '94, they used to blah blah blah.” > … > Me: “I would love to, but I really need to go now” (mobile goes off) > Younger lady: “Don’t go, would you like to share my lunch with me?” > Me: “Haha, I really have to go now.” (mobile goes off again) > > repeat for whole day. > > Unless of course, I got ‘Instant Openness’ instead of ‘MX134’ which would be hilarious. Unbelievable! I just wonder if a man wear this stuff, whether it will works the same way? ---
**Author:** ![DssMaster](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dssmaster/32/1686_2.png) [@DssMaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DssMaster)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2012, 12:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-am-i-only-getting-hits-from-women/2985/16 "2012-11-05T12:31:13Z")
> [@ziezi](#): > > Unbelievable! > I just wonder if a man wear this stuff, whether it will works the same way? Yes I’m wondering the same here…😛 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2012, 1:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-am-i-only-getting-hits-from-women/2985/17 "2012-11-05T13:14:05Z")
> [@ziezi](#): > > Unbelievable! > I just wonder if a man wear this stuff, whether it will works the same way? > [@DssMaster](#): > > Yes I’m wondering the same here…😛 No not exactly the same. They are aware they are responding to a women and there is more of a comfort level there so they let go easier. I imagine the effect men would see would be more subdued not because they are not feeling it but simply because your male. By the way MX134 is the female version of A314. Just use that with a lot socials with it. Tisha