# Why Good Girls Love Naughty Boys **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [April 16, 2007, 12:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-good-girls-love-naughty-boys/3160 "2007-04-16T12:54:14Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 55
**Author:** ![PheroQuirk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9e8a1a/32.png) [@PheroQuirk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroQuirk)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2007, 11:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-good-girls-love-naughty-boys/3160/55 "2007-06-10T23:41:42Z")
As tacitus was saying… > [@Where to go to meet women?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/where-to-go-to-meet-women/479/39): > > The sad, bad fact of life is that the great majority of hu-chimps (that’s US, dearie) are, well… gloriously mired up to our necks in a lot of dysfunctional poo… annnnnd when boy chimp meets girl chimp the dumbest, ,most primitive, tape playing-est, reactive, reflexive parts of our minds are activated… slight_smile which is why it is “relationships” that bring out the deeply established patterns in us, for better, worse, or boring as hell… In my personal history of relating and observing, th… The sad, bad fact of life is that the great majority of hu-chimps (that’s US, dearie) are, well… gloriously mired up to our necks in a lot of dysfunctional poo… annnnnd when boy chimp meets girl chimp the dumbest, ,most primitive, tape playing-est, reactive, reflexive parts of our minds are activated… which is why it is “relationships” that bring out the deeply established patterns in us, for better, worse, or boring as hell… In my personal history of relating and observing, this basic point keeps returning to my attention… p**eople feel powerful unconscious attractions to other people who function at the same level of automaticity (or cruise control, or auto-pilot, if you prefer)…** --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-good-girls-love-naughty-boys/3160)._